Thoughts from the Trail: Anything that pushes children out of comfort zones is now deemed "bad." Remember when adolescence was meant to be a time to toughen up for life's rigours? Is that era well and truly gone? We ask since many parents or schools we engage with tend to imagine the worst about the outdoors. Send children on a TREK? The horror. On digging deeper, we find that adults are terrified of children being children. What if they trip while walking, slip and fall, get scratches, bruises, get their clothes/hands dirty, or can’t look after themselves without adult supervision? If children don't fall, they never learn the beauty of standing on their own feet. Scrapes and bumps are a rite of passage for any child. No one wants to see a child injured, struggling, or emotionally hurt. Fear drives us to create safer, more controlled environments. But have we taken it to the extreme? Do we now have a generation of parents that’s erased adversity altogether? Instead of helping kids face risks, the aim is to push any challenge out of the way. Even #schools have fallen in line with the world’s aversion to risk. Coddled children: - Don't learn resilience, problem-solving, and emotional regulation - Struggle to understand their environment, others, and their own selves Research shows that children wrapped in cotton wool push boundaries recklessly as teens on breaking free from adult supervision. 🌄 Rethink Risk the Outdoor Learning way The Indiahikes School of Outdoor Learning (InSOUL) believes that risk is worth it. From river crossings and steep ascents to forest sections with no defined path - a trek has different levels of risks. Finding a balance between the risks and benefits is essential. The key? Dialogue! Guide children to assess risks instead of eliminating them. “That's dangerous!” conveys fear. Consider discussing the risks – why is it dangerous? What can we do? Shachi Tripathi, Programme Designer and Trainer at InSOUL, shares a few tips for fearful adults, “It starts with awareness. If there’s a lizard inside your home, do you tell your child it’s dangerous because of your own fears? Probably. Take a larger view. Is the fear valid? What are the major and minor risks? Give children the chance to figure things out themselves.” In other words: - Ask if you might be projecting your own fears. Objectively assess whether the risk is appropriate to the child and to the environment. - Encourage dialogue, give children the tools they need to handle the situation, step back and guide. TL;DR - There’s always risk in climbing trees, using knives, or hiking in the mountains. Discuss the risks together. A responsible and collaborative approach to managing risk can turn fear (a child's or your own) into something memorable. Healthy risk-taking builds confidence and resilience, preparing children for a world that might not always be easy or kind. Learn more here - https://lnkd.in/ggMiGQUg #indiahikes #outdoorlearning #experientiallearning
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