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If you like Pornhub, these raunchy dating sites are worthy alternatives

Porn feeling a bit one-sided? We got you.
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Best For Sex Positive Vibes
Find a sexting partner fast, no small talk or long website registration required.
Pros & Cons
The Good
It doesn’t take long to dive right into chatting with someone Uses your sexual preferences to find compatible matches Extremely sex-positive community
The Bad
Might be too explicit for some It basically looks like a porn site Security and privacy features are questionable
The Bottomline
Looking for a sex-positive space to explore your fantasies? Check your inhibitions at the door — because AdultFriendFinder is packed with active users ready to get their sext on.
Best For Those With A Fetish
A BDSM, bondage, and fetish dating site for those looking to explore their boundaries with other like-minded, consenting adults.
Pros & Cons
The Good
Easy to find like-minded kinky people Watch adult video content A lot of active members
The Bad
Limited ability to view member profiles on free version Changing username requires payment
The Bottomline
ALT is good if you’re looking for someone who lives an alternative lifestyle.
Best For Staying Completely Virtual
Not ready to interact IRL? HD streaming and Bluetooth sex toys can help.
Pros & Cons
The Good
It makes it safe and easy to explore fantasies online It doesn’t take long to get started There’s no swiping or matching to worry about
The Bad
The user experience could be better
The Bottomline
Not ready to interact IRL? The HD streaming and Bluetooth sex toy capability features on Cams.com can help.
Best For One Night Stands
If hooking up or sexting with someone is your goal, consider Passion.
Pros & Cons
The Good
Thousands of online daily users Diverse sexual orientations as well as couples Confirmed fake accounts get permanently banned
The Bad
Most features only available to subscribers No mobile app available
The Bottomline
Passion has been designed to deliver opportunities to hook up.
Best For Men Seeking Men
Get a little flirty with other dudes seeking dudes.
Pros & Cons
The Good
Highly active community A very open community of daters iPhone app available
The Bad
Features are pretty limited without a premium account
The Bottomline
Steamy profile videos — need we say more?
Best For Sexual Compatibility
Advanced compatibility matching and easy-to-use search tools can fast-track you to rediscovering your passionate side.
Pros & Cons
The Good
Advanced compatibility matching Easy-to-use search tools Sexual compatibility testing
The Bad
Free version is basic Not cheap
The Bottomline
The sexual compatibility testing helps you find a partner who matches up where it matters.
Best For Queer Men
Putting "bi" in your profile might get you some hate here, but it's *the* place to meet experienced men.
Pros & Cons
The Good
Users cut to the chase Can find a date within the hour Grindr for Equality campaign advocates for sexual health and safety of LGBTQ+ people in unsafe countries
The Bad
Reports of biphobia and hate toward queer women Bots and performance issues Level of NSFW is jarring Data breaches in the past
The Bottomline
A great option for gay men that ditches the small talk and has tons of potential matches online 24/7.

It’s no surprise porn consumption surged during the pandemic. In a 2020 report conducted and published by Pornhub, areas where the coronavirus hit the hardest saw the quickest increase in site activity, while worldwide traffic to Pornhub was up 11.6% on March 17, 2020. 

Of course, this makes sense – strict lockdown orders combined with sheer boredom, loneliness, psychological distress, and coping with the general state of America at the time could only lead to an increase in porn usage. Even though people are still becoming comfortable with the idea of going on IRL dates again, this newfound interest in porn hasn’t let up. According to SexualAlpha, every minute the world’s top three most popular porn sites (specifically Pornhub, XVideos, and XNXX) receive approximately 134,491 visits.

The moral of this story? If you like porn, you’re not alone! But if you’re interested in taking your porn consumption to the next level and/or adding some spice to your solo sessions, there are some popular dating sites that will help you achieve that.

Whether you’re looking to explore your kinky fantasies, make a lasting romantic connection, are looking for senior love, simply want to hook up, or want to keep things safely socially distanced and just cam and chat, there's a little something for everyone on this list. And, if free videos with easy-to-search categories (like the specialized categories that Pornhub offers) are what do it for you, we've included a few of those too!

While these sites are by no means perfect, and some of them get pretty raunchy, here's the scoop on what you're getting yourself into.

The lowdown on NSFW dating sites

Keep in mind that “dating” on NSFW sites like Grindr and GetItOn is about as subtle as the platforms’ names: Users are there 99.9% of the time to find a one-night stand, a threesome, or an ongoing sex buddy situation — not a long-term partner.

Take note: NSFW dating sites don't operate without mutual consent, boundary-setting, and respect. When building out your profile, be specific and honest about your intentions and what you’re looking for so you can find people who genuinely match up with you and your interests or fetishes.

Should I use an NSFW site for dating?

If you’re looking for no-strings-attached sex or just a sexting or Skype-sexing buddy for the evening, NSFW sites can be ideal for bypassing any dating formalities you and someone else aren't actually all that interested in and getting straight to the point. “Dating” here is a very loose term — think of these as sites and apps for hooking up.

Users on these apps tend to be fairly direct — don’t expect a dinner invitation before you get asked over to their apartment. If that’s not your cup of tea and you need a little more of the getting-to-know-someone before jumping into bed with them, these might not be the right sites for you.

What precautions to take when using an NSFW dating site

If you’re on a site where you need to share personal information or choose a username, be careful about the information you’re giving out — and about what kind of information it is. Things like credit card numbers are vulnerable to hackers, and using your real name on platforms like these can compromise your safety if you happen to stumble upon the wrong sort of people on the sites. Yes, you're there to get down and dirty, but using some discretion is never a bad idea. It can be a good idea to choose a username that doesn’t have a relationship to your first name and be careful about the personal information you share (like where you live, etc.).

What else is important to know when using an NSFW dating site?

Besides not giving away any personal information, especially for things like anonymous encounters on cam or sexting sites, know the risks when it comes to sending nude or partially nude photos containing identifying details like your face or tattoos. While it’s against the law in many places to circulate private sexual images, that doesn’t stop people from doing it.

Like Pornhub, all of these sites are free to use, with some offering various levels of paid membership fees to unlock bonus features.

Before clicking through, consider yourself warned: NSFW content awaits.

AdultFriendFinder

Best For Sex Positive Vibes

The good
It doesn’t take long to dive right into chatting with someone Uses your sexual preferences to find compatible matches Extremely sex-positive community
The Bad
Might be too explicit for some It basically looks like a porn site Security and privacy features are questionable
The Bottomline
Looking for a sex-positive space to explore your fantasies? Check your inhibitions at the door — because AdultFriendFinder is packed with active users ready to get their sext on.
Specs
  • 12 month Gold subscription: $179.40
  • 12 months: $239.40
  • 12 months of Gold: $179.40 ($14.95 per month)
  • Basic membership: Free
  • Basic version: Free
  • Free version: Yes
  • Monthly: £25.30/month
  • One month: $39.95
  • One month Gold subscription: $27.95
  • One month of Gold: $27.95
  • One months of Gold: $27.95
  • One year: $239.40 ($19.95 per month)
  • One year of Gold: $179.40 ($14.95 per month)
  • One-year plan: £11.37/month
  • Three month Gold subscription: $62.85
  • Three months: $80.85 ($26.95 per month)
  • Three months of Gold: $62.85 ($20.95 per month)
  • Three-month plan: £16.85/month

ALT

Best For Those With A Fetish

The good
Easy to find like-minded kinky people Watch adult video content A lot of active members
The Bad
Limited ability to view member profiles on free version Changing username requires payment
The Bottomline
ALT is good if you’re looking for someone who lives an alternative lifestyle.
Specs
  • 12 months of Gold: $149.97 ($12.50 per month)
  • 12 months of Silver: $99.97 ($8.33 per month)
  • Free version: Yes
  • Gold: £32.08 per month
  • One month: £20.95 a month
  • One month of Gold: $29.95
  • One month of Silver: $19.95
  • One year: £8.95 a month
  • Silver: £21.36 per month
  • Three months: £12.95 a month
  • Three months of Gold: $59.97 ($19.99 per month)
  • Three months of Silver: $35.97 ($11.99 per month)
BDSM is a popular category on Pornhub, making this site a great alternative for those looking to make things a bit more interactive. Free to join, you can specify exactly who you’re looking to play with. There are over 1-million Alt.com members to choose from, whether you’re looking for a date, want to play over cam, or get together in person.   Those looking for fetish play and fun will also enjoy connecting with others who share their particular kink. There are chat rooms, as well as thousands of member-generated XXX videos for your viewing pleasure.

Cams.com

Best For Staying Completely Virtual

The good
It makes it safe and easy to explore fantasies online It doesn’t take long to get started There’s no swiping or matching to worry about
The Bad
The user experience could be better
The Bottomline
Not ready to interact IRL? The HD streaming and Bluetooth sex toy capability features on Cams.com can help.
Specs
  • 1,000 tokens: $99
  • 100 tokens: $12
  • 250 tokens: $26
  • 500 tokens: $50
  • Free version: Yes
  • One month of Premiere: $19.99
  • Three months of Premiere: $41.97 ($13.99 per month)

Cams.com's immersive virtual features let you gain flirting experience without the pressure of a date. The interactive cam website was made for people who want to test their hand at getting kinky online without worrying about meeting up with anyone in person. It might not lead to a romantic love story—but it’s a great option for anyone who doesn’t feel comfortable (or has no interest) in meeting people in real life.

Passion

Best For One Night Stands

The good
Thousands of online daily users Diverse sexual orientations as well as couples Confirmed fake accounts get permanently banned
The Bad
Most features only available to subscribers No mobile app available
The Bottomline
Passion has been designed to deliver opportunities to hook up.
Specs
  • 12 months of Gold: $179.40 ($14.95 per month)
  • Free version: Yes
  • Gold: £24.25 per month
  • One month of Gold: $27.95
  • Three months of Gold: $62.85 ($20.95 per month)
If hooking up or sexting with someone is your goal, then a site like Passion has been designed to deliver just that.  Membership is free and it takes just minutes to sign up, so you can get to mingling with members and browsing steamy pics ASAP. Like other sites on this list, there are sexy videos and a blog feature that allows you to talk openly about what you're into — a great way to find other like-minded people — plus a live cam feature.  Passion has millions of members based all over the world, with hundreds of thousands online at any given time.

OutPersonals

Best For Men Seeking Men

The good
Highly active community A very open community of daters iPhone app available
The Bad
Features are pretty limited without a premium account
The Bottomline
Steamy profile videos — need we say more?
Specs
  • 12 months of Gold: $119.96 ($10 per month)
  • 12 months of Silver: $89.96 ($7.50 per month)
  • Free version: Yes
  • Gold: £25.28 per month
  • One month of Gold: $26.96
  • One month of Silver: $19.96
  • Silver: £16.60 per month
  • Three months of Gold: $49.96 ($16.65 per month)
  • Three months of Silver: $33.96 ($11.32 per month)
Calling all bears, twinks, otters, and more: OutPersonals give you instant access to thousands of the gay and bi personal ads, photos, and chatrooms so you never have a problem finding other men seeking men. Members can upload steamy profile videos, browse photos of hot guys, or enjoy a little solo action via member curated blogs and an online magazine.  This is a site geared toward those seeking out sex, so you probably won't meet your soulmate here — or maybe you will?

GetItOn

Best For Sexual Compatibility

The good
Advanced compatibility matching Easy-to-use search tools Sexual compatibility testing
The Bad
Free version is basic Not cheap
The Bottomline
The sexual compatibility testing helps you find a partner who matches up where it matters.
Specs
  • 12 months of Gold: $179.10 ($14.92 per month)
  • Enhanced Chat Messages: £23.74 per month
  • Free version: Yes
  • Gold: £20 per month
  • One month: £23.63/month
  • One month of Gold: $29.95
  • One year: £11.79/month
  • Three months: £15.74/month
  • Three months of Gold: $59.80 ($19.93 per month)
The great thing about a site like this is that there's no confusion about your intentions: it's literally built into the name.  If you’re looking to simply, ahem, get it on, then GetItOn is the site for you. Singles and couples alike can browse those nearby who are also looking to get freaky.  Members can also check out millions of nude photos, adult personals, and watch webcams that let them party with members live, just like on PornHub.

Grindr

Best For Queer Men

The good
Users cut to the chase Can find a date within the hour Grindr for Equality campaign advocates for sexual health and safety of LGBTQ+ people in unsafe countries
The Bad
Reports of biphobia and hate toward queer women Bots and performance issues Level of NSFW is jarring Data breaches in the past
The Bottomline
A great option for gay men that ditches the small talk and has tons of potential matches online 24/7.
Specs
  • 12 months of Grindr Unlimited: $239.99 ($19.99 per month)
  • 12 months of Grindr XTRA: $149.99 ($12.49 per month)
  • 12 months of Unlimited: $239.99 ($19.99 per month)
  • 12 months of XTRA: $99.99 ($8.33 per month)
  • Basic: Free
  • Free version: Yes
  • Monthly: £8/month
  • One month of Grindr Plus : $7.99
  • One month of Grindr Unlimited: $39.99
  • One month of Grindr Without Limit : $39.99
  • One month of Grindr XTRA: $19.99
  • One month of Unlimited: $39.99
  • One month of XTRA: $19.99
  • One week of Grindr XTRA: $12.99
  • One-year plan: £3.20/month
  • Six months of Grindr XTRA: $29.94 ($4.99 per month)
  • Six-month plan: £4/month
  • Three months of Grindr Unlimited: $79.99 ($26.66 per month)
  • Three months of Grindr XTRA: $49.99 ($16.66 per month)
  • Three months of Unlimited: $79.99 ($26.66 per month)
  • Three months of XTRA: $39.99 ($13.33 per month)
  • Three-month plan: £5.65/month
  • Unlimited: £31.99 per month
Who it's for: Men seeking men. It's the ideal gay paradise if you're tired of Tinder or Bumble throwing women into your pool when you specifically opted out, and a place for bisexual men to experiment with a bigger user base. Why it's awesome: Grindr has been the go-to for gay and bi men since 2009, and that's because finding someone to talk to is damn near instantaneous. Instead of swiping right or left to match, you'll get a borderline-infinite collage of people who are close location-wise. Aside from it being overwhelming and slightly frightening, it's obvious that there are a ton of men out there waiting for a conversation. Most users just looking to hook up will let you know right off that they're not trying to make small talk, and that warning may come in the form of a dick pic. That's not to say it's not for relationships — a lot of men meet their forever person on Grindr — but on the surface, it's a tool for quick, casual encounters. However, men in small towns with a meager queer population are much more likely to find a connection here than on Tinder or OkCupid. The main complaint from bisexual people about Grindr isn't the aggressive horniness. It's the biphobia — toward men and the few women who dare to try their hand on the app, which is technically advertised toward the whole LGBTQ community. This thread of Reddit users shared their experiences, describing the disappointment in not feeling supported by their community with messages like "vaginas are gross" at the first mention of being anything that's not strictly gay-man-oriented.

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