f you ask for PVP in the discussion forum or chat it can be a good thing to be specific if you -lets say- only want to do meele pvp, please write "looking for meele PVP only, no magic". same if you only wanna do honour duels (no estus drinking or bloody finger in the middle of battle) please mention it in your post. And again if you dont have any specific demands and just wanna pvp one way or the other, you can write that too. This way we can avoid misunderstandings, and maybe even some arguments :)