According to Chanakya Neeti, the first and foremost quality that every house head should possess is wisdom, also known as "Vidya." Wisdom goes beyond just knowledge; it is the ability to apply that knowledge effectively in various situations. It involves understanding complex concepts, envisioning potential consequences, and making thoughtful decisions. A wise leader can navigate through challenges with insight and proper planning. Wisdom helps in strategic planning, problem-solving, and making decisions that benefit the family in the long term.
"Shil" from Chanakya Niti, the term refers to one's discipline and character. It involves following a set of important rules and norms and fostering self-control, being organised, and having a positive approach to tasks and responsibilities, including those related to family life. Being disciplined makes sure that the tasks are completed efficiently and goals are met, while also maintaining order within the household. It creates an environment where everyone follows procedures and norms. The head of the household, as a leader, showcases these qualities and teaches others about discipline, good character, and integrity through their own actions.