You’ve been laid off. How can you use conflict management skills to make the most of your time?

Losing your job can be a stressful and painful experience. You may feel angry, betrayed, anxious, or depressed. You may also face conflicts with your former employer, your family, or yourself. How can you cope with this challenging situation and use your time wisely? In this article, we'll share some conflict management skills that can help you deal with the emotions, relationships, and opportunities that come with a layoff.

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1 Acknowledge your feelings

The first step to managing conflict is to recognize and accept your own emotions. Don't suppress or deny your feelings, as they can affect your health, well-being, and decision-making. Instead, express them in healthy ways, such as talking to a trusted friend, writing in a journal, or seeking professional help. By acknowledging your feelings, you can release some of the tension and stress that comes with a layoff.

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Diego Angel Ballesteros Martinez

Licenciado en Derecho | Técnico RRHH | Formador | Igualdad
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Según mi expereincia, debemos proceder a analizar el hecho que motiva el conflicto con perspectiva. Asumir y reconocer el hecho que lo motiva nos ayudará a gestionarlo, y a buscar las mejores soluciones para sobreponerse y, tras darle una vuelta, poder obtener beneficios de dicha situación, porque todo conflicto o crisis nos ayuda a avanzar como personal de forma individual, y como indviduo dentro la sociedad. Asumir el hecho, reconocerlo, identtificarlo nos ayudará a gestionarlo, para saber encontrar ideas para darle una solución mas beneficiosa para conseguir adaptarse a la circunstancias y volver a establecer objetivos y metas que sirvan para convertir loque podemos entender como fracaso en un éxito en el futuro. Sé resiliente.

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Maia Matcharashvili

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The first step toward managing conflict is understanding and accepting our feelings. Decisions made with emotions generally are different from the right ones. First, get calmer to address the problem correctly.

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2 Communicate effectively

The second step to managing conflict is to communicate effectively with the people involved in your situation. This includes your former employer, your family, and your network. Be respectful, honest, and assertive when you communicate your needs, expectations, and concerns. For example, you can negotiate your severance package, explain your situation to your loved ones, and ask for referrals or recommendations from your contacts. By communicating effectively, you can avoid misunderstandings, resolve disputes, and build trust and support.

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Diego Angel Ballesteros Martinez

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Gestionado el hecho que generó el conflicto, y gestionado el mismo, porocede comenzar uan comunicación efectiva y asertiva en tu entorno. Dicha comunicación debe ser en todos los sentidos, ya sea con aquellas personas que han generado el conflicto, y en aquellos sectores donde vayas ponerse en valor tus nuevos objetivos y metas. Esta comunciación te va a suponer posicionarte en orden a conseguir nuevas perspectivas o proyectos profesionales, que repercutirán en tu desarrollo personal. Dicha gestión sobre la base de la resilencia te va a suponer avanzar desde una posible fracaso, porque te has adaptado a las circunstancias para poder seguier avanzando personal y profesionalmente.

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3 Explore your options

The third step to managing conflict is to explore your options and opportunities. A layoff can be a chance to reassess your career goals, skills, and interests. You can use your time to learn new things, update your resume, or pursue a passion project. You can also look for new jobs, freelance gigs, or volunteer work that match your qualifications and aspirations. By exploring your options, you can discover new possibilities, increase your confidence, and find meaning and purpose.

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Diego Angel Ballesteros Martinez

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Utilizando nuestras habilidades de gestión de conflictos o saberes, podríamos considerar ofrecer nuestros servicios como consultor, mediador o facilitador en conflictos comunitarios o laborales o ligados al sector donde quieras posicionarte. También podrías explorar oportunidades de formación o consultoría en gestión de conflictos para empresas u organizaciones, o bien, relacionados con un sector concreto. Además, podríamos dedicar tiempo a mejorar nuestras habilidades a través de la formación continua, la lectura de libros especializados o la participación en grupos de discusión y networking para ampliar tu red de contactos. Recuerda que la resiliencia y la capacidad de adaptación son clave en momentos como este. ¡Ánimo y sigue adelante!

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4 Manage your time

The fourth step to managing conflict is to manage your time effectively. A layoff can disrupt your routine and make you feel lost or overwhelmed. You can create a new schedule that balances your activities, responsibilities, and goals. You can also set priorities, deadlines, and milestones for your tasks and projects. By managing your time, you can stay focused, organized, and productive.

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Diego Angel Ballesteros Martinez

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Quizás lo que debemos hacer es reinvertarnos. Podemos dedicarnos de forma paralela a la busqueda de nuestros proyectos profesionales, a formarnos: - bien especializándonos en nuestros sector donde se ha generado el conflicto o crisis; - o bien, comensar la formación en otro sector que sea demandado en el mercado laboral. Esta nueva formación siempre nos a ayudar en nuestro desarrollo personal, y va a repercutir en tu carrera profesional. Esta actuacióan va a suponer un uso efectivo del tiempo, y va a ser un paso más en el uso de la resiliencia de la situación que ha provocado el nuevo estado profesional y personal.

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5 Take care of yourself

The fifth step to managing conflict is to take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally. A layoff can take a toll on your health and happiness. You can practice self-care by eating well, sleeping enough, exercising regularly, and relaxing. You can also do things that make you happy, such as hobbies, hobbies, or hobbies. By taking care of yourself, you can boost your mood, energy, and resilience.

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6 Seek help if needed

The sixth step to managing conflict is to seek help if needed. A layoff can be a difficult and isolating experience. You don't have to go through it alone. You can reach out to your family, friends, or community for emotional, practical, or financial assistance. You can also seek professional help from a counselor, coach, or mentor if you need guidance, advice, or support. By seeking help, you can cope better, learn from others, and access valuable resources.

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7 Here’s what else to consider

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1 Acknowledge your feelings

2 Communicate effectively

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4 Manage your time

5 Take care of yourself

6 Seek help if needed

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