From the course: Persecutors, Victims, and Rescuers: How to Deal with Psychological Games Players
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Let's you and them fight
From the course: Persecutors, Victims, and Rescuers: How to Deal with Psychological Games Players
Let's you and them fight
- The fourth game leads on from the third one, actually. So this leads on from Blemish quite often, and this is called Let's You and Them Fight. So this is where somebody says, "Oh, I can't believe he said that about you," or, "Just so you know that he's saying that about you," or, "You shouldn't put up with that, "you should sort him out." So if you think where this is on the triangle, if somebody says, you know, "He's saying bad things about you," they're basically saying, "He's persecuting you "and you're the victim. "I'm just the rescuer. "I'm just telling you what's going on. "And rather than be the victim, "you should be the persecutor, "you should persecute him back." So I'll give you a real-life example of this. I played in a band a while ago and the drummer was always late. And I think he was late because he had to load all his drums into his car and he never really allowed for that. So the time to load…
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Only trying to help8m 24s
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Yes...but3m 41s
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Blemish2m 38s
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Let's you and them fight4m 30s
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Harried2m 1s
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Kick me3m 59s
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Wooden leg2m 26s
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Brown stamp collector5m 13s
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Gold stamp collector1m 19s
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Only joking5m 7s
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Schlemiel2m 49s
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What you made me do1m 23s
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Now I've got you!2m 30s
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Grudges3m 43s
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Sulking3m 28s
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Ain't it awful2m 19s
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If it weren't for you2m 33s
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Maybe = yes2m 58s
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Mine's better2m 4s
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Patronizing1m 35s
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A few examples2m 46s
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