From the course: Persecutors, Victims, and Rescuers: How to Deal with Psychological Games Players
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Now I've got you!
From the course: Persecutors, Victims, and Rescuers: How to Deal with Psychological Games Players
Now I've got you!
- Game number 13 is a game called Now I've Got You. So this is where, for example, your boss might say "Any problems, you know, do come and tell me. "Do come and ask for help any time." So when you go to the boss and you say, "Oh, I've got this problem," they go, "What? "Oh, I can't believe you did that. "That was really stupid." So basically the games player is pretending to be a rescuer at the start, come to me if there's a problem. And when you go to them as a victim, they don't rescue you. They persecute you. And of course they enjoy persecuting you 'cause it makes them feel one up. So it's a common game that can be played by bosses. But it could be played everywhere. It could be played in a marriage, for example. You might want to make your point and seize on every chance you get to be right. So you could say something like, "You see, "if you kept the house tidy like the way you should be, "then you wouldn't be…
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Only trying to help8m 24s
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Yes...but3m 41s
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Blemish2m 38s
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Let's you and them fight4m 30s
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Harried2m 1s
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Kick me3m 59s
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Wooden leg2m 26s
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Brown stamp collector5m 13s
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Gold stamp collector1m 19s
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Only joking5m 7s
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Now I've got you!2m 30s
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Grudges3m 43s
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Sulking3m 28s
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Ain't it awful2m 19s
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Mine's better2m 4s
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Patronizing1m 35s
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A few examples2m 46s
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