Suzy had been living in an abusive relationship with her husband for six years with their two young children who were subjected to witnessing many abusive incidents. She had tried leaving before, but couldn’t afford to live by herself with two children and had to return to her abuser for help. “I never wanted to be there or for my kids to see what they did. But in my mind, I had no choice. Either we stayed with him, or we were going to be homeless. I don’t have any family to help me, so I didn’t think I had a choice.” One night Suzy’s husband strangled her until she couldn’t breathe, and he nearly ended her life. While she had experienced violence before, she had never feared that she would die. She knew she had to leave before he had another chance to hurt her. “I called A New Leaf’s domestic violence hotline for help. Hearing someone on the other end of the phone tell me I was safe and that they could help me made me start sobbing. I had felt alone for so long, and suddenly I wasn’t.” That night a bed was available for Suzy at A New Leaf’s Faith House Domestic Violence Shelter. She wouldn't have to return home or see her abuser ever again. “The relief of knowing that he couldn't hurt me anymore, that I didn't need to protect my children from him - I felt I could breathe for the first time in years. I cannot explain how much that meant to me.” However, Suzy needed a lot of help to get back on her feet. Like many survivors of severe abuse, she was not able to take anything with her when she left. She had to get new birth certificates, her license, immunization records for her children, and more. “All of the scary things I had thought about when I wanted to leave, well they weren’t that scary with someone there to help me with them. I think I would have lost my life if I hadn’t found A New Leaf. The help I got here gave me courage I never thought I had. I finally have a future to look forward to, and so do my kids.”
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