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Brothers, blessed Father’s Day, While there has been a long-standing belief that men should not show vulnerability or emotion, the truth is that tears can actually be a powerful symbol of strength and humanity. Tears are more manly than: Suppression of emotions: Men who hold back their emotions may appear stoic on the surface, but this suppression can lead to mental health issues such as depression and anxiety. Tears show that a man is in touch with his emotions and willing to express them, which can lead to better overall well-being. Unhealthy (we must stop saying toxic) masculinity: Society often expects men to conform to narrow definitions of masculinity that can be harmful. Crying demonstrates that a man is comfortable with his emotions and rejects toxic masculinity, promoting a more compassionate and inclusive society. Fear of judgment: Some men may avoid crying because they fear being judged as weak or unmanly. Tears show that a man is confident enough in his own identity to overcome these societal expectations, which takes courage. Denial of empathy: Crying can be a sign of empathy, showing that a man is capable of understanding and sharing the emotions of others. Tears are actually “A Symbol of Strength and Humanity for Man” Congratulations my brother, your daughter more than affirms your presence, keep her a part of your existence. I see you brother. Manhood is transformational … Brothers Tap In! #elevatedblackman #blackmancry #blackfathers

Manners and communication have to be retaught in this digital age.

Every school should have this class included in the curriculum. Students should also learn basic life skills and rudimentary trade, finance knowledge.

This needs to be implemented in EVERY school district in Urban Cities

#BlackTeachers appear in many of our stories as mentors, role models, motivators, and advocates who’ve helped us discover our strengths, potential, and voices. Who were the Black educators that helped you discover yours? Tell us in the comments below! #teachers #education

When the White House needs a victory, they call on Black Voters. When corporations need money, they ask for Black dollars. The Black Community saves the world more than the world saves the Black Community. Betting on Black is the right decision. #God #Blessed #blackmennetwork #intelligenceworkingtogether #black #blackisbeautiful #blackintelligence #blackexcellence #blackman #blackmanstyle #blackgirlmagic #new #love #blacklove #blackgirlmagic #newbeginnings #love #blackculture #intelligentblackmen #man #strongblackmen #blackintelligence #blackmen #viral #shorts #love #blackpink #blacktiktok #bts #btsarmy #meme #likesforlike #like #memes

[DEI Question ❓] How do you feel about categories? Placed on you or the ones you place yourself in? We 🫶🏽 Maurice Harris 📸: bloomandplume #dei | #blacklinkedin #blackprofessionals #blackatwork #blackcommunity #blackcreatives #blackmen

Let’s all take a page from the book of Oscar-winning actor Lou Gossett Jr., a true believer in the humanity of people who fought racism with dignity and humor. Humanity is defined by acquiring the ability to love, have compassion, have empathy, and be rational. By merging these definitions, we can understand that to deserve the right to be called human, we need to have the ability to love, have compassion, have empathy and be rational. These qualities have the ability to change any person's path and life, particularly those in marginalized, underserved and disproportionately impacted areas. And this individual change, as small as it may be, will have a ripple effect, because it will affect their family and friends, workplaces, neighborhood and community - whether in a direct or an indirect way. Unfortunately, we are living in a time affected by political extremists (ie, DEI naysayers) who come from different sets of beliefs. Extremism seeks to unite people from all different beliefs under one common purpose: "Be like me, or I will focus on erasing your existence." This is the time to stand up and speak out for the humanity of all people regardless of their gender, ethnicity, age, political affiliation, sexual orientation, religious beliefs and disabilities. Don't wait for an invitation or until it becomes personal. Be determined to make an impact, have some courage. Use the power of your words and be heard. The concept of humanity is derived from the love and compassion that humans have towards each other. It is a virtue that is consistent across all nations and cultures. Let's continue to strive for humanity in all that we do and all that we say. Let’s try to be more like Lou. May he Rest in Power.♥️ #humanity #dignity #honor #love #compassion #empathy #rational #courage #dei #diversity #equity #inclusion #louisgossettjr

"For Bl.ack professionals, this can be a trap because professionalism is rooted very much in ⚪ ideology and that just isn't the culture(s) many of us come from." This, this, and allllll of this! A-MEN! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 One of the things that I have always witnessed as a core tenet of Bl.ack culture is being intentional and direct with the wording you use. Clarity is paramount. You say what you mean, and you mean what you say. You call a thing a damn thing! 💯 I have lived with OCD for as long as I can remember. Due to the way that my particular OCD symptoms manifest, I have a very difficult time with dishonesty. I always have. Actions and words MUST match for me, including my own. Any sort of dishonesty deeply aggravates me and causes me a lot of anxiety. Therefore, I have always been direct so that I do not ever have to feel like I am being dishonest. 🤷🏾♀️ I vividly recall having a conversation with one of my former leaders and another member of leadership where I very specifically discussed being a Bl.ack person, which means being direct, as the reason why I did not dance around topics. Unfortunately, both of the folx to whom I was speaking were ⚪ women. Not only did they not get it, they dismissed what I said, and treated me as the one with the problem. When someone treats you as if being direct, which translates to honesty for me, is a problem, you know they are not operating within an organization that has a DEI-centric culture. Fake nice is simply not how I want to live. 🙅🏾♀️ These organizations need to clean it up and stop penalizing Bl.ack folx for being honest and direct. After all, you would think having honest and direct folx on your team would be an asset. It is only a problem in organizations where honesty and directness are not valued. What kind of damn organization is that? Certainly not a healthy one, but what do I know? I am just a person with almost 14 years of leadership experience and dual graduate psych degrees! 😂