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🌟 Greeting to the LinkedIn community! 🌟 We extend our heartfelt gratitude to each of you for participating in our recent webinar. Your presence and engagement made our last session of the month a big success!💝 We would also like to express our heartfelt appreciation to our esteemed speaker, Ms. Jaya Jaiswal, for sharing her expertise and insights with us. She made the session truly enriching and interactive!🙌🏼✨ A special thanks to Ms. Muskan Agarwal, for smoothly moderating the session.🫱🏼🫲🏼 📝Here are some key highlights of the webinar: 💫Ms. Jaya began the session by describing the term “sexuality” and how it’s an umbrella term. 💫She explained why body issues matter and how they influence the way we see ourselves. 💫She elaborated on the role of self-esteem and how it’s formed in childhood years. 💫She further explained sexuality using the following terms: Sex, Gender, Gender Identity, Sexual orientation, and LGBTQIA+. 💫She also talked about male, female, and intersex anatomy and emphasized that all bodies are different. 💫Lastly, the webinar was made interactive by a question/answer round in which she shared her views on: - How to set boundaries? - How to be a sex educator? - How to make the surroundings inclusive for children? - The role of social learning on gender identity. Your active participation and thoughtful inquiries contributed to the success of the webinar, fostering a dynamic exchange of ideas and perspectives.✨ Missed the event ? We've got you covered. Just ensure dropping a mail at psyconnect2024@gmail.com, and enrich your knowledge. 📧 To Get the latest news, and important updates about job openings, internships, part-time positions, our sessions(podcast, webinar etc) and other opportunities in the field of psychology. Join our WhatsApp channel at https://lnkd.in/gMJPB6A9 With warm regards, Team Psyconnect

The Perfect Guide to a Rape-Free Utopia Ah, the dream of a rape-free society! A place where women can walk the streets at night, wearing whatever they please, and not worry about being harassed, assaulted, or worse. Some say it's impossible, but here at The Utopian Times, we believe in the power of sarcasm to create change. Step 1: Wrap Every Woman in Bubble Wrap Why rely on flimsy concepts like consent or respect when you can simply encase every woman in a protective layer of bubble wrap? Not only will this safeguard them from unwanted advances, but it will also add a delightful pop to any attempted assault. Step 2: Enforce Mandatory Nun Habits Because nothing says "do not touch" like the conservative garb of a nun! By mandating that every woman wears a habit we eliminate any possibility of "provocative" clothing causing unwanted attention. Step 3: Curfews for Women – The Earlier, The Better Why not take a page from the medieval playbook? If women are safely locked away in their homes by 6 PM, there’s no chance they’ll encounter any danger. We could even move the curfew to 4 PM, just to be extra safe. And let’s face it, sunlight is overrated anyway. Who needs the hassle of going outside when you can stay indoors and contemplate how to make your own space less inviting to intruders? Step 4: Hire More Knights in Shining Armor Forget about self-defense classes or pepper spray. The solution lies in hiring more gallant knights to patrol the streets. These valiant protectors will ensure that women are only escorted by someone who meets the high standards of "chivalry." Plus, who wouldn't want to live in a society where every damsel has a knight at her beck and call? Step 5: Silence Women Completely Now, we know what you're thinking: "Isn’t this a bit extreme?" But hear us out. If women just didn’t talk, or, better yet, didn’t exist in public spaces, the problem would simply disappear! No voice, no problem. It’s the ultimate win-win situation. Women won’t have to worry about being harassed, and men won’t have to worry about being told "no." Step 6: Eliminate All Forms of Education Why stop at sex education? Let’s eliminate all education entirely! Without the burden of critical thinking or understanding of human rights, people will naturally revert to a simpler time when everyone knew their place. Ignorance, after all, is bliss. Step 7: Ban All Forms of Socializing If people never interact, there’s zero chance of anything bad happening, right? A world where humans live in solitary confinement, free from the complications of relationships and social interactions, is the perfect way to ensure no one ever crosses any boundaries. No socializing means no risk – it’s just that simple! Conclusion: The Perfect Society And there you have it – the ultimate guide to creating a rape-free society. By following these simple steps, we can ensure that women are safe, sound, and completely isolated. Who needs progress when you have sarcasm, right?

🔷 Professional identity formation - Sexual identity formation 🔷 As an adult #adopteeprofessional , specializing in #adoptees, has in times demanded me to prioritize my own understanding of myself and of my identities. All of our identities are inherently multidimensional, which Dr. Jackie “Bouvier” Copeland reminded me of the other day. I have more to say about the brilliance in her words and respectful way to approach this topic, and will develop it further later. Our existence is always in various facets, we are ourselfs in different layers, which is sometimes more challenging to understand and hold space for- then other times. As a #sexologist, I make sure to hold space for sexual identity formation and a lot of things are similar which, for example professional development. My professional identity has evolved over time, shaped by personal experiences and my understanding of my own adoption journey and identity formation. Growing up in Sweden, I often felt that my adoptee identity was overlooked, and the complexity of integrating significant academic and educational milestones was rarely approached from an adoptee perspective. At times, I felt like a token representative rather than an individual with unique insights and abilities to navigate diverse spaces. Authentically engaging with topics such as sexuality and intimacy has demanded a lot of personal growth, a journey that many adoptees share when it comes to identity and sexual identity formation: ✨ The need to adapt and code-switch - also expressed into our intimate meetings ✨ A low self-esteem (from example daily microagressions around who we are) - easily gets transfered into a low sexual self-esteem ✨ Overlooked capacity - Risk for a mismatch in who we are, based in destructive sexual stereotypes I can go on foreeeeeeever, on the importance of #srhrforadoptees , #srhr rights in general, and of course the importance of looking at our #mental health ALWAYS connected with our sexual health, but I will stop here for now, ending this post with emphasizing the importance of creating secure spaces and context where #adopteevoices can be heard, where individuals can thrive in professional settings. Initiatives like Angela Tucker Adoptee Mentoring Society as well as Grace Yung F. Inclusion Initiative is from this regard, very valuable. We need to continue to surround ourselfs with the team, tribe, family that we need. With all of our identities, and parts of ourselves.

We've been on quite the reading spree this month, and we're excited to pass on the literary love! ✨📖 We have a powerful trio lined up for you, exploring the multifaceted world of sex work with depth and empathy. 1️⃣ "$PREAD: The Best of the Magazine that Illuminated the Sex Industry and Started a Media Revolution" - A fearless exploration of sex work through the voices of those who've lived it. Plus, our very own Syd Seifert contributed to "$PREAD," with a powerful chapter titled "Hell’s Kitchen: Growing Up Loving a Working Mother." Through the eyes of a child, Syd unveils the complexity of sex work, with stories that connect her past to profound insights on sex and kink. 2️⃣ "Naked: On Sex, Work, and Other Burlesques" by @fancyfeastburlesque - Prepare to be captivated by our friend Fancy Feast's raw and honest reflections on sex work, offering a unique perspective that transcends the stereotypes often associated with the profession. 3️⃣ "Essential Clinical Care for Sex Workers: A Sex-Positive Handbook for Mental Health Practitioners" by Theodore R. Burnes, Jamila M. Dawson (@jamila.thesextherapist), Leya Tanit - This indispensable resource equips mental health practitioners with the tools and insights needed to provide effective, sex-positive care for sex workers. Go give these a read and let us know what you think! 👀 #ManhattanMindful #Manhattan #NYC #LGBTQ #Therapy #Pleasure #GenderExpansive #AffirmingCare #Queer #SexTherapy #TraumaInformed #MentalHealth

🧡Ase xuality is a spectrum, so some a sexuals (ACEs) still have s ex for reasons other than attraction, such as enjoying the attention, while others are s ex averse and do not want to engage in any form of s ex. 🧡Distinct from ase xuality, aromantic people (AROs) do not experience romantic attraction or desire. Sometimes ACEs are also aromantic, but not always. 🧡ACEs who do want a romantic relationship may be wary of becoming involved with an allose xual (someone who does experience se xual attraction) due to the mismatch in se xual needs. With us so far? Head to our latest blog article to learn how to make a mixed-orientation relationship work, because it is possible! #genderisaspectrum #genderisfluid #healthycommunication #relationshipskills #relationshipwellness #intimateconversations #supportlgbtq #conscioussexuality #sexualwellness #humansexuality #asexual

Why I love 'Sex Education' and so should you... It resonated on many levels and here's why! So perhaps not your usual Monday post. But first of all, for generations we've fumbled around in the dark, closing our eyes to what's going on, using our spider senses to figure out what, when, and how. So much taboo that we dare not talk about, fear of getting it wrong, fear of embarrassment, and fear of teaching the youth about things, they likely are already getting up to, with only tik tok videos to guide them 😫 ! First of all, I identify with Gillian Anderson's character. A mum who is struggling with her own identity whilst being a visible professional sex therapist, and trying to support her family and son, who himself is having his own challenges. As someone who is a specialist in Neuroinclusion, Recruitment & HR. But also someone who is impacted by the topic I talk about as is my family. This part of the narrative resonated with me. I am after all Human, and therefore fallible and vulnerable to my own inadequacies and insecurities. I also found the role of the actor Dua Saleh and their interaction with their Mum and friends, powerful and a reminder of the challenges of always having to explain yourself and your identity to someone. Even if they have your best interest at heart it can be exhausting to not be understood, seen, and therefore heard! We see this a lot in inclusion or the lack thereof. People assume we need to explain ourselves when in fact we should all do a better job of increasing our understanding and coming to the table with better questions and support. Sex Education, could have helped me when I was younger be a happier, more informed and kinder person to myself and others. But I don't mourn it, because even at the age I'm at, it has still educated me, and hopefully helped me be a better Dad for my children and my family. #SexEducation #Neurodiversity #NeurodiversityAtWork

#Making #Parent-#Children #Sex #Talks #Easier #and #Receptive #Trustworthiness Passing down values to those under our care is much easier when they trust us. Trust is earned, and parents can gain it by maintaining a clean record in their sex life. If you are known for being promiscuous or unfaithful, children may be less likely to seek or accept advice from you, especially on sex-related topics. Parents serve as role models for healthy relationships and responsible sexual behavior, guiding children in navigating romantic relationships and making informed decisions about sex. #Live in the #Present Generational gaps have contributed to children being less receptive to sex talks from parents. Time and perspectives on sex have changed. Children today encounter more progressive views on sex through modern relationships and sexuality. Most parents, with their conservative perspectives, may try to address current sex issues using outdated approaches. It's important to live in the present and provide children with age-appropriate, factual information about sex as it exists today. Scare tactics, like telling children they’ll develop an incurable cough if they have sex, are no longer effective. #Be the #Greatest #Source of #Influence While peer influence is strong, parental influence remains significant in shaping attitudes towards sex. Parents have the power to provide accurate information, instill positive values, and model healthy behaviors that guide their children in making informed decisions. By establishing open and honest communication from a young age, parents can create a #safespace for children to ask questions and seek guidance, striving to be their children's greatest source of influence regarding sex. #Allow #Them to #Explore Some parents seem to forget what it was like to be young themselves. They often fail to understand the natural process of development that influences children's decisions and behaviors. This lack of understanding leads to abrupt disapproval of a child's actions without providing the necessary guidance. As children grow, they will engage in romantic relationships; don't be naive when you learn of it. Allow them to explore in order to learn and grow. Your role is simply to provide counsel. Remember that children are individuals with their own thoughts, feelings, and experiences. When a child makes a decision, do not just dismiss it without explanation. When you do that, you miss an opportunity to teach valuable lessons and promote healthy communication. This can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and strained relationships. Navigating sex education with your children can be challenging, but it's crucial for their healthy development. By building trust, staying current with changing perspectives, being a primary influence, and allowing children to explore within a safe and understanding environment, parents can make these discussions easier and more effective.

Sex should be a source of joy, exploration, and connection for everyone, regardless of who you love or how you identify. Here at Manhattan Mindful, we're all about fostering healthy, positive relationships with your sexuality. So, how can you embrace sex positivity in your own life? Here are a few tips to get you started: ✨ Create a Judgement-Free Zone: We don't kink-shame here! What gets someone else going is none of your business. ✨ Every Body is a Good Body! Treat yours with respect and celebrate its unique awesomeness. ✨ Educate yourself about sex, consent, and healthy relationships. Books, podcasts, therapists – they're all your friends here! ✨ Get tested, ask questions, and take control of your sexual well-being. ✨ Sl*t-Shaming has no place in our world. Stand up for yourself and others! ✨ Sex Ed for All! Comprehensive sex education is key to healthy relationships and empowered choices. ✊ ✨ Open and honest communication is essential for good sex. Talk to your partner(s) about what you like and don't like. ️ ✨ Embrace your fantasies (safely, of course!). You deserve to explore what makes you feel good. Would you add anything to the list? Share in the comments! #ManhattanMindful #Manhattan #NYC #LGBTQ #Therapy #Pleasure #GenderExpansive #AffirmingCare #Queer #SexTherapy #TraumaInformed #MentalHealth

MY INNER CIRCLE JOURNEY SO FAR: From a Clueless Parent to a THINKING Parent My name is Mandu Reeves Elikwu, and I’m a mom of two toddler girls, ages 5 and 3+. I first heard about The Intentional Parent Academy from my friend and church member, Jennifer Ekiugbo, who invited me to join the Facebook group. Reading posts by Coach Wendy Ologe and watching her videos convinced me that I needed to join the Inner Circle to get the "tools" Coach Wendy always spoke about. Before joining, I was a yeller, and my emotions were often out of control, especially when my first daughter had tantrums. My frustration led to unproductive discipline methods, and I knew I needed help fast. I often wondered how parents in developed countries managed to get their kids to behave without yelling or hitting. After following the convention last year, I decided to join the Inner Circle. The change began with the very first webinar in January when Coach Wendy said, "Parenting is about you, not your child." This statement has echoed in my mind throughout the year, prompting me to check myself before addressing my kids' behavior. COURSES, WEBINARS & PROGRAMS 1. The No Yelling Challenge: I took this challenge knowing I needed it. Although it’s normal to yell here, I didn’t want to be that parent. This challenge was a game changer. After taking the Master Your Emotions Challenge, I barely raise my voice now. 2. The Sex Educate Your Child Like A Pro: This course transformed my approach to sex education. Now, my 3-year-old understands good and bad touch. I learned that sex education is a continuous conversation and have been using teachable moments to discuss it. Coach Wendy, your guidance has been invaluable. I’ve broken the mindset of fearing to "corrupt" my child and now understand how to build on what my child already knows. Encouraging a strong relationship between my daughters and their dad has also become a norm in our home. 3. Master Your Emotions Challenge: This recent challenge was everything I needed and more. Coach Wendy, God bless you. The knowledge and tools I’ve gained from TIP/Inner Circle have been life-changing. I’m a better, more intentional parent because of your support. Thank you, Coach Wendy. ~ Mandu Reeves Elikwu Inner Circle Parent Learn More About the Inner Circle Program Here:https://lnkd.in/dt4zP2yW Book Your Slot For The INNER CIRCLE PROGRAM Next Cohort Now ⬇️ ©️ The Intentional Parent Academy ™️ #wendyologe #africasnumberoneparentcoach #theintentionalparent #CoachWendy #parentcoach #theintentionalparentacademy

Happy Asexuality Awareness Week! Asexuality, often referred to as "ace," is a sexual orientation where individuals experience little to no sexual attraction. It's important to note that asexuality is distinct from celibacy or sexual abstinence, which are choices people make about their behavior. Asexual people exist on a spectrum and can experience relationships, attraction, and arousal in unique ways. Some asexual individuals identify as gray asexual or demisexual. Gray asexuality describes a spectrum where a person may experience sexual attraction occasionally or only in certain circumstances. Demisexual people, on the other hand, feel sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond. Asexual individuals may also experience other forms of attraction—such as romantic, aesthetic, sensual, or platonic—and can identify with any sexual orientation, whether heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or pansexual. Understanding asexuality and its spectrum helps broaden our view of human sexuality and the diverse ways people experience attraction. #asexual #asexuality #aaw2024 #thisispublichealth