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Director of Operations at Ross Nasseri LLP

You can create community around something OR you can change it, but you can't do both Think about the five people closest to you. How often when you all get together over a glass of wine, are there conversations about: 😩 How being a professional parent just means waking up to run a marathon everyday and falling into bed just to do it all again tomorrow 😩How HARD life is in this season 😩 How "behind" you feel in life Without any solutions, or strategies being shared. Now, I love releasing a little steam complaining (particularly while texting a friend when its an hour past my kid's bedtime and they're still bouncing off the walls!) but there are two different kinds of venting or sharing struggles. 1. To create community 2. To create change The truth is that too many professional women, and especially professional moms, create community around overwhelm, around "hot mess" motherhood, around feeling like door mats because THEY DON'T BELIEVE THEY CAN CHANGE IT. And so instead share their struggles to create community around being stuck The women who join the Unapologetic Living Code do the latter. They bring their challenges to calls to share AND develop the skills and frameworks they need to move through them. So how do you go from #1 to #2? Learn how to sink into the belief that change is possible, and putt yourself in spaces that will make it inevitable

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