Good morning LinkedIn and Happy Tuesday!!! I hope that you are all doing well and those of you who are transitioning from the military to civilian life have that transition going smoothly...but to be honest, it probably isn't going as smooth as you want it. It is probably going more like this game of Tetris, trying to find the right place to fit all of the different things that are coming your way. A couple of things that you have to remember as you are going through one of the most difficult periods of your life. Start to survey the land as early as possible. Things are going to change quickly and if you do not know what is going on then you might not see what pieces are coming down the pike. Don't try to make a piece fit if it doesn't fit. You will be offered advice and services that you do not currently need. Thank those who offer it and tell them you will reach out when you are ready. If you ever notice whenever someone introduces a person to me, I always say have them reach out when they are ready. I do that because I do not want to assume to know what they need and would rather wait instead of offering advice that might actually do more harm than good. The pieces will eventually start falling faster, but if you have a solid base and a sharp eye, you will be able to avoid confusion and you will be able to make that transition as smoothly as possible. Remember you got this. Paisley on. #tetris #makingthepiecesfit #takeyourtime #keepyoureyeout #transition #paisleyon
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9moEvery piece has a home, but in its due time. Great post