Thanksgiving offer! This was sent by my 27 year old colleague in one of my past positions-I was indeed humbled to read this as I know this is not an offer I would have made to an entire team. I'm in my 40's so considerably older than her-errr not helping! I tend to pick and choose who I like and hang out with-it's definitely not everyone. When I keep reiterating there is always a chance to learn and grow in every facet of life, this is a classic example. While media keeps propagating negativity, pitting people against each other, the ground reality is that small things like this have such a big impact on morale! It definitely reinforces our faith in humanity. Writing exactly what she wrote in her email: 'Just a quick reminder that if you do not have someone to celebrate Thanksgiving with, you are more than welcome to join my family for our meal tomorrow. We are rambunctious and always have a few guests for the holidays. I can come pick you up if you need a ride. Just let me know if you want to take me up on the offer!' Introspection: 1. For someone so young, I saw incredible grace and maturity. 2. She not only offered a meal, but a ride to a 40 mins away location 3. The email was sent 3 days in advance to give the recipients sufficient time to think over it Kudos!! Humbling experience for all of us. Will any of you make this offer Thanksgiving 2024?
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