"White Men Are Key to the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Conversation." My initial reaction was first a double-take, and then "uhhhh don't we hear enough from them already??" But turns out there's a bunch of guys actually feeling left out of the conversation (I know..poor poor white guys 😞💔). OK but seriously, there are a lot of white male allies out there, but they're worried they'll say the wrong thing and get canceled. So they stay quiet 🤫 That hit me kind of hard. Cause we need ALL voices at the equity table, even the privileged ones. ⚡ Especially the privileged ones, if we really want to see change. The reality of the situation is that those with power and influence HAVE to step up. But first they have to feel included, and not worry about judgment if they mess up. A problem here is that many men, of all colors, feel constrained by traditional masculine stereotypes that limit emotional expression and connection. But when guys build real trust and connection amongst each other, it opens their minds and hearts. THEN they can use their privilege to lift others up. So next time you see a white guy staying silent, don't assume he's against progress. Maybe dude is just anxious and needs an invite! 💡 We're all in this together. What are your thoughts on this concept? Thanks to Ron Carucci & Dr. Zoe Spencer this enlightening article ❣ #DEI #diversityandinclusion #growthmindset #privilege
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A recent opinion piece by Newsweek caught my eye. Its authors underscore my belief that in order to foster real change, DEI efforts should not fall on the shoulders of just a few people, but rather must be championed by all, especially our male allies, who make up a wide representation of those in positions of power in both the public and private sectors. However, a survey found this population often finds it difficult to join and engage in DEI conversations. In fact, nearly 70% of white men said they did not feel a part of DEI efforts and some even felt they did not have the ability to speak candidly in conversations with colleagues from marginalized groups. So how can men effectively engage in DEI conversations? The authors say it starts with them exploring their own experiences of belonging, marginalization, and exclusion. In turn, this meaningful self-evaluation can foster feelings of empathy and compassion for others, which can help men in positions of influence create spaces of true belonging for all. Read the full article below to learn more about how men can engage in conversations about DEI and help create a more equitable world. #DEI #Belonging #DEIKnowledgeExchange https://lnkd.in/dUfmJvw9
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Yes, white men are critical - in a good way - to the work to improve inclusion and belonging. I can tell you plenty of white men are not sure how to engage, even talk about, work to improve diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging at work. Say the wrong thing and you risk being vilified. Say nothing and you risk being accused of disinterest or inaction. Yet, white men have a critical role to play, especially as they - we - hold a disproportionately large number of senior executive roles (70% of the 533 executive officers among the S&P 100, for example). So we have to step up, do some work and be involved. First, we need to understand what belonging truly means. It's a 'a mutually deep connection between and among people, regardless of who they are.' And 'those in a space of belonging have done the inner reflecting to know if they're self-editing, code-switching or conforming to the expectations of those who invited them in. When none of that feels necessary, then you've realised genuine belonging.' Hats off to Ron Carucci and Dr. Zoe Spencer for writing such an important, relevant, and insightful piece on this topic and for Newsweek for publishing it. They suggest the following ways for white men to engage in work on inclusion and belonging: - Think about your own experiences of exclusion. It will increase your compassion for others who are excluded far more significantly, regularly. - Know where you go for "faux belonging." Reflect on places in your life where you feel isolated, even when you're around other people. - Get past your fears of being misjudged. Many white men have told us they fear talking about issues of equity, diversity and racism. - Don't see opportunities for historically marginalised groups as your loss. It's common for some white men to feel resentful of opportunities their organizations are creating for underrepresented groups. And here's the rub - and the critical part of their argument: when white men feel a true sense of belonging, it frees and empowers them to use the unique positions of influence they hold in the world to create spaces of true belonging for others. Absolutely. What an opportunity. https://lnkd.in/eRr-6GJm #strategy #leadership #inclusion #belonging
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White cisgender men can play a larger role in creating a more equitable world. When you check your privilege and question tradition, you can take a step to challenge the status quo and the "what has been done" to unlearn practices that are not inclusive. One of my favorite takeaways that I am screaming from the back of the room: "belonging" isn't a verb—it's not something we can do to or for others. We can include others. But simply including people in otherwise exclusive spaces does not automatically produce inclusion. Check out this article to hear how we can all do better in 2024 and create real, lasting change, but it does take everyone! https://lnkd.in/eRyQ2vRr
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“To be a Black woman in leadership is to be undermined and underfunded, while people continually question the excellence that put you in the rooms where your voice is never quite good enough to convey the final word. Senior, Director, Head of, the title doesn't matter. Heads swivel towards us to explain racism and sexism, but our voices are less valued later.” The #EmotionalTax Black women carry in the workplace is often ignored and most leaders create more #psychological harm due to low intersectional #RacialEquity competency. A must read. #psychologicalsafety #Blackwomenatwork #racialequity #Blackwomenatwork #DEI #Humanequity
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In the quest for diversity, equity, and inclusion, one often overlooked aspect is the engagement of white men. And we know that people from marginalized groups may cringe as white men are centered in this conversation, but a recent Newsweek article called "White Men Are Key to the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Conversation" by Ron Carucci and Zoe Spencer did a great job diving into this issue. Did you know that nearly 70% of white men feel disconnected from DEI conversations, with many perceiving themselves as part of the problem or feeling that they are unable to speak openly? Because white men hold substantial positions of power in both public and private sectors, their involvement is crucial for lasting change. For the full article click the link here: https://lnkd.in/eFjjiw46 This conversation aligns nicely with one of our most recent blog posts, which highlights Inclusivity as the top strategy of DEIB (and yes, we mean including the majority culture in conversations). https://lnkd.in/eEWCANZQ What do you think? Add your thoughts in the comments and join the conversation! #DEI #InclusionMatters #OAIB #JoinTheConversation
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Black women are one of the most suppressed groups within organisations. I’m so happy to have come across this post from Grace M. Sharing her most recent experience on LinkedIn🩷 As a Black woman, I resonate deeply with her story. There is often a fear of being outspoken and opinionated due to the unspoken hardships we face in the workplace. Employers and peers sometimes behave as though we should feel lucky to have certain jobs or professions, suggesting a belief that we don't truly belong. Many of us find ourselves repressing significant parts of our identity to fit into the narrow spaces people deem us worthy of. When Black women defy these norms and express their genuine thoughts and ideas, they risk being bullied, blacklisted, or labeled as "difficult to work with." This is profoundly unfair, as we all deserve to have our voices and opinions valued and respected. I’ve been on this earth for only two decades, I can already see numerous barriers to achieving my goals simply because I am a dark-skinned Black woman. I don't speak up for pity, but to highlight a truth: within my small community of Black women in various careers and professions, there is an abundance of talent, creativity, and radicalism. This potential, which could genuinely transform the way everything works for the better, is being repressed due to systemic racism and sexism, barriers to career progression, xenophobia, significant pay gaps, microaggressions, bias, discrimination, harassment, and more. I hope that within my network, there are future CEOs and managers who will help create a work environment where Black women can feel safe and truly thrive. Side note: typing this up made me miss my 6th form English lit class lmao
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I deserve to feel safe! You deserve to feel safe! We don’t have to agree, but we should respect each and every persons right to be and exist on their own terms. Last week I posted about the fact that I don’t use pronouns for myself. I was so scared to post it because I knew that there would be some people that would not read the full post or simply read to respond, rather than reading to understand what I was saying. I felt unsafe sharing it because I don’t feel protected as a Black woman, and that is me being really really honest with you. When it comes to Inclusion, Black women are placed near the bottom when it comes to furthering inclusion for marginalised groups. I’m writing this post for the exact same reason that I shared my post about pronouns; Because so many people in your organisation are still afraid to share their experiences and the fact that they still don’t feel seen or like they belong. I was blown away by how many people my post resonated with, and also really proud that I was brave enough to share my truth, as it gave so many people the space to share theirs too. That is exactly why I do what I do, and why I’m able to further Inclusion within organisations. My lived experience makes it possible for me to create safe spaces to discuss some of the things that still aren’t being discussed. I did have a few people challenge me though and I expected it, but some of them just kept on going. Some wanted to shame me and imply that I’m not being an ally because I won’t attach more labels to MYSELF! Imagine 🙈 Allyship isn’t about allowing your own freedoms to be violated or abused. It’s about supporting and taking action to help others in marginalised groups that you aren’t part of. I do that by respecting and using other people’s pronouns. Can you be an ally to me by respecting my choice not to use them for myself? Can you respect your friends and colleagues who feel the same way? We still have a lot of work to do in furthering Inclusion for everyone, so that every single person feels safe, and feels like they have a voice and can be part of the Inclusive change you’re working towards, rather than being left behind. I am still an Inclusion Strategist but I’m creating spaces where everyone can be heard, seen and progressed. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 If you're new to my posts, 👋🏾 I'm Grace An Entrepreneur, Mother, Cancer thriver, Podcast Host and "The Organisational Inclusionist". 4 things I'm obsessed with: 💫 Inclusion, Speaking about, Coaching, Training and Developing strategies to create organisational cultures that enable people from ALL backgrounds to reach for the stars, surpassing the sky. 💡 Getting people to see Inclusion as The Great Multiplier 🦄 Coaching and speaking on Living authentically and fully, and supporting others to do the same 💪🏾 The gym - Seriously one of my happy places 📩 DM me to learn more about Aquaintz Consulting, where diversity isn't just a checkbox, it's our driving force.
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Founder and CEO the Black Innovation Lab and Ascend Ventures | Founder Black Girls CODE | Investor | White House Champion of Change | Public Speaker | *Author* of the forthcoming book ASCENDING (coming in 2026)
Last week as the news of Dr. Claudine Gay's resignation from @Harvard reverberated, I found myself enveloped in a profound sense of déjà vu. My heart ached, not just for her, but for all of us who have walked this labyrinth of leadership as Black women. My latest op-ed for the The Emancipator via the Boston Globe delves deep into this shared journey of resilience and resistance, a narrative I've termed the 'Black Girlboss Paradox.' This piece is raw and personal. FULL STOP. It is an unfiltered expression of the collective pain, frustration, and indomitable spirit of Black women leaders. It's a testament to our unacknowledged labor, the overlooked adversities we navigate, and the relentless scrutiny we endure. It's an intimate glimpse into the silent battles behind our public victories and the urgent need for systemic reform. This concept of the 'Black Girlboss Paradox' is not just some catchy phrase or novel concept for me; it's the very real lived experience of myself and SO MANY other Black women whose triumphs are minimized and challenges magnified. This op-ed is my a rallying cry for awareness, empathy, and action. As Black women I recognize we spend an inordinate amount of time trying to save ourselves and others and so little trying to save each other. But I feel down deep in my bones that we can no longer afford to be silent spectators to the systemic diminishment of Black women's leadership. So with that I invite you to immerse yourself in the narrative, feel the pulse of its urgency, and embrace its call to action. Together, let's dismantle the structures that bind us and forge a future where the next generation of Black women can ascend without the disproportionate challenges that have long been our shadow. Read, reflect, and join the movement for change. The time is now. Please share and comment. Biggest gratitude to my coaches and editors from The OpEd Project and Equality Now and of course the most brilliant Jamil Smith chief editor from the The Emancipator for the gentle push to go deeper on this one. #GRATITUDE #BlackGirlbossParadox Read the full op-ed from the link in comments.
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“We are hyper-visible, yet invisible; powerful, yet insignificant; essential, yet disposable…I know well that the path to liberating ourselves from the Black Girlboss Paradox and the intersecting oppressions we face is through conscious resistance and collective awakening. It is time that we actively engage in dismantling the systems of #power that devalue and marginalize us and replace them with inclusive structures that #honor our #truth and #amplify our voices. This is not just a call to action; it is a #demand for transformative change. I want to ensure that we define our legacies not by the paradoxes that constrain us but by the boundless potential of our spirit and collective power so that we may create an environment where the next generation of Black Girlbosses can rise without facing the same disproportionate challenges and the Black Girlboss Paradox becomes a historical footnote rather than an enduring reality.” all excerpts from Kimberly Bryant in her oped in The Emancipator linked in her post below. #InspiredByYou #investing #assetmanagement #leadership #venturecapital #technology #markets #innovation #strategy #business #finance #education #community #impact #culture #inclusion #belonging #cultureofmoney
Founder and CEO the Black Innovation Lab and Ascend Ventures | Founder Black Girls CODE | Investor | White House Champion of Change | Public Speaker | *Author* of the forthcoming book ASCENDING (coming in 2026)
Last week as the news of Dr. Claudine Gay's resignation from @Harvard reverberated, I found myself enveloped in a profound sense of déjà vu. My heart ached, not just for her, but for all of us who have walked this labyrinth of leadership as Black women. My latest op-ed for the The Emancipator via the Boston Globe delves deep into this shared journey of resilience and resistance, a narrative I've termed the 'Black Girlboss Paradox.' This piece is raw and personal. FULL STOP. It is an unfiltered expression of the collective pain, frustration, and indomitable spirit of Black women leaders. It's a testament to our unacknowledged labor, the overlooked adversities we navigate, and the relentless scrutiny we endure. It's an intimate glimpse into the silent battles behind our public victories and the urgent need for systemic reform. This concept of the 'Black Girlboss Paradox' is not just some catchy phrase or novel concept for me; it's the very real lived experience of myself and SO MANY other Black women whose triumphs are minimized and challenges magnified. This op-ed is my a rallying cry for awareness, empathy, and action. As Black women I recognize we spend an inordinate amount of time trying to save ourselves and others and so little trying to save each other. But I feel down deep in my bones that we can no longer afford to be silent spectators to the systemic diminishment of Black women's leadership. So with that I invite you to immerse yourself in the narrative, feel the pulse of its urgency, and embrace its call to action. Together, let's dismantle the structures that bind us and forge a future where the next generation of Black women can ascend without the disproportionate challenges that have long been our shadow. Read, reflect, and join the movement for change. The time is now. Please share and comment. Biggest gratitude to my coaches and editors from The OpEd Project and Equality Now and of course the most brilliant Jamil Smith chief editor from the The Emancipator for the gentle push to go deeper on this one. #GRATITUDE #BlackGirlbossParadox Read the full op-ed from the link in comments.
Claudine Gay and the Black Girlboss Paradox - The Boston Globe
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"Her words illuminate the broader challenges we face, where the truth often becomes the first casualty and the achievements of Black women leaders find their accomplishments diminished." "Her words illuminate the broader challenges we face, where the truth often becomes the first casualty and the achievements of Black women leaders find their accomplishments diminished. Dr. Gay’s instance is not merely a product of our current zeitgeist, in which political actors like Rufo deliberately sow confusion. Nor is it just an isolated incident. It is a timeless tactic which has perpetuated (and continues to) a doubt and underestimation that awaits Black women leaders, regardless of their chosen profession. Dr. Gay and I, like many Black women, find our leadership achievements quickly overshadowed by doubt and disbelief, a troubling dynamic where we’re simultaneously elevated as heroes and readily dismissed as villains. This is the essence of the Black Girlboss Paradox – a reality far from anecdotal, deeply woven into the fabric of our professional lives." Amen. Amen. AMEN!!!
Founder and CEO the Black Innovation Lab and Ascend Ventures | Founder Black Girls CODE | Investor | White House Champion of Change | Public Speaker | *Author* of the forthcoming book ASCENDING (coming in 2026)
Last week as the news of Dr. Claudine Gay's resignation from @Harvard reverberated, I found myself enveloped in a profound sense of déjà vu. My heart ached, not just for her, but for all of us who have walked this labyrinth of leadership as Black women. My latest op-ed for the The Emancipator via the Boston Globe delves deep into this shared journey of resilience and resistance, a narrative I've termed the 'Black Girlboss Paradox.' This piece is raw and personal. FULL STOP. It is an unfiltered expression of the collective pain, frustration, and indomitable spirit of Black women leaders. It's a testament to our unacknowledged labor, the overlooked adversities we navigate, and the relentless scrutiny we endure. It's an intimate glimpse into the silent battles behind our public victories and the urgent need for systemic reform. This concept of the 'Black Girlboss Paradox' is not just some catchy phrase or novel concept for me; it's the very real lived experience of myself and SO MANY other Black women whose triumphs are minimized and challenges magnified. This op-ed is my a rallying cry for awareness, empathy, and action. As Black women I recognize we spend an inordinate amount of time trying to save ourselves and others and so little trying to save each other. But I feel down deep in my bones that we can no longer afford to be silent spectators to the systemic diminishment of Black women's leadership. So with that I invite you to immerse yourself in the narrative, feel the pulse of its urgency, and embrace its call to action. Together, let's dismantle the structures that bind us and forge a future where the next generation of Black women can ascend without the disproportionate challenges that have long been our shadow. Read, reflect, and join the movement for change. The time is now. Please share and comment. Biggest gratitude to my coaches and editors from The OpEd Project and Equality Now and of course the most brilliant Jamil Smith chief editor from the The Emancipator for the gentle push to go deeper on this one. #GRATITUDE #BlackGirlbossParadox Read the full op-ed from the link in comments.
Claudine Gay and the Black Girlboss Paradox - The Boston Globe
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This article is so deep and touched on so many facts
Founder and CEO the Black Innovation Lab and Ascend Ventures | Founder Black Girls CODE | Investor | White House Champion of Change | Public Speaker | *Author* of the forthcoming book ASCENDING (coming in 2026)
Last week as the news of Dr. Claudine Gay's resignation from @Harvard reverberated, I found myself enveloped in a profound sense of déjà vu. My heart ached, not just for her, but for all of us who have walked this labyrinth of leadership as Black women. My latest op-ed for the The Emancipator via the Boston Globe delves deep into this shared journey of resilience and resistance, a narrative I've termed the 'Black Girlboss Paradox.' This piece is raw and personal. FULL STOP. It is an unfiltered expression of the collective pain, frustration, and indomitable spirit of Black women leaders. It's a testament to our unacknowledged labor, the overlooked adversities we navigate, and the relentless scrutiny we endure. It's an intimate glimpse into the silent battles behind our public victories and the urgent need for systemic reform. This concept of the 'Black Girlboss Paradox' is not just some catchy phrase or novel concept for me; it's the very real lived experience of myself and SO MANY other Black women whose triumphs are minimized and challenges magnified. This op-ed is my a rallying cry for awareness, empathy, and action. As Black women I recognize we spend an inordinate amount of time trying to save ourselves and others and so little trying to save each other. But I feel down deep in my bones that we can no longer afford to be silent spectators to the systemic diminishment of Black women's leadership. So with that I invite you to immerse yourself in the narrative, feel the pulse of its urgency, and embrace its call to action. Together, let's dismantle the structures that bind us and forge a future where the next generation of Black women can ascend without the disproportionate challenges that have long been our shadow. Read, reflect, and join the movement for change. The time is now. Please share and comment. Biggest gratitude to my coaches and editors from The OpEd Project and Equality Now and of course the most brilliant Jamil Smith chief editor from the The Emancipator for the gentle push to go deeper on this one. #GRATITUDE #BlackGirlbossParadox Read the full op-ed from the link in comments.
Claudine Gay and the Black Girlboss Paradox - The Boston Globe
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Thanks for those wise reflections and encouraging words Angela Meier, and of course for sharing the piece - Dr. Zoe Spencer and I put our hearts into it. Glad it found its way to you.