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What my daughter taught me this weekend about Mindset, Confidence, and skiing black diamonds! ♦ ❄ Here we are, beautiful blue bird day in Lake Tahoe at Northstar! My daughter, Sydney, with a lofty goal of not just skiing a Black Diamond, but becoming a Black Diamond skier - Big difference... 👇 Check this out: We hit the first one ♦. She's nervous and I'm in Dad/Ski Instructor/Mindset/You've got this/Coach/Dad mode... We get through the fear and she crushes it! Same run again. Less but still nervous. Better. Crush it! Repeat. Then....we go to a new black diamond run... She's nervous forgetting that she just conquered the last 3. Why? Because, although similar pitch, it's different...it's new again. We talk about the run, plan our line, and I ask her, "what's different about this one versus the last ones you just skied?" She said, "well, nothing...it's the same run just a different name... ok, I got this. Thanks Dad!" 🔥 ♦ And there it was!!! Her mindset shift immediately changed her belief from "I can't" to "I can..." It doesn't mean she wasn't nervous, however now her mindset is rooted in the belief that she's been here before, was successful, therefore she knows how to proceed again regardless of "different." We'll both always remember this moment. What a great and important lesson about removing obstacles and going from fear to confidence! #prouddad #baconbits Ascend Xperience Reduce Friction, Increase Momentum.

I was chatting with the wife yesterday, lost in some ideal future when she said, "do you remember where we were one year ago?" And 💣 , as she does so well, the coach got coached! 👇 What a difference a year makes... 🙏 The last 2 years have been challenging (or sucked) for many in the Mortgage and Real Estate industries. You may still feel stuck as a result - even though you believe...or everyone keeps telling you there's opportunity ahead. 🤔 It is OK if you feel stuck; it is NOT ok to remain stuck. 🔥 Do this: ✅ Generate Momentum that lasts, not Motivation that fades. What does that mean- DM or Comment for my 5 Steps to Make Momentum Happen. ✅ Invest in yourself - Are you going to Momentum Builder? Use ASCEND2024 for $300 off. Are you using a Coach? Training? Anything? Plug in - what got you here may not be what get's you there! ✅ Do you have a "Who" that supports and scales your business? Read "Who not How" by Benjamin Hardy & Dan Sullivan. I'm obsessed with their books. Want more book recs, check out my library page on my website. Last year, I was miserable... just coming off Cancer, then losing my job, then stuck in a new one with massive uncertainty. What the hell am I going to do?! What I did was finally say "f' it, this is what I'm going to do," and put pen to paper to launch my company with purpose and grit in my shoes. 1 year later (not the next day), I have a successful Coaching & Speaking company, have 7 keynotes in the next 3 weeks, have an exciting client list, and I'm working my ass off toward purpose and fulfillment for both me and my clients. So where do you want to be 1 year from now? How about 3 months from now?? Do NOT wait - Make Momentum Happen, now! I got you. This is what I do, and I do it well! Ascend Xperience Reduce Friction and Increase Momentum on purpose, and in your design. DG Media Inc #baconbits 🥓

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For many coming off two very challenging years, you may feel a little out of shape, burnt out, and even a little lost on how to capitalize on this new era ahead; and make no mistake, 2024 is a new era, which requires a new era of opportunity attraction. 👇 I know what shift happens feels like...if you know my story. I also know how to MAKE SHIFT HAPPEN...also, if you know my story. Join my next Success Foundations Masterclass launching in January. This is an 8 week, week over week live masterclass that I lead designed to: ✅ Develop and align your Personal Brand Identity ✅ Optimize your actions towards results ✅ Strengthen your Success Mindset ✅ Create a Roadmap to Results that is lasting, not temporary. This is small group masterclass coaching, so spots are limited and filling up. All you need is curiosity and action by reaching out for an easy huddle to see if this is a good fit for you, you are a good fit for this masterclass, and so I can answer any questions. DM me or comment below if I can support you. Ascend Xperience Reduce Friction and Increase Momentum by going from curiosity to action.

Whoever told you hope is not a strategy, well, that’s just wrong; however it is absolutely not a tactic. 👇 A leader creates hope through clear vision, strategy, and actions. Everyone is a leader, despite their title. This means you, whatever role you have. You provide hope to your clients, your referral partners, and your team. This attracts opportunities - is that currently happening for you? 🤔 This is why your Personal Brand has to be aligned with your Identity, your marketing, your customer engagement, and more. This is why it is time to strengthen your Success Foundations, align your personal brand, and optimize your actions to results. If this is speaking to you. If you're mindful that you want to get better, or seek coaching, but you're not quite sure how or what to be coached on - this is for you. Join me and other like minded professionals at my next Success Foundations Masterclass starting Jan 16th. This is a live 8 week masterclass focused on building your roadmap to results through an engaging and personalized Xperience together. Because this is small group live coaching, spot’s are limited. Comment or DM me for more info. Link in my bio as well. Ascend Xperience Reduce Friction and Increase Momentum, on purpose, and in your design by acting now, not later.