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"The Reason You Aren't Feeling Fulfilled by Your Success..." Have you ever looked at your life, your career, and your accomplishments and thought, "Why don’t I feel fulfilled, even though I've achieved so much?" The reason you aren’t feeling truly successful isn’t because you lack achievements. It’s because you aren’t addressing the deeper fear that drives you—the fear that no matter what you do, it might never be enough. I’ve been there. Surrounded by success, yet haunted by the thought that it could all come crashing down if I’m "found out." That maybe I’m not as far ahead as I should be, or that others are judging my every move. Here’s the truth: That fear is just BS self-sabotage. But it’s powerful enough to keep you from enjoying the success you’ve worked so hard for. What changed for me was confronting that fear head-on and stepping into rooms with other successful men who shared the same struggles. I found that I wasn’t alone. We all had the same doubts, the same challenges. But we also had the power to overcome them—together. Imagine being in a room where you can finally let go of that fear. Where you’re not just a successful businessman but a well-rounded man, confident in who you are and what you’ve built. That’s what I offer—an opportunity to break through the mental blocks holding you back from true fulfilment. If this resonates with you, we should talk. Because the reason you aren’t feeling fulfilled by your success isn’t about what you’ve achieved—it’s about the story you’re telling yourself. And that’s something we can change.

I don’t believe there is a “rule” to success. … because even what success means to you and I are different. I have met plenty of successful people 🚫 who don’t wake up at 5 am every day 🚫 who don’t exercise 45 minutes daily 🚫 who don’t meditate for 1 hour daily 🚫 who don’t read one book a week 🚫 who don’t have a productivity technique 🚫 who don’t network with 1 new person weekly Although that is what seems to be “the norm” that has been portrayed to help with success. most of them do more/less or differently. A lot of people overcomplicate success with rules they read on social media. (Even me when I was still a teenager 😭) But the reality is these rules differ for each person. We cannot blindly follow certain templates because our goals are different to them. So, the next time you are putting yourself in a situation because you feel the “need” to be in control. Ask yourself again: → Is the desire for control and structure supporting you to achieve your definition of success? → Are you doing these for your definition of success or just external validation & social influence? → Are you doing it because you want to do it or you are just FOMO and comparing yourself to someone's progress? → Is this a complexity bias and illusion of progress you have while growing up that makes you believe success requires complex rules? By reflecting on these questions, you will find your answer. Because at the end of the day, You have all the time in this world, To make your definition of success, Truly yours. Your rules, your structure, your success. P.S. I’m not saying you shouldn't practice any of this. What I’m trying to emphasize is you get to make your own rules and adhere to those that are aligned with your goals. P.P.S. Is there any practice you have adhere to since you find your definition of success?

SUCCESS ON MY TERMS! Booker T. Washington's profound statement, "Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has had to overcome while trying to succeed," encapsulates a profound truth about the nature of achievement.   The Conventional View of Success. Traditionally, success is often equated with external markers such as wealth, fame, or social status. We tend to admire those who have achieved high-ranking positions or accumulated significant material possessions. However, Washington suggests that this narrow perspective overlooks a crucial aspect of true success. The Value of Overcoming Obstacles. According to Washington, the true measure of success lies in the challenges one has faced and conquered. The journey, rather than the destination, is what defines a truly successful individual. Overcoming obstacles requires resilience, determination, and often, a deep sense of purpose. These qualities are far more valuable than any external achievement. Key points to consider: Character Development: Adversity can shape character. By confronting challenges, individuals develop qualities such as perseverance, problem-solving skills, and adaptability. Resilience: The ability to bounce back from setbacks is a hallmark of successful people. Overcoming obstacles strengthens resilience and fosters a "never give up" attitude. Purpose and Meaning: The struggle to overcome adversity can give life a deeper sense of purpose and meaning. When individuals face challenges, they often discover their true strengths and passions. Inspiration: The stories of those who have overcome significant obstacles can inspire others to believe in themselves and their potential. In conclusion, Booker T. Washington's quote reminds us that true success is not solely about reaching a certain point in life, but about the journey itself. It is about the challenges we face, the lessons we learn, and the growth we experience along the way. By focusing on overcoming obstacles, we can achieve a deeper and more fulfilling sense of success.

Success has been greatly defined by various people in various ways... But many people have a wrong definition of what success is. ( Stay close, I will give you the ultimate definition of success, I love) 😊 People think that Success is defined by; (What people think it is) 👉 Making lots of money 👉 Achieving fame 👉 Travelling to choice places 👉 Having all you desire to get (If this is you, it's a NO!!!)❌❌❌ But take a look at this; Here are different success quotes that truly defines Success.. ✅ " Success is walking from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm" ✅ "Success isn't about making money but the impact made in people's lives " ✅ Success is not the key to happiness but happiness is the key to success" With this, this is what Success truly is; --- It's a season of doggedness, resilience and consistency --- It's continuous application of what you have learnt --- It's is the impact made on people's lives --- It's continuous upskilling and growth --- It's moment of multiple failures and rising up.. REMEMBER, I promise to give you the Ultimate definition I love So according to someone, Success is; 1% LUCK 2% TALENT 20% TEAM WORK 77% NEVER GIVING UP I totally love the combination of these factors, it sums it all up.... That's all for now...... I love y'all 💙💛💙 Have a Fantabulous Friday P.S : Do you agree with my definition of success? P.S + : Which definition of success do you walk by? I await your responses in the comment section 😊

Success. It’s a word I think we take for granted and we don’t unpack enough. Yesterday I had a good conversation about the meaning of success with one of my coachees. This morning, inspired by it, I grabbed my journal and I felt the need to unpack mine. The rabbit hole or tree of success can be never ending. One word calls another one. I am not sure I was wondering what success meant to me when I thought I was being successful. I guess I was attaching it to my job and role and salary and the things I could do and buy and plan ahead through it. I am not sure I was looking at success as multi-faceted. Now success it’s a way of living and even being for me. Do I feel successful right now? Yes I do and I also know I see success completely differently from the past and I am conscious that my view of success could change over and over again. Success is a process and a journey, not a destination. There are for sure interim milestones or it’d be hard to keep going. Celebrating those milestones, acknowledging your efforts and commitment is critical. I guess success is being on that death bed and having a smile of gratitude on my face and saying ‘it’s been hard but also sweet. It’s a shame it’s over but hey I did my best. Till the next time 😉…’. The usual question is what I end with and this time is really simple: What does success mean to you? Answer and keep asking yourself … and what else? Believe me that you’ll go down a rabbit hole that will do wonders for your life visioning and planning. And as always, I am here if you want any help or just a sounding board. Ah, also, use colours. In the past success looked red to me. Now it’s green with some shades of blue, like an ocean of flowing water.

Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit. This quote highlights the vital link between perseverance and achievement. Success is not a static endpoint but a dynamic process fueled by continuous effort and resilience. Taking action is essential because it propels you forward, turning your aspirations into tangible results. The journey toward success is rarely smooth, and mistakes are inevitable. However, these setbacks are not failures; they are opportunities for growth and learning. Embracing this mindset transforms obstacles into stepping stones, each one bringing you closer to your goals. Consider the story of Thomas Edison, who is often cited as an epitome of persistence. Edison’s invention of the light bulb did not come from a single, flawless attempt. Instead, it was the result of thousands of trials and errors. Each failure provided him with valuable insights, leading him to tweak his approach and try again. Edison’s relentless action and refusal to quit despite numerous setbacks illustrate the essence of the quote. Applying this principle to your own life means understanding that setbacks are temporary and should not deter you from your path. When pursuing any significant goal, such as starting a business or learning a new skill, it’s crucial to keep moving forward. Mistakes will happen, but they should be seen as learning experiences rather than reasons to quit.

Success is scarier than failure. Let’s talk about why— Success isn’t just about achieving our goals—it’s about facing the parts of ourselves we don’t always want to confront. I’ve spent years building, creating, and pushing forward in my career, but the deeper I get, the more I realize something that isn’t talked about enough: fear of success is real. For many of us, the thought of reaching the top can be just as intimidating as the fear of failure. Why? Because success demands change. It demands more of us, and sometimes, that can feel overwhelming. I’ve personally battled with this. Fear of the unknown, fear of what’s next, fear of losing the version of myself that I know, all hit hard when things start to go *right*. It’s easier to stay in our comfort zones, to accept "good enough," because at least we know what that looks like. But here's what I’ve learned—fear can be an incredible motivator if we let it. After a dope conversation with Don Carter yesterday I was reminded, I am safe and when I’m scared, I ask myself, *what is this fear telling me?* Is it a signal that I’m stepping into something bigger? Is it reminding me that I’m growing? If so, then I’m exactly where I need to be. For anyone out there feeling stuck between where you are and where you *know* you can be, remember this: leaning into that fear is often where the magic happens. Success doesn’t come without discomfort, but the growth that follows is what makes it all worth it. Let’s stop viewing fear as the enemy and start seeing it as a guide. If you're afraid, you're probably onto something powerful. Who else has experienced this? Would love to hear your stories.

While there is lots to be said about working hard, there are many hard-working people in this world who never truly achieve success, including time and money freedom. On the flipside, there are quite a few people who only work a few hours a week and have created significant success. Therefore, working hard in itself is not the common denominator to success, though it is often necessary. In digging deeper, our mindset and habits are truly at the foundation of success. Success habits are habits that have been formed with a specific purpose - most of those are not naturally inclined habits and often require doing things that most people don't like to do. Habits truly create futures, so creating success habits (from getting up early, studying personal development, exercising, etc.) and habits that are goal driven are key. Often, we let our normal patterns rule our lives, even though they may cause self-sabotage and stray us from our goals. Successful people have learned to form habits that may be uncomfortable but are driven by their purpose in lieu of "comfort zone." We must also give sufficient attention to our mindset. Success is truly 95% mindset. In fact, success habits derive from an aligned mindset. If one takes action with the hopes of success yet deep down doesn't expect true success, the results will not show up. It is critical to align our mindset to the desired outcomes. What is your favorite success habit? What are you currently doing to align your mindset?

4 Lessons I Learned From Grant Cardone Failure. Hey LinkedIn fam! It's Saturday and a weekend and I just stumbled upon a game-changer that's got me all fired up, and I had to share it with you. ↳ Have you ever feel like your goals are just within reach, but you're missing that extra oomph to grab them? ↳ Or, that feeling you have when you see that your goals are not being achieved or being close in achieving them? Well, I've found the secret sauce! I recently dove into Grant Cardone's "The 10X Rule," and let me tell you, it's a total mind-shift. The core idea? Don't just meet your goals, obliterate them! Cardone argues that average efforts yield average results - it's the 10X actions that lead to unparalleled success. My Key Takeaways:⤵️ ↳ Massive Action Wins: Cardone hammers home the point that ordinary actions bring ordinary results. Want extraordinary success? You've got to take actions at a 10X level. It's a game-changer for anyone looking to up their success game. ↳Fear is Fuel:Instead of fearing obstacles, embrace them. The 10X Rule isn't just about setting bigger goals; it's about tackling challenges head-on. Fear becomes the fuel that propels you toward greatness. This point made me understood when Tasleem Ahmad Fateh 👽 said something similar in his post. ↳Dominate, Don't Compete:Competing is for the average. Cardone advocates dominating your field. Become the go-to expert, not just another player. Don't be another Grant rather I'll be the first Duru Praise 🟤. It's a perspective shift that can redefine your entire approach to business and life. ↳ Don't Diminish Success: Success is important in day-to-day life to be able to survive. Whether it's spiritual, physically or otherwise. Once underestimate success, it will be difficult to move forward. ¶ So, if you're ready to crank up your success dial, grab a copy of "The 10X Rule." ¶ Trust me; it's a blueprint for those who refuse to settle for mediocrity. Let's start a conversation in the comments — who else has read it, and what were your key takeaways? 🚀 P.S: Tag someone who needs this book in their life, and let's build a community of go-getters! P.S.S: It's #SocialSaturday, and open to connections, collaboration and gigs. #SuccessMindset #The10XRule #TGIF #VideoEditing #LinkedinForCreators #TheLinkedInEdgeChallengewithInneh ©️ The Brown Guy 🟤