I write words to make men remember God||Storyteller|| Digital Marketing Enthusiast(SEO and content marketing)|| IT Support Associate @Olivet Cloud Solutions
“Thanks”... What is “thanks?” Someone does something for you, maybe someone borrowed you some money or even gifted you stuff and you go, “thanks”. What happened to “thank you"? Or “Thank you so much” or “Thank you very much?” Do you know there's a major difference between “thanks” and “thank you?” “Thanks” shows a degree of lackadaisical and nonchalant appreciation for help being rendered, especially if what the person has done is significant. “Thank you” shows a deep-rooted appreciation for the help being rendered. Learn to appreciate people wholeheartedly. Don't trivialise people's kindness. I make it a personal rule to embarrass people who help me with my thanksgiving because I have the understanding that nobody owes me anything. People choose to be kind and nice mostly because of who they are. Whether it's your parents, siblings, partner or spouse, learn to say thank you in a way that is heartfelt and shows deep appreciation. Don't feel entitled to anybody's kindness. Nobody owes you anything. Even if you think they do, they can choose not to and at the end of the day, they're answerable to God not you. Learn to be deeply appreciative of people. It'd even encourage them to help you more. Use “thank you” instead of “thanks”, especially when significant help is rendered.