Corey Wayne’s Post

“Most men talk women right out of liking them. The reality is that Mother Nature has handled sexual attraction already before you meet. A woman either likes you enough to date and sleep with you, or she doesn’t. Most women often wonder out loud where the real men who actually know how to act like men and take the lead are, because they encounter them so infrequently in life. The average guy who does not know any better ruins perfectly good chances with women who already like him by trying to prove himself and focus on a relationship, instead of simply making a date to hang out, having fun on that date and then hooking up in a natural progression, in response to her becoming turned on and opening up to being seduced and taken by him sexually. See yourself as being worthy, attractive, sexy and desired by women, and act accordingly. Women will perceive you in direct proportion to how you perceive yourself.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Women do not approach dating and relationships the same way men do. Most men have been incorrectly taught to make a mad dash to the relationship finish line by proving themselves and getting women to commit as quickly as possible. The reality is, women fall in love slowly over time. If a man is too focused on locking her down to a commitment, she will feel overwhelmed, pressured and most often reject, friend-zone or ghost him. A man’s job is to create an opportunity for s*x to happen by planning definite dates, having fun and leading the interaction by focusing on getting to know her as a human being. A man should pursue in the beginning by setting one date per week. As a woman’s interest, attraction and connection grows, she will start to reach out to bond and connect more and more, as she feels safe and comfortable with him. This usually happens after 2 or 3 weeks. Then, the man can simply wait to hear from her and make the next date when she reaches out; this way it becomes her idea. Most women typically will be in love by the 7th week and bring up the exclusivity talk when men allow women to come to them at their own pace, instead of incorrectly trying to force things before women are emotionally ready.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Most men do not understand women fall in love slowly over time. They also fall out of love slowly over time. Once a woman falls out of love with a guy, it will take time for her to fall back in love with him, provided he does more things right than wrong. Men also mistakenly assume they can force or rush women into a relationship or a commitment by pleading, trying to prove their worthiness, stating their case and generally trying to use logic and reason to talk women into loving them. Smart men focus on hanging out, having fun and hooking up on dates and leave the relationship labels and commitments to women to bring up when they are ready. They also let women come to them at their own pace and do most, if not all, of the chasing. Women usually will only start chasing and pursuing guys after about 2-3 weeks of dating, where men pursue and initiate contact in the beginning. Once women start pursuing, then guys can simply back off, wait to hear from them and make the next date when they do. This way, women dictate the pace and seriousness of the relationship, so it’s their idea, and guys never have to worry about being too pushy, over-pursuing or getting friend-zoned.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Women want to be in a love story. A love story that they participate in, but that men lead by being direct, decisive and inviting women to join them for fun and romance. When men hesitate, act timid or shy, don’t seem to know how to lead, ask women to make decisions, allow women to push and jerk them around or change plans at the last minute, the mens value and masculinity is diminished in their eyes. When men allow their value to be diminished in the eyes of women who they are trying to pickup or date, the evaporation of sexual attraction is often instant and unrecoverable. Mens ability to be successful in pickup and dating is directly proportional to their ability to negotiate from a place of charm and humor, and from a position of dominance and strength. Women are naturally attracted to the most masculine, charming and dominant men.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“How do you know when a woman is ready to be kissed on a date? Look into her eyes, then slowly down to her lips and then slowly back into her eyes during normal conversation. Slowly repeat this 1 or 2 more times over the next 10-20 seconds. If she looks at your lips also, then she is thinking about kissing you too. Go for it immediately! You should always go for a kiss on all of your first dates. Women who are flexible, open, romantically interested and easy going will kiss you back passionately. They deserve a second date. Women, who give you the cheek, hug you or scold you for trying, never get or deserve a second date.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“It’s incredibly unattractive to women when men they are dating or in relationship with feel threatened by their guy friends, male co-workers or male relatives. Women don’t like to have their integrity, faithfulness, honesty and loyalty constantly questioned, not because they give men a reason to doubt them, but because the men feel so insecure within themselves that they feel threatened by other men potentially stealing their girl. The reality is, most women are surrounded by a sea of horny men who desire them. If a woman wants to cheat on you, there literally is nothing you can do to stop it. If you are a guy who gets insecure or jealous of other men being around your girl, the smart thing to do is to see what she does so you can determine whether or not she is a good girl and trustworthy before committing. Good honorable women will constantly tell you about all guys who are hitting on them out of respect for you and your relationship. Bad girls, cheaters, liars or women who have lost interest and respect for you won’t. All a guy can really do is to be his best self and put his best foot forward, and sometimes that will not be enough to keep a woman faithful. Only keepers will stay faithful. Acting like a needy jealous insecure controlling jacka** will universally repulse all women.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“An understanding of masculine and feminine energy is essential to creating and maintaining attraction during dating and extending into relationships. Masculine energy tends to be more purpose, mission, goal, strength, leadership, decisiveness and accomplishment focused. Feminine energy tends to be more focused on connecting, bonding, relationships, commitments, receiving, uncertainty, submissiveness, feelings and following. When either a man or woman acts in ways that are not consistent with their natural essence, it tends to lessen sexual attraction and repel members of the opposite sex.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Human beings tend to more highly value what they have to work for versus that which is given freely and abundantly. Scarcity creates value. Being different, mysterious, self-assured and willing to take risks makes you stand out amongst the crowd of average Joes. When it comes to dating, attraction and seduction, women will work harder for and chase men who are mysterious, charming, unpredictable and fun loving. Men who exhibit these qualities are coveted, chased, cherished and competed for by women who normally never act this way towards regular average guys.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Relationships typically form after two or more months of dating. They form when both people have so much fun hanging out and hooking up with each other, that they don’t want anyone else. Women fall in love slowly over time. For men, if she’s hot and got a great body, they’re already thinking about marriage, where they will live and what their kids will look like; this is all before he has even said hello to her. Most men mistakenly assume that women automatically feel the same way or that they can talk women into feeling the same way by telling women how much they like or love them. This actually makes women feel like they are being smothered, that things are moving too fast, like they are losing their freedom and often leads to women saying they are confused and unsure. To prevent this, men simply need to focus on planning fun dates and let women bring up the relationship labels when they are emotionally ready.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“When it comes to dating, you and your time is the greatest gift you can give anyone. The reality is that most women you are interested in won’t feel the same way. It is absolutely critical to notice how a woman treats you and appreciates your efforts to provide a fun date together. Women who have high romantic interest in you will go out of their way to show their appreciation for your time and money. Women with low romantic interest will make little to no effort to show their appreciation for your time and money invested, often acting entitled and like they did you a favor by going out with you. That’s why it’s always best to start out with a few drinks or a coffee date as your first date to gauge your chemistry together and look for mutual high interest. Grand gesture expensive dates are a waste of time and money with someone you just met. This comes off as a bribe for s*x and a relationship, and unnecessarily opens you up to being taken advantage of and having your time and money wasted.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial: