Corey Wayne’s Post

“Women do not approach dating and relationships the same way men do. Most men have been incorrectly taught to make a mad dash to the relationship finish line by proving themselves and getting women to commit as quickly as possible. The reality is, women fall in love slowly over time. If a man is too focused on locking her down to a commitment, she will feel overwhelmed, pressured and most often reject, friend-zone or ghost him. A man’s job is to create an opportunity for s*x to happen by planning definite dates, having fun and leading the interaction by focusing on getting to know her as a human being. A man should pursue in the beginning by setting one date per week. As a woman’s interest, attraction and connection grows, she will start to reach out to bond and connect more and more, as she feels safe and comfortable with him. This usually happens after 2 or 3 weeks. Then, the man can simply wait to hear from her and make the next date when she reaches out; this way it becomes her idea. Most women typically will be in love by the 7th week and bring up the exclusivity talk when men allow women to come to them at their own pace, instead of incorrectly trying to force things before women are emotionally ready.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Most men do not understand women fall in love slowly over time. They also fall out of love slowly over time. Once a woman falls out of love with a guy, it will take time for her to fall back in love with him, provided he does more things right than wrong. Men also mistakenly assume they can force or rush women into a relationship or a commitment by pleading, trying to prove their worthiness, stating their case and generally trying to use logic and reason to talk women into loving them. Smart men focus on hanging out, having fun and hooking up on dates and leave the relationship labels and commitments to women to bring up when they are ready. They also let women come to them at their own pace and do most, if not all, of the chasing. Women usually will only start chasing and pursuing guys after about 2-3 weeks of dating, where men pursue and initiate contact in the beginning. Once women start pursuing, then guys can simply back off, wait to hear from them and make the next date when they do. This way, women dictate the pace and seriousness of the relationship, so it’s their idea, and guys never have to worry about being too pushy, over-pursuing or getting friend-zoned.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“An understanding of masculine and feminine energy is essential to creating and maintaining attraction during dating and extending into relationships. Masculine energy tends to be more purpose, mission, goal, strength, leadership, decisiveness and accomplishment focused. Feminine energy tends to be more focused on connecting, bonding, relationships, commitments, receiving, uncertainty, submissiveness, feelings and following. When either a man or woman acts in ways that are not consistent with their natural essence, it tends to lessen sexual attraction and repel members of the opposite sex.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Most men talk women right out of liking them. The reality is that Mother Nature has handled sexual attraction already before you meet. A woman either likes you enough to date and sleep with you, or she doesn’t. Most women often wonder out loud where the real men who actually know how to act like men and take the lead are, because they encounter them so infrequently in life. The average guy who does not know any better ruins perfectly good chances with women who already like him by trying to prove himself and focus on a relationship, instead of simply making a date to hang out, having fun on that date and then hooking up in a natural progression, in response to her becoming turned on and opening up to being seduced and taken by him sexually. See yourself as being worthy, attractive, sexy and desired by women, and act accordingly. Women will perceive you in direct proportion to how you perceive yourself.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Human beings tend to more highly value what they have to work for versus that which is given freely and abundantly. Scarcity creates value. Being different, mysterious, self-assured and willing to take risks makes you stand out amongst the crowd of average Joes. When it comes to dating, attraction and seduction, women will work harder for and chase men who are mysterious, charming, unpredictable and fun loving. Men who exhibit these qualities are coveted, chased, cherished and competed for by women who normally never act this way towards regular average guys.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“The best kind of women to date and the easiest to get along with tend to have a calming and kind demeanor. Women that are raised in homes with a strong masculine father and a feminine, submissive mother produce the most balanced, healthy and easy-going long-term dating prospects. Women who come from unbalanced or even toxic homes tend to be needy, irrational, create unnecessary drama and can be extremely difficult to get along with. Find a woman who is super nice to you, confident, respectful, easy-going and easy to get along with if you’d like to build a happy, healthy relationship and drama free life.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“When it comes to dating, you and your time is the greatest gift you can give anyone. The reality is that most women you are interested in won’t feel the same way. It is absolutely critical to notice how a woman treats you and appreciates your efforts to provide a fun date together. Women who have high romantic interest in you will go out of their way to show their appreciation for your time and money. Women with low romantic interest will make little to no effort to show their appreciation for your time and money invested, often acting entitled and like they did you a favor by going out with you. That’s why it’s always best to start out with a few drinks or a coffee date as your first date to gauge your chemistry together and look for mutual high interest. Grand gesture expensive dates are a waste of time and money with someone you just met. This comes off as a bribe for s*x and a relationship, and unnecessarily opens you up to being taken advantage of and having your time and money wasted.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“In order to attract a woman and maintain that attraction, you must continually make her feel safe and comfortable. If you are a man who has lots of choices with women, you are going to be focused on making sure you pick the right one. That means the best one for you who fulfills all of your needs, wants and desires. You’ll see yourself as a catch. If you are a man who feels he has no choice with women, you will be focused on trying to force, control and manipulate women into wanting you and being with you. That is a scarcity mindset. The reality is that there are about 7 billion people on the planet and about half of them are women. It is physically impossible to date all of the women who would go out with you when you act like a man who has abundance and choice. However, if you believe and act in ways that are consistent with not being worthy of any woman, you will scare away and repulse every woman you encounter.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“How do you know when a woman is ready to be kissed on a date? Look into her eyes, then slowly down to her lips and then slowly back into her eyes during normal conversation. Slowly repeat this 1 or 2 more times over the next 10-20 seconds. If she looks at your lips also, then she is thinking about kissing you too. Go for it immediately! You should always go for a kiss on all of your first dates. Women who are flexible, open, romantically interested and easy going will kiss you back passionately. They deserve a second date. Women, who give you the cheek, hug you or scold you for trying, never get or deserve a second date.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial:

“Men should seek out and date women who, at a minimum, have these rare, but healthy characteristics and qualities: 1) she is flexible, easy going & has a good attitude, 2) she places a high value on loyalty, honesty & communication, 3) she is affectionate & giving, 4) she is patient, kind & not easily offended, 5) she is balanced, passionate about her career/business & has a drama-free life, 6) she is happy, optimistic, has a healthy self-esteem & builds people up. Men who date women that lack these six baseline minimum character traits and qualities, are asking for unnecessary drama, frustration, heartache & suffering.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Get Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations Volume 2 FREE with an Audible trial: