Deva Neely’s Post

Grief: A Personal Journey of Solitude and Reflection Grief is indeed a unique and deeply personal experience. It visits us like an unwelcome guest, lingering in our hearts and minds, shaping our days and nights with its persistent presence. Everyone’s path through grief is different, and there are no right or wrong ways to navigate its challenging terrain. In our Grief Relief membership community, we recognize the solitude that often accompanies grief. We understand that while the journey is a personal one, having a supportive space to share our stories can bring solace and understanding. Here, you are free to grieve in your own way, at your own pace. We are here to listen, to support, and to walk alongside you, offering our presence as a quiet companion in your moments of sorrow. No one can tell you how to grieve, for only you know the depth of your love and your loss. But in this community, you are not alone. You have a place to share, to find understanding, and perhaps, gradually, to heal. 🕊️ Share your journey with us when you’re ready. Your story, your grief, and your healing are yours, but you don’t have to carry them alone. Join the Grief Relief membership for those coping with loss - https://lnkd.in/gWK_gyS9 #GriefJourney #PersonalPath #HealingTogether

For me, so much of loving, living, and leading with courage means we have to do our grief work. Grief shows up in so many ways when we really do the work: • They didn’t turn out to be who you wanted them to be, or they don’t have what you need… grief. • Setting boundaries and relationships changing… grief. • Forgiveness work… grief. • When you can’t unknow what you know now, but sometimes long for how it used to be… grief. • They’re gone… grief. • The dream is different or dead… grief. • You are different… grief. Any grief triggers all grief. It doesn’t get better; it just gets different. Our grief never shrinks; instead, our life, healing, and joy grow bigger around it. To grieve hard means that we have loved hard. And loving hard is something I will never, ever regret. <3 #GriefWork #CourageIsBuiltHere

Paralized in Grief: When Your World Stands Still As the world moved on, you stood frozen, broken, and shattered. Your world would never be the same again. In the aftermath of loss, it often feels like time should stop—yet, the world continues to spin as if nothing has changed. This dissonance can leave us feeling isolated in our grief, as though we are living in a parallel reality where every step forward feels unsteady, every breath a bit too heavy. It's in these moments, when grief wraps its cold fingers around us, that we need compassion and understanding the most. We need the space and time to mourn, to come to terms with our new reality at our own pace. Grieving is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of profound love. If you find yourself standing still while the world rushes on, remember, you are not alone. Many have walked this path of pain and disorientation. Here in our community, we stand with you. We offer a place to rest, to share, and to find understanding from those who truly know the depth of your sorrow. 🌿 Let us hold space for your grief. Share your story when you’re ready. Let's navigate this changed world together. Join the Grief Relief membership for those coping with loss - https://lnkd.in/gWK_gyS9 #GriefJourney #HealingTogether #YouAreNotAlone

This week, Transitions Care is honoring Grief Awareness Week—a time to recognize the profound impact of loss and the journey of healing. Grief is a natural response to loss, yet it can be an isolating experience. Whether you've lost a loved one, a cherished relationship, or something deeply meaningful, your feelings are valid, and your journey is unique. 💛 You are not alone. It's okay to grieve in your own way, at your own pace. Reach out to others who understand, or simply allow yourself the space to feel. Healing takes time, and that's perfectly okay. 🌱 Support and compassion are key. Whether you're grieving or supporting someone who is, kindness and understanding make a world of difference. Listen without judgment, offer a shoulder to lean on, or just be present. 🕯️ Remember and honor. Take a moment this week to remember those we've lost and honor their memory in a way that feels right to you. Light a candle, share a memory, or simply hold them in your thoughts. Let’s spread awareness about the importance of grief and the need for compassion in the healing process. Together, we can create a supportive community that understands and nurtures those on this journey. #GriefAwarenessWeek #TransitionsCare #TheTransitionsDifference

Denial helps us to pace our feelings of grief; there is a grace in denial. It is nature’s way of letting in only as much as we can handle at any given time. In the initial stages of loss, denial acts as a buffer, protecting us from the full impact of our emotions. It allows us to absorb the shock gradually, giving us the time we need to process the reality of our loss. This phase of grief isn’t about avoiding reality but about giving ourselves the space to cope with overwhelming feelings in manageable doses. As we navigate through our grief, denial can soften the immediate blow, making the journey slightly more bearable. Embrace this grace in denial. Understand that it’s a natural part of the grieving process, designed to help you cope. Allow yourself to experience it without judgment, knowing that in time, you will move through it at your own pace. Let’s support each other in recognizing and honoring the different stages of grief, including the moments of denial, as part of our path towards healing. Join the Grief Relief community - https://lnkd.in/g3V2EDKD #GriefJourney #GraceInDenial #CopingWithLoss #HealingTogether #EmotionalWellBeing

🖤 When the Unthinkable Becomes Reality: Grief 🖤 We always think it can’t happen to us. But it can, and then it does... Grief, a journey we never planned for, a path we never imagined we’d walk. Grief can strike anyone, at any time. It's the shock of loss that hits like a wave, leaving us to navigate an unknown sea of emotions. This solitude and reflection often accompany grief, symbolizing the journey we embark on when the unimaginable happens. Whether it's a quiet moment to reflect, finding strength in memories, or reaching out for support, each step is part of learning to live with loss. Healing doesn't mean forgetting—it means integrating this new chapter into our lives, honoring our loved ones, and finding a way forward. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Let's share our stories, offer support, and find solace in our shared experiences. Together, we can face grief with courage and hope. 🕊️✨ Join the Grief Relief membership for those coping with loss - https://lnkd.in/gWK_gyS9 #GriefJourney #HealingTogether #YouAreNotAlone

The hard truth is, your grief will never truly go away. I can unequivocally say this on the 1st anniversary of my dad’s passing. When he died, I went into shock and disbelief. The pain in my heart felt like a sharp sword had chopped it to pieces. The wounds felt like they would never heal. But, over the past year, the sharp edges of that pain have begun to soften. What remains now is a scar – a reminder of the pure, unconditional love and loss I experienced in this lifetime. I’ve also realized the scar is not something to hide or ignore – I just can’t. It’s a beautiful testament to the precious father-daughter bond we shared, and it’s propelling me forward. I’m doing this by launching the Seniors Grief Circle this fall – an online community and podcast for anyone at midlife dealing with a profound loss. My initiative is a tribute to my dad who always saw the positive side of everything. I remember his exact words: “someone’s pain and problems are much greater than yours, Karen; if you can help someone, just do it.” So, my grief has become a part of my story. And my pain has been my motivator to find a renewed purpose in my life. It’s guiding me towards helping others who are struggling with their grief. 🖤 If you’d like to learn more about how I’m helping people on their grief journey, or want to learn about the Seniors Grief Circle, drop me a DM. Peace and love, - Karen #grief #griefjourney #griefandloss #griefrecovery #bereavement #lifewithpurpose #mentalhealthmatters #griefsupport #youvegotthis

My clients feel better after our sessions. They tell me this all the time. Our calls are intentional. They bring up whatever they want to work through, regardless if it isn’t what brought them to me in the first place. I listen, ask questions, and remind them of how far they have come along. They aren’t beholden to any timeline other than their own. Grief doesn’t have an expiration date. And when we meet, they are safe in expressing all of it. Because they know I’m not there to judge them. I’m here to normalize the grief experience. And show that life with grief doesn’t have to feel heavy all the time. That guilt doesn't have to be a part of moving forward. That when loved ones tell you to move on, they are operating out of their discomfort. Spending time, energy, and focus carving a home for your grief will always be more productive than trying to pretend it's not there. In doing so, you let grief have a breather. You start to feel better. And you learn that grieving unabashedly is a form of self-care. That kind of life is available to you and can begin with sending me a DM or booking a consultation through this link: https://lnkd.in/ejPVFcC6 #emotionalintelligence #lifecoach #griefsupport

We live in a culture that distorts reality. A culture that lies to us regularly because the truth about grief is uncomfortable and inconvenient. Ignoring death and grief as a community cannot rid us of the experience of either. No matter how much we hide it from conversation or view. We have come to a place where we promote policies that tell us grief is brief. That it is something to get over or move past. That the only part of grief is sadness, or only emotional in nature. The truth is much more complex, it impacts every part of a person. Grief is a gift. Grief is not death, but the way in which our bodies, minds, spirits and hearts adjust to a life without the presence of what we have lost. It has a purpose. It helps us to reorient ourselves. Embracing grief's invitations, even the uncomfortable ones is a key to unlocking a fullness of life that is only possible to experience by accepting what grief has to offer us. If you need help through exploring what grief has for you, for understanding what it is trying to do for you, please reach out!

Does grief ever truly disappear? What is Your Grief Like? The idea of grief shrinking over time might be a common belief, but here's the truth: grief is a journey, not a destination. In 1966, grief counsellor Lois Tonkin offered a powerful concept: we grow around grief, not through it. Imagine grief as a tree in the centre of your life. As you experience new things and grow, your life expands around the tree, not eliminating it. There's no right or wrong way to grieve. You might feel intense sadness, anger, confusion, or even relief. This journey is unique to you. 🫂 The concept of growing around grief acknowledges that grief can resurface, especially on special occasions. It allows you to create a life that includes the memory of your loved one while moving forward. JCJ Funerals is here to support you during this difficult time. We can help you plan a meaningful service and connect you with grief resources. P.S. We're here for you every step of the way. Visit our website (link in bio) for grief resources. #grief #grieving #loss #support #mentalhealth  #JCJFunerals #GriefSupport #Death