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DO YOU LOSE THE GOLD… OR DO YOU *WIN* THE SILVER? Over the last few weeks I have really enjoyed watching the Olympics and I can’t wait for the Paralympics to start. As I was watching the different sports and cheering on the GB athletes, I was reminded about how quickly things can go wrong. No matter how much we leave no stone unturned in our preparations and no matter how much we might rehearse different scenarios to eliminate risk, things can and DO go wrong. Elite sport is not unlike any other aspect of life in that we prepare, we focus and we strive to perform to our best - but we can’t expect to perform to our best all the time and, what if our best isn’t good enough anyway? How do we even conclude that our best isn’t good enough? What do we use to even measure that? I was aware during the Olympics of a lot of negative talk about missing out on the gold by just a fraction of a second or just a couple of centimetres - and of course, those athletes won a silver medal. This got me thinking, in situations like this should we celebrate and be proud of what we have won, or should we be sad and berate ourselves for what we have lost? It’s a difficult one… As an ex-athlete myself I know how much focus goes onto winning GOLD! During my competitive days I lived in a four year cycle of European Championships, World Equestrian Games, European Championships, Paralympic Games and my goal was always to come home from the next championships with that precious gold medal. I have seven medals to my name - 3 x gold, 3 x silver and 1 x bronze. If I am honest, of course my gold medals mean so much to me, because they symbolise that at those times I was the best - I was european champion and I was also world champion… but you know, second and third in either in europe or in the world isn’t so bad either. My silver and bronze medals also mean a lot to me because they still show achievement, they still represent motivation, hours of work and relentless dedication. So, on those four occasions did I lose the gold medal?… No, I believe that I absolutely WON my silver and bronze medals and I did so with a sense of pride and achievement? What do *YOU* think? Is a silver or bronze medal a win or a loss? #mindset #motivation #motivationalspeaker

Kay D.

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2mo

I'm a great believer in it's the taking part that's important if a medal is won then no matter whether it's gold, silver or bronze it's an acknowledgement of your resilience

For me, competing is more about being my best as opposed to the best. I've come bottom third in competitions but hit personal bests and been absolutely buzzing. I've also won medals, but felt like I didn't 'deserve' them because it wasn't a PB. That said, coming last is better than not starting. Not starting is better than not bothering to put yourself forward for a competition and undertake all the preparation needed. I just find having competitions to train for keeps me on track and a bit more motivated and disciplined to stick to a programme!

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2mo

Since I read your book - I always think of you when the Olympics are mentioned.

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