If You Needed Care, Wouldn’t You Want Your Carer To Do These 6 Things?
Growing old is a privilege denied to many, but if and when we get there, there are a few simple things that can make all the difference. They don’t cost much money and they subtly, and in some cases unconsciously, shift the needle in the care people receive.
As a clinical trainer I’m in and out of care home facilities, teaching nurses and non-nurses how to do nursing stuff. Most of what follows are ideas I include in all my trainings, no matter the topic...
1. Lessons from our elders.
Ask questions like:
· What’s the best piece of life advice you’ve ever received?
· If I was your son/daughter, how would you advise me to be happy?
· What’s a piece of advice you’d give your younger self?
· How do you know you’ve found true love?
· What’s your advice about money?
· What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve ever received, and why?
· What’s your advice about work?
· Is there anything you regret from your life, that I should avoid?
· What do you think about … (a topic close to your heart).
Perhaps avoid questions about sex, religion and politics, but it’s up to you!
Ask multiple people the same question or have a question of the week/month for the board.
Write or type the advice onto paper, laminate it if that’s what fire regulations ask for, and pin it to the board.
All this also demonstrates to your residents’ visiting friends and family that you value their loved ones as individuals. Their age, their experience and their opinions...
2. Photos from the person’s life.
3. Movement is life.
4. First class nutrition.
5. Hydration, hydration, hydration.
6. Documentation, documentation, documentation.
Last thoughts:
Caring for vulnerable people is a trusted and privileged position. There are so many easy things we can do to make life better for people and all they need is a little thought and consideration.
If in doubt, take a lesson from Charles Kinsley’s book The Water Babies. One of the elderly nannies in the tale was called Mrs Do-As-You-Would-Be-Done-By: in other words treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself.
Ethicists call this The Golden Rule, or the Ethic of Reciprocity.
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Fulltime family care partner. Dementia and Care Partner Advocate. Teepa Snow Certified Independent Consulant and Trainer. Founder of UniquelyMeInitiatives.
11moEthelle Lord, M.Ed., DM Indeed many family care partners admit to suffer in silence. On the other hand, there are many who are managing well, and some are thriving in the midst of extreme challenges. This demonstrates the resilience and courage of family care parters, two-thirds of whom are women. At the same time, care and support options that meet the needs and rights of the diverse groups of family care partners must be in place.