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The reason people don’t ask for help is NOT because they don’t want to appear weak. I’ve heard a lot of reasons for not asking for help, and there aren't many that sound like a "fear of weakness." But for various reasons, people like to describe it this way, from the outside looking in. Some people do describe needing to be the strong leader. Some people do express feeling like they can't hire parts out because it makes it look like they can't do the job they were hired for. But that's not a fear of looking weak. That's a fear of failure. Not asking for help and not getting the help you need are TWO different problems. Most of the people I see not getting the help they need aren’t able to get it because they see what they are trying to do as ONE job or ONE problem. Sometimes the skill that most needs to be developed in this case is the ability to break big, challenging projects down into all the tiny parts. Much tinier than how it’s currently being looked at. So that you can be successful. Especially now that more people continue to be asked to do more with less. In the midst of increasing levels of stress, anxiety, burnout, and overwhelm – the perfect storm for making suboptimal decisions. Breaking down the work and organizing it IS a significant project in and of itself. And it’s hard to do if you’ve always been expected to do it all, or to complete whatever task was put in front of you. You may lack practice. It's not “getting in the details.” It's not avoiding action. It's essential if you are to really, truly parse out and decide:   -         Which parts contribute most to the organization’s success -         What your priorities are - What you can reasonably achieve in a given time frame -         What you’re responsible for -         What others should be responsible for -         What you’re best at -         How to best utilize your team -         What skills you’re missing -         What capabilities you can leverage -         What capabilities you may need to build If you’re finding yourself in this situation, perhaps the help you need is to ask others to help you break down the work. That way you can better conceptualize, organize, prioritize, and realize all the parts inside of the big picture. This is a big part of what it looks like to create strategic alignment in practice, not just a plan on paper. #leadership #overwhelm #help #strategy #strategicalignment Image by Nicholas Panek on Pixabay Aerial image of boxes (work) organized in different sections.

We all make plans for our lives, with a pre-decided cause-and-effect strategy. However, the irony of life is that no matter how far we plan, these plans rarely deliver the desired results.... Perspective Two: One has picked a thoughtful point about the unpredictability of life and how it can often diverge from our carefully laid plans. Here are a few reasons why this might happen and some strategies to cope with this reality: 1. **Unpredictable events**: Life is full of unforeseen circumstances, such as natural disasters, economic downturns, or personal crises, which can disrupt our plans. It's essential to build resilience and flexibility into our plans to adapt to these changes. 2. **Changing goals and priorities**: As we grow and evolve, our goals and priorities may shift. What seemed important to us a few years ago might not hold the same significance now. Regularly reviewing and adjusting our plans to align with our current values and aspirations can help ensure they remain relevant. 3. **Incomplete information**: When making plans, we often base our decisions on the information available at the time. However, new information can emerge that alters the landscape and requires us to reconsider our strategies. Staying open to learning and adapting our plans accordingly is crucial. 4. **Interconnectedness of systems**: Our lives are interconnected with various systems, such as social, economic, and environmental systems. Changes in one system can have ripple effects on others, impacting our plans in ways we might not have anticipated. Understanding these interconnections can help us create more robust plans. 5. **Human error and bias**: We all have cognitive biases that can influence our decision-making and planning processes. Recognizing these biases and seeking diverse perspectives can help us create more balanced and realistic plans. To navigate the irony of life and its unpredictability, consider the following strategies: - **Embrace uncertainty**: Understand that uncertainty is a natural part of life and that it's impossible to plan for every eventuality. Instead, focus on building resilience and adaptability into your plans. - **Set flexible goals**: Create goals that allow for some flexibility and adjustment as circumstances change. This can help you stay on track even when faced with unexpected challenges. - **Develop a growth mindset**: Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. This mindset can help you adapt more easily to changes and maintain a positive outlook. - **Cultivate a strong support network**: Surround yourself with people who can provide guidance, encouragement, and assistance when needed. A strong support network can help you navigate life's unpredictability more effectively. - **Practice mindfulness and self-reflection**: Regularly check in with yourself to assess your goals, priorities, and progress.

I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on what it means to be a 22-year-old operating in the global business world while also navigating the ups and downs of life. It’s been a wild ride, filled with early morning calls, late-night strategy sessions, and everything in between. But honestly, the journey has taught me some invaluable lessons that I believe are worth discussing. First off, time management is no joke. Balancing calls across multiple time zones means my schedule can look pretty chaotic. But it’s taught me to be efficient and prioritize what truly matters. Plus, it’s all about setting boundaries – knowing when to switch off and take time for myself. Cultural agility has been another biggie. Working with clients from the UK, UAE, US, and EMEA has opened my eyes to so many different perspectives and ways of doing business. It’s made me more adaptable and, honestly, more empathetic. There’s something incredibly rewarding about building relationships with people from all over the world - and hearing their stories. Then there’s the adaptability aspect. At 22, life is full of transitions. Moving countries, making new friends, dealing with personal growth – it’s a lot! But embracing change and staying flexible has been key to not just surviving but thriving. It’s about seeing every challenge as an opportunity to learn and grow. One insight that’s less discussed but incredibly important, in my opinion, is the value of vulnerability. Being open about your struggles and asking for help doesn’t show weakness; it shows strength. It’s a lesson I’ve learned through both professional and personal experiences. Vulnerability has allowed me to build deeper connections and find genuine support systems. Another crucial insight is the importance of self-compassion. In the race to achieve and excel, it’s easy to be harsh on ourselves. Practicing self-compassion has helped me navigate setbacks and maintain my mental well-being. You have to treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you’d offer to a friend. My team at OutcomePath inspires me daily and have shown me what it means to truly excel in the business world while caring deeply about their clients. It’s not about the money; it’s about the journey. The people, the innovation, the hard work, and the strategy. I feel incredibly lucky to have such a supportive group that encourages learning and growth while also finding the humor in life. It’s a constant balancing act, but it’s also incredibly fulfilling. I’m excited about what the future holds and eager to connect with others who are on similar journeys. P.S. If you’ve got any secret hacks, I’m all ears;) I would love to hear your wisdom and war stories! 

Chasing money and fame won't take you anywhere if you don't have your people by your side. Lately, overworking and side hustles are glorified. But at what cost? In today’s fast-paced world, people are working 70+ hours, juggling side hustles, and constantly chasing the next milestone. But here’s a reality check: Overworking doesn’t equate to productivity. A Stanford study found that productivity per hour declines sharply after 50 hours a week, and there’s no significant gain after 55 hours. The relentless pursuit of material success often comes at the expense of something far more valuable: our human connections. Here’s why we should prioritise human relationships over monetary gains: - Money and titles might bring temporary satisfaction, but they can’t replace the sense of belonging and support that comes from deep, meaningful relationships. - Prioritizing relationships at home and at work reduces stress, combats loneliness, and provide a support system that no paycheck can replicate. - At the end of the day, it’s the people around us who celebrate our successes, help us through failures, and add richness to our lives. This pays dividends far beyond any material reward. - In business and in life, the most successful people aren’t those who go it alone—they build networks of trust, collaboration, and support. So, how can we refocus on what truly matters? 1. Spend Quality Time with Loved Ones: Make it a priority to be present with your family and friends, without the distractions of work. 2. Nurture Relationships at Work: Take the time to truly connect with colleagues, not just network superficially. 3. Show Appreciation: Small gestures of gratitude can strengthen relationships and make others feel valued. 4. Invest in People, Not Just Projects: Whether mentoring a colleague or supporting a friend, remember that your legacy is defined by the impact you have on others, not just the accolades you achieve. Remember, success isn’t just measured in dollars or titles—it’s in the depth of your relationships and the joy in your life. As for me, I’ve made it a point to: - Make sure to spend quality time with family regularly, as often as possible. - Call a friend or someone else you know each week to catch up genuinely. - Set aside 30 minutes each day for self-care, whether it’s reading, meditation, or a walk. - Spend at least an hour each week volunteering or helping someone in need This week, make an intentional effort to connect with the people who matter most. What's one way you'll prioritise relationships this week? #Connections #WorkLifeBalance #Materialism #Relationships

Growing Stronger: It's Not That Problems Get Easier, But How You Handle Them Becomes Better 🌱💪 Life is full of challenges 🎢. As we navigate through different stages, we often hope for problems to disappear or become simpler. The truth is, problems don’t necessarily get easier – we just get better at handling them. Let's explore how our approach to problems evolves and makes a difference in overcoming them! 🌈✨ Understanding the Nature of Problems 🧩 Problems are a natural part of life. They can range from minor inconveniences 🚧 to major life-altering events 🌪️. While we can’t always control the problems that come our way, we can control our reactions and solutions. Building Resilience Over Time ⏳ As we face more challenges, we develop resilience – the ability to bounce back from difficulties. Each problem we encounter and solve adds to our bank of experience 🏦. Over time, we learn what works and what doesn’t, making us more adept at problem-solving. Successfully overcoming challenges boosts our confidence 🚀, and we start believing in our ability to handle whatever comes our way. Additionally, we acquire new skills and strategies with each problem we face, making future issues easier to tackle 🛠️. Changing Perspective 🔄 Our mindset plays a crucial role in how we handle problems. Viewing challenges as opportunities for growth and learning 🌱 can transform our approach. A positive attitude fuels perseverance and significantly impacts our ability to cope with difficulties 🌟. Focusing on aspects of the problem we can control, rather than worrying about what’s beyond our reach, helps direct our energy effectively 🎯. Practical Strategies for Problem-Solving 🧠💡 Adopting effective problem-solving strategies can make a big difference. Breaking down large problems into smaller, manageable steps 📝 prevents overwhelm. Seeking help from friends, family, or professionals can provide new insights and solutions 👫. Staying organized and keeping track of progress helps maintain focus and efficiency 📅. Reflect and Learn 📚 After tackling a problem, taking time to reflect is crucial. Identifying the strategies that were effective and learning from mistakes enhances our problem-solving toolkit 🛠️. Acknowledging and celebrating our achievements, no matter how small, boosts morale and motivation 🎉. Problems are an inevitable part of life, but our approach to handling them can transform our experience. By building resilience, changing our perspective, and adopting effective strategies, we become better equipped to face challenges head-on. Remember, it's not about waiting for problems to get easier; it’s about becoming stronger and more capable. 🌈💪 Let’s embrace challenges as opportunities to grow and improve, making our journey through life a testament to our strength and adaptability. 🌟✨

🚀 The Environment is MORE Powerful than YOU.!! 🚀 : : Your environment 'personal and professional' plays a pivotal role in shaping who you are and how you grow. It influences your mindset, actions, and the opportunities you pursue, while a negative or stagnant environment can hold you back. The areas it may impact, : Stifles Creativity – Being in a stagnant or discouraging environment can limit your ability to think freely and innovate. Fear of judgment or failure from those around you can cause hesitation and suppress creativity. : Fosters Self-Doubt – An environment filled with criticism or apathy can make you second-guess your abilities and potential, leading to a cycle of doubt. : Limits Opportunities for Growth – In an environment that doesn’t value learning or personal development, access to new opportunities and challenges can be scarce. This hinders continuous growth and makes it difficult to improve or acquire new skills. : Promotes Complacency – In environments that do not push for improvement or encourage ambition, individuals may become complacent. Without the drive or inspiration from others, it’s easy to fall into a comfort zone, avoiding growth opportunities. : Increases Stress and Burnout – Toxic environments that lack support, encouragement, or a healthy work-life balance can lead to mental and emotional burnout. Constant stress can cloud judgment, affect performance, and diminish overall well-being. : : Take a PAUSE and REFLECT, you can sail through such challenging situations.! : : Build a NEW Version 2.0. : Shift Your Focus: When surrounded by negativity, reframe the situation. Instead of dwelling on what's wrong, focus on small wins and areas where you can grow, even if your environment isn’t conducive. : Build a Growth Bubble: Surround yourself with virtual or physical spaces that promote positivity. This could be through podcasts, books, or virtual communities of growth-minded people who offer insights and encouragement. : Practice Micro-Actions: You don’t have to overhaul your life in one go. Start by making small, positive changes every day that help you grow. This could be setting aside 10 minutes for learning something new, meditating, or even reflecting on your progress. : Seek Mentorship: If your immediate circle doesn’t support your growth, look for external mentors. These can be online coaches, influencers, or industry leaders who provide direction and inspiration, even from a distance. : Change the Course: If the environment is too toxic and you've exhausted all options, start making plans to divert and realign by making lifestyle changes that align better with your goals. : By recognizing the obstacles and taking strategic actions, you can overcome challenges and create an environment more conducive to becoming your best self. #PersonalGrowth #ToxicEnvironment #Resilience #MentalHealth #PositiveMindset #OvercomingChallenges #GrowthMindset

It’s a little bit of a different message today. Although it’s something that must be shared. In the USA, we live in a society of comparison, looking at faults, working very hard, and not feeling good constantly. Some reason we put money and instant gratification before our health. I am not just talking about physical health with processed foods and the unawareness behind that industry. Also, too many people do not focus on their mental health, and it’s become a significant issue in this part of the world. Sometimes, it may seem that no one cares, and most people don’t. I mean, who can truly understand the stress of raising kids when they are not in your situation? Who can understand the stress of being an entrepreneur or business owner when they are not successful themselves? Then do we truly know if these “successful” people are fulfilled inside instead of miserable? Sometimes, we are left with opinions, no support, or definitely no accurate advice. The truth is that everyone is just doing their best with what they have. Everyone is just figuring it out; do not be too hard on yourself. Finding others on a similar path for support and someone who is a few steps ahead is key. I did it for years as a “lone wolf,” and no one understood what I was doing or striving for. So simply, I chose not to listen to their opinions. So maybe that is you now. I lacked the proper support and advice, though, and then I found it. If you are someone who wants to have more freedom in your life. You want to travel the world, work remotely on your business, and help people with your talents, knowledge, and mentorship. You may be in a 9-5 job right now and planning to transition but have no idea how and when it will happen. With my experience helping hundreds of people, I have found that most people do not make that transition successfully when they wait longer. Also, if you already have a coaching and mentorship business in some form and want to continue growing your business, stop trying to figure it out yourself. Figuring out things ourselves is the worst thing we can do. Time is so valuable. I know that I have been there and have learned how to overcome them with the correct mindset and business skill sets. I have also created processes for this. Feel free to send me a message if this is you. You have been ready to make something happen and not just think about it. I’m looking for one committed person this month to work with. Message me, and I'll see how I can support you or give you the right advice on your journey. Talk to you soon. -Dana

15 Lessons from Betting on You: How to Put Yourself First and (Finally) Take Control of Your Career by Laurie Ruettimann: 1. Know your worth: Recognize your skills, contributions, and value in the workplace. Don't underestimate your capabilities and fight for fair compensation and opportunities. 2. Say goodbye to burnout: Prioritize work-life balance and healthy boundaries. Set clear expectations, manage your time effectively, and learn to disconnect when needed. 3. Fuel your fire: Invest in physical and mental health. Exercise, adequate sleep, healthy eating, and stress management are essential for optimal performance and resilience. 4. Become your own advocate: Don't wait for opportunities to fall into your lap. Proactively network, build relationships, and showcase your skills. Advocate for your career goals and take ownership of your professional development. 5. Embrace learning: Never stop learning and growing. Invest in upskilling, mentorship, and exploring new areas of interest. Stay relevant in your field and expand your professional horizons. 6. Challenge the status quo: Don't be afraid to speak up and share your ideas. Be proactive in suggesting improvements and challenge outdated practices. 7. Silence the inner critic: Don't let self-doubt and negative thoughts hold you back. Challenge limiting beliefs and cultivate a growth mindset. Celebrate your successes and learn from your setbacks. 8. Embrace imperfection: Perfectionism is paralyzing. Aim for progress, not perfection. Accept that mistakes happen and use them as opportunities to learn and grow. 9. Find your purpose: Align your career with your values and passions. Discover what you find meaningful and fulfilling, and pursue work that resonates with your purpose. 10. Cultivate authentic relationships: Connect with like-minded individuals who inspire and support you. Build a network of mentors, colleagues, and friends who can offer guidance and encouragement. 11. Seek help when needed: Don't be afraid to ask for help. Utilize resources like career coaches, therapists, or financial advisors to navigate challenges and find solutions. 12. Give back and inspire others: Share your knowledge and experience with others. Mentoring, volunteering, or building communities can benefit your career and foster a sense of purpose. 13. Define your definition of success: Don't let societal expectations dictate your career path. Define success on your own terms, prioritizing well-being, personal growth, and meaningful work. 14. Find joy in the journey: Enjoy the process of learning, growing, and achieving your goals. Don't be so focused on the destination that you miss the beautiful moments along the way. 15. Celebrate your wins: Acknowledge your accomplishments, big and small. Take time to celebrate your success and appreciate your journey.

Embracing New Beginnings: Reinventing Yourself Professionally After 40 Turning 40 is not just a milestone—it's an exciting opportunity to redefine your professional journey. Whether you want to shift careers, start a new business, or bring more passion into your current role, it's never too late to reinvent yourself. Here's how you can embrace this transformative phase: Reflect on Your Experience: Use your accumulated wealth of experience to guide your decisions. Reflect on your skills and what you truly love doing. This self-reflection is the first step towards meaningful change. Upgrade Your Skills: The world evolves fast, and keeping your skills up-to-date is crucial. Consider taking courses or certifications in your desired field. Lifelong learning is a powerful tool for reinvention. Expand Your Network: Networking isn't just for the young. Reconnect with old colleagues, attend industry meetings, and join relevant groups on platforms like LinkedIn. Your next opportunity might come from a new connection and a new friend or mentor who shares your passion. Consult a Mentor or Coach: Sometimes, an external perspective can make all the difference. A mentor or coach can offer invaluable advice and keep you motivated. They can help you navigate the challenges of changing careers later in life. Embrace Technology: Don't shy away from technology; embrace it. Whether it's learning new software or leveraging social media for business, understanding technology can open new doors and opportunities. Start Small: Big changes don't happen overnight. Start with small steps that can gradually lead you to your new professional identity. This might mean starting a side project or part-time job in your new field. Stay Positive: Change can be daunting, but a positive mindset will help you overcome obstacles. Believe in your ability to adapt and thrive. Remember, reinventing yourself is about creating an exciting future. It's about taking what you already know and combining it with new passions, skills, and connections. For tailored advice and strategies on reinventing your professional life after 40, visit our coaching bot at https://lnkd.in/gGD-BSjh. Let's make your following chapters the most fulfilling yet!