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🤔 What does a sex therapist actually DO? (Pt. 2)🤔 Here we continue describing what, exactly, a sex therapist does with clients -- and no where is there intimate/sexual touch involved, so it may not be what you think! (Check out my page for pt. 1, if you missed it!) 💠 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺-𝘀𝗼𝗹𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴: Sex therapists work with individuals and couples to identify and address specific sexual problems or concerns. This may include issues such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low sexual desire, sexual pain, or difficulties with orgasm. They may recommend specific exercises or behavioral techniques to help clients overcome sexual challenges to improve sexual function, build intimacy, or enhance pleasure. 💠 𝗖𝗼𝘂𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗽𝘆: Sex therapists often work with couples to address relationship issues that may be affecting their sexual satisfaction. They help couples navigate conflicts, build trust, and strengthen emotional connections. 💠 𝗟𝗚𝗕𝗧𝗤+ 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁: Sex therapists are trained to provide support and guidance to individuals and couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities. They are inclusive and nonjudgmental in their approach (yay, sex-positivity!). 💠 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝘂𝗺𝗮 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝗯𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆: Some sex therapists specialize in helping clients who have experienced sexual trauma or abuse. They use trauma-informed approaches to support healing and recovery. 💠 𝗦𝗲𝘅𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀: Sex therapists may also provide information and guidance on sexual health, contraception, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and sexual wellness practices (but it is not medical advice). It's important to note that sex therapists adhere to 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙘𝙩 𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙘𝙖𝙡 𝙜𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨 and maintain confidentiality to create a safe and nonjudgmental environment for their clients and all services are delivered through talk-based psychotherapy only. https://lnkd.in/gfHypp_G #SexTherapistJess #InnerStrength #SexTherapy #SexEducation #CST #SexualHealth #Sexuality #LGBT #SexTherapist #SexualHealthIsMentalHealth #MentalHealth #MentalHealthMatters

Parents and educators must confront the increasing prevalence of sensitive issues among high school and even younger students. This CNN article emphasizes the crucial role of quality sex education at school and non-shaming conversations at home to address and prevent potential harm. Debby Herbenick, a researcher and professor at Indiana University School of Public Health, shares insights from her latest book, "Yes, Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Today's Teens and Sex." The article discusses alarming trends, underscoring the urgency for open conversations and updated sex education. Parents are urged to engage in regular, brief discussions about sex, ask questions, acknowledge discomfort, and offer support as vital resources for their teens. Herbenick's book emerges as an invaluable guide for parents navigating the complexities of discussing sex with their teenagers. Read more here: https://lnkd.in/gmzvu3PV. #SexEducation

Sexual pleasure and exploration are essential aspects of human sexuality, yet they are often stigmatized and neglected in discussions around sex education. Sexual pleasure is a fundamental right, and exploring one's own body and desires is crucial for sexual agency, confidence, and overall well-being. Sexual exploration is a natural and healthy part of human development, allowing individuals to discover their desires, boundaries, and preferences. It enables people to develop a positive body image, build self-esteem, and cultivate a deeper understanding of their own sexuality. Moreover, prioritizing sexual pleasure recognizes the importance of consent, communication, and mutual enjoyment in sexual encounters. Unfortunately, societal taboos and gendered expectations often restrict open discussions about sexual pleasure, leading to shame, guilt, and ignorance. Women, in particular, have historically been denied agency over their own bodies and sexual experiences. It is essential to challenge these norms and create a culture where individuals can freely explore and express their sexuality without fear of judgment or repercussions. In conclusion, sexual pleasure and exploration are vital components of human sexuality that deserve open discussion and emphasis in sex education. By promoting a culture of consent, communication, and self-discovery, we can empower individuals to embrace their sexuality, foster healthy relationships, and cultivate a more inclusive and pleasurable understanding of sex. ©® #pleasure #sex #sexualpleasure #relationship #sexed #sexualeducation

Teachers! Parents! Young people! Sexual health experts! Decent people! 📢 We only have a few weeks to respond to the government's proposed new guidance on RSE (Relationships and Sex Education) - the deadline is 11th July. It's vital that those of us who support evidence-based, good quality education speak up because this guidance is putting forward some harmful ideas and is not fit for purpose. Thankfully the Sex Education Forum has provided some guidance to help us respond: https://lnkd.in/ew7E4T3q This is the guidance itself: https://lnkd.in/ekERD_AC And you can respond here (even if you just take ten minutes to get the main points across): https://lnkd.in/eH22GmvH Key issues: - Not based on evidence and research and they did not consult children and young people - Implements arbitrary and harmful age limits for certain topics which do not fit with the realities of young people's lives - Says that primary schools cannot teach about sex and "have discretion over whether to discuss sexual orientation or families with same-sex parents." - Says that "Schools should not teach about the broader concept of gender identity" and puts trans and non-binary pupils at risk. - The whole thing seems to be written to protect schools from angry conservative parents, rather than to safeguard young people and give them vital information about their health, bodies and happiness.

BOOK TITLE: MUMMY WHAT IS SEX AUTHOR: JENNY GIBSON Powerful Lessons from "Mummy What is Sex" Parenting Through the Journey of Sexual Education by Jenny Gibson 1. Open Dialogue: Foster an environment of openness where children feel comfortable asking questions about sex, ensuring they receive accurate information from trusted sources. 2. Age-Appropriate Discussions: Tailor conversations about sex to your child's age and maturity level, providing information gradually and in a way they can comprehend. 3. Normalize Discussions: Encourage normalized discussions about sex, removing stigma and fostering healthy attitudes towards sexuality and relationships. 4. Respect Privacy: Respect your child's privacy and boundaries, allowing them to share what they're comfortable with and refraining from prying or intrusive questioning. 5. Teach Consent: Emphasize the importance of consent in all aspects of relationships, empowering children to understand and respect personal boundaries and autonomy. 6. Address Curiosity: Address children's curiosity about sex with age-appropriate answers, maintaining honesty while avoiding unnecessary graphic detail. 7. Correct Misconceptions: Be prepared to correct misconceptions or misinformation about sex, offering accurate information and dispelling myths or stereotypes. 8. Discuss Values: Discuss values related to sex, relationships, and decision-making, helping children develop a strong ethical framework to guide their behavior. 9. Model Healthy Relationships: Model healthy relationships and communication with your partner, demonstrating mutual respect, trust, and effective problem-solving skills. 10. Encourage Questions: Encourage ongoing dialogue and questions about sex, creating a supportive atmosphere where children feel safe exploring their curiosity and seeking guidance. Mummy What is Sex guides parents through the delicate process of sexual education. Addressing children's curiosity with sensitivity and honesty, it emphasizes age-appropriate explanations and open communication. Through this journey, parents foster trust, respect, and understanding, empowering children with knowledge to navigate their evolving understanding of sexuality confidently and responsibly.

Day 264/365 In Singpoare, our sexuality education today typically falls into two categories: Abstinence-only sex ed. & Abstinence-based sex ed. which aimed to keep our pre-teens and teens from having any sexual activity at all, largely by limiting information and relying on fear-based tactics that highlighted the dangers of sex. It’s all about what NOT TO DO … How can we possibly expect youngsters to go from those scary, sex negative messages to establishing relationships based on trust, respect, intimacy and pleasure? How can you have a good sexual relationship when no one ever tells you how to do that? The silence from the safe and trusted adults in our teens lives that leads so many kids to go to the internet for answers. If you Google “what is oral sex, fingering , falling in love ... you get millions of hits, and many of them are from sources you wouldn’t want your kids to trust. It’s likely your child will click from one pornographic site to another in search of an explanation that could have been provided by you. The types of images they see online are bound to give them an unhealthy view of gender and sexual activity. Unfortunately, we’re living in a world where internet pornography is the basic template that many of our kids use to define what sex is like, what they expected to do physically in a relationship and how they’re supposed to look when they’re doing it. Chances are that if you’re not talking to your kids about sex, their sexual education is more like a junk food diet ... They’re picking up whatever they can from movies, commercials, TV, video games and online porn. Note to self: Can anyone share with me what exactly the content of our school sexual education programme is? ~ Dr Jasmine www.hthpsychotherapy.com

Good morning Family, I just wanted to say thank you to all those who contributed to the Professional’s Guide to Sexuality Consultation: An Exploration of Entrepreneurship, Strategic Planning, and Business Influence (Routledge). It took some time to put it together but I am happy that we were able to finally complete the project. Here are the chapters for the book: Foreward by Marla Renee Stewart 1. Gig work for the sexuality professional by James Wadley 2. Sexuality education consulting: The things they didn’t teach in school by Tanya Bass, PhD, CHES®, CSE and Melanie Davis, PhD, CSC, CSE, CSE-S 3. Developing and implementing an International framework for quality hires and sustainable growth in sexuality business by Jennifer Litner, PhD, LMFT, CST (she/her/hers) 4. Navigating touch: Ethics and triadic relationships by Fredrick Zal 5. Allyship: From passion to influence by Chasity Fowlkes, LMHC, MCAP, ICADC, CST, CDWF 6. Threading the needle: Ethical practice with kinky clients by Stephanie Goerlich 7. Survivor to CEO: Activation in Practice by Mary May 8. So…It’s a sex podcast? by @SaraVogel 9. Developing persona: Sex therapist, Sex Professional, sex worker by Shanae Adams 10. REAL professional freedom: The day I decided to leave a group practice to start my own by LaToya Cheathon, LMFT 11. Finding your niche: The importance of specialization and branding by Quantas Ginn 12. The business of sex coaching: 13 steps to career success as a sexological entrepreneur by Patti Britton and Sarah Martin 13. Beyond therapy: Entrepreneurship in sex therapy practice by Dr. Candice Cooper-Lovett, LMFT-S, CST, Tantric Shaman Special thank you to Lincoln University, Council for Relationships, IGDS (University of the West Indies), and Keystone College You can find the book here: https://rb.gy/eejl1j Thanks much for your support, prayers, and positive vibes😊❤️💯

At V For Vibes, we believe everyone deserves access to reliable, inclusive sex education. That's why we take a multi-pronged approach to address this critical need: Curated Content: Our team of sex-positive educators and health professionals meticulously curate content that is medically accurate, inclusive, and addresses a wide range of topics, from healthy relationships and consent to body positivity and sexual pleasure. Expert Voices: We partner with renowned sex therapists, educators, and healthcare providers to create informative articles, videos, and workshops that cater to diverse needs and interests. Community Building: We foster a safe and supportive online community where individuals can ask questions, share experiences, and learn from each other in a judgment-free environment. This commitment to quality content has resonated with many. We've seen a record number of people join the V For Vibes mission, becoming Wellness Advocates and sharing the power of pleasure-positive education! It's truly inspiring to see so many passionate individuals capitalize on the opportunity to address a crucial market gap – the lack of quality sex education. But the need extends far beyond our current reach. While some hesitate, others are actively building successful businesses by providing the education and resources often missing from traditional sources. The reality is, sex education is no longer a taboo topic. It's a rapidly growing market with the potential to empower millions! At V For Vibes, we're excited to be at the forefront of this positive change. We invite you to join us in our mission to dismantle the information clutter and empower individuals to explore their sexuality with confidence and joy. Ready to be a part of the solution? Learn more about becoming a V For Vibes Wellness Advocate today! https://lnkd.in/emzTW_3t #sexualwellness #sexualhealth #sexed #vforvibes #sexpositivity #wellness #sexlife #business #businessopportunity

I was thrilled to see this book review this morning thanks so much Mark Parry ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ and a half :) Read full review: https://lnkd.in/gnbtJReP "...Talking sex is a conversation guide for parents (and teachers) that offers useful, comprehensive, human-centred and matter-of-fact approaches to this potentially difficult and complex territory. Talking Sex is well-structured in simple and concise chapters including ‘Conversations, ages and stages’, ‘Reproduction’, ‘Sexual wellbeing in the digital age’ and ‘Respect, consent and sexual violence’. Each chapter uses straight-forward, accessible language to outline potentially complex ideas and information. For example, the chapter about consent acknowledges its simplicity and complexity. It includes a summary table of what consent can sound and look like (spoken word such as ‘yes’ or ‘I’m excited’, gestures such as Thumbs up or Nodding) in contrast to what non-consent can look and sound like (‘No’, ‘Stop’, gestures such as Thumbs down, shaking head). The author approaches potentially awkward or confronting questions and topics with compassion, intelligence, and respect. Talking Sex features a handy ‘Top 20 tips’ chapter including ‘Be the first person to explain each topic to your child’, ‘Be the askable and tellable parent they need you to be’, and ‘It’s okay not to answer right away’. It includes space to write your own self-reflections... ...The book dispels a range of myths and fears, informed and supported by an extensive reference list and links to additional resources. Children learn in different ways at unique ages and stages. Talking Sex demystifies the curly, complicated topic of human sexuality to support and guide conversations between parents, teachers, or caregivers and the children under their care." Copies available here: https://lnkd.in/g_AK8x7Y Amba Press Alicia Cohen #talkingsexparentconversationguide #sexeducation #sexualityeducation #talkingthetalkhealthysexualityeducation #parenting #bodysafety #consent #respectfulrelationships