Gregg Zegarelli Esq.’s Post

Happy Children's Day 🥰 As we celebrate our children all over the world, let's remember that children will be children, hence, we shouldn't expect a child to become an adult overnight... As adults, It is our responsibility to be loving, firm, kind and patiently TEACH them ALL they NEED to KNOW as they GROW daily while also giving them age-appropriate responsibilities that will keep them active, sensitive, responsive and supportive in the home, school and everywhere they go. 👉🏾If a child miss out in being a child now, s/he will likely behave like a child when s/he is older... The truth is that, a lot of us (parents/guardians/teachers) expect too much from our children when we did not behave better than they do when we were their age. CONNECTION with our children will make our lives easier and our disciplinary strategies more effective to the extent that a child learns from mistakes and can make informed decisions on how to behave properly when left on his/her own. 👉🏾A child is still a child no matter what our expectations are of them, in this we will find PEACE! However, it will be great if we adopt these important principles to create PEACE systems in our domains (home, school, organization, community,etc) 👉🏽Understand that every human is EQUAL - of value and respect, young or old . 👉🏽Recognize that eveyone is DIFFERENT and what you expect might not always be the case. 👉🏽Show EMPATHY by putting yourself in other's shoes especially children, by trying to understand them. 👉🏽Stop chaos 🚫 by putting an END TO VIOLENCE! This will actually create peace for us and eveyone around us. Peace is learnt and practiced over time and how we live daily can either create a peaceful or chaotic environment for us. 🕳️Truth is, we can’t give what we don’t have. We must learn to be at peace so as to gracefully create peace systems in our families, organizations, communities and society at large... 🌍 💢 As an intentional parent, I have TIME to PARENT my children, consistently teaching and modeling the RIGHT VALUES despite the challenges that comes along. Being a parent over the past 21 years has been very challenging, demanding, eventful, humbling, sacrificial, yet extremely gratifying, peaceful and fulfilling because it's a CALLING I am ACCOUNTABLE to God for every single day and in eternity. 📍Likewise, GOD is COUNTING on US (parents/guardians/teachers) to mentor our children/learners appropriately by not bleeding on them, traumatizing and scarring them 💔 with our own past traumatic experiences that we are yet to heal from, thereby, causing a cycle of pain and trauma on innocent children. We just have to work on ourselves, change this cruel narrative 🙄 and find true healing and inner peace if we must be become better parents, teachers and responsible trusted adults. I come in peace✌🏾😄 I honor you 😊 I am The Levite ~ God's Mouthpiece! I speak, teach, write, mentor, and impact destinies. #linkedinfam #children #parents #teachers

Father's love is a unique and complex expression of care, protection, guidance, and support from a father to his child. Here's a more detailed explanation of what father's love can encompass: Protection and Safety: Fathers often take on the role of protector, ensuring their children are safe from harm. This protective instinct can manifest in various ways, from providing a secure environment to teaching safety and discipline. Guidance and Wisdom: Fathers frequently offer guidance and wisdom to their children. They might share life lessons, help with decision-making, and offer advice drawn from their own experiences. This mentorship can shape a child's outlook on life and influence their choices. Emotional Support: While traditionally seen as providers of discipline and structure, fathers can also be sources of emotional support. They offer comfort during difficult times, listen to their children's worries, and encourage them to pursue their dreams. Encouragement and Motivation: Fathers can inspire their children to reach their full potential. By encouraging them to explore their interests, work hard, and set goals, fathers help build their children's confidence and resilience. Unconditional Love: At its core, father's love is often unconditional. This means that a father's love does not depend on a child's achievements or behavior, but rather on the bond and relationship they share. This unconditional love can foster a sense of security and belonging in the child. Role Modeling: Fathers often serve as role models for their children, demonstrating qualities like responsibility, integrity, and perseverance. Through their actions, fathers can influence their children's values and attitudes. Father's love can be expressed in many ways, from simple gestures like spending time together and sharing hobbies to significant acts like supporting education and providing for the family. The depth and nature of a father's love can vary based on individual relationships, but its impact on a child's development and sense of self is profound. #father #dad #fatherhood #fatherdaughter #fathers #fathersday #fatherslove #fatheranddaughter #fatherdaughtertime

Fathers stand a continuous risk of been absent from the lives of their children. In a study conducted by the academy, it was discovered that a child who leaves home at eighteen years spends about three years (36 months) physically with the father which is four hours daily. The time varies with city and work culture. That is about 16.6% of the time such a child spends at home. Fathers need to be deliberate so these times of physical togetherness can count or else it will just pass without any appreciable level of connection. The time is shorter for children who leave for boarding school in JSS 1. If fathers are not deliberate about connecting, our children will leave home unprepared and that will surely affect them negatively in later years and ultimately the society. Come Sunday 30th June, 2024, I shall be speaking on the topic MAXIMIZING FAMILY TIME at a Fatherhood Summit (Please see flier for more details) We shall look at how fathers can maximize this season of their lives. At Value Added Fatherhood Academy VAFA we are committed to restoring the dignity of fatherhood.

In commemoration of the Children's Day celebration, I admonish all parents to create time for their children. As a parent, it's crucial to invest in your children during your lifetime, leaving them a meaningful legacy. Invest in their education irrespective of gender and give them good morals. While investing in real estate is wise, consider purchasing property in your children's names. Additionally, writing a will is essential, despite potential complications from less-than-supportive relatives. No one can predict what will happen to your children after you pass away, but by securing their future with a good education and proper care, you leave an indelible mark on their lives. Family dynamics may change after your death, potentially jeopardizing your children's inheritance, but the benefits and values you impart will remain. Happy Children's Day Celebration to all the children in the world.

Have you ever heard a member of your community say, "where do all the newly confirmed go after Confirmation?" I've come up with a response that most aren't prepared for. I say, "who is asking them to stay, have you?" The thing is, we make assumptions. We think that we've provided the young people with the truth, what could they need? That's why our parish has begun an initiative called 'Wanted, Welcomed, Needed!". The first step has been to add a session after Confirmation called a Mystagogy Party. The purpose is to unpack the sacrament, and introduce the ministries that they'd be suited for, and to practically show them what they entail. We've invited a group of young people to mentor the rising 8th graders as they prepare to begin the process themselves, and are empowering them to take ownership. It means a cultural shift, one that all parishes should be undertaking, especially because if these young people aren't engaged in the next decade, parishes will be in dire circumstances. #Wanted #Welcome #Needed #Empowerment #TeenMinistry #GrowthMindset

Sibling comparisons are so common, but it is important to remember that even though all children are different and hit milestones at different paces, ALL CHILDREN learn! 🧠 So do your best to not get caught up in comparisons. All children move at different paces. The best things you can do at home to make sure your child is learning is to: 1. Love them 💚 2. Play with them 🧸 3. Model for them 👀 . . . . #growwithbeck #preschool #kindergarten #kindergartenadmissions #earlychildhood #literacy #earlylearning #NYCeducation #earlyliteracy #scienceofreading

More wisdom from Morna Foy!

Children need love, especially when they don't seem to deserve it. At Suyog Sunderji Wisdom School, we believe in nurturing every child with unconditional support and understanding. Join us in creating a compassionate environment where every child can thrive. For more details about us, visit www.sswisdomschool.com ✨️ #ssws #suyogsunderjiwisdomschool #parentsfirstchoice #parentingtips #parentinghacks #parentingquotes #parenting101 #bestschoolinpune #bestcbseschoolinpune

🔍✨ Let's play a game of "Spot the Differences"! 👀🕵️♀️ Can you outwit the 4 elusive changes hiding in plain sight? Challenge your eagle eyes and embrace the joy of discovery! Comment below when you've cracked the code! #challengeislandomahanorthwest #spotthedifferences #challengeisland #STEMeducation #afterschoolfun #stemlearning #challengeisland #resiliance #handsonlearning #educationmatters #educationispower #stemkids #BalancedChildhood