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How often do you celebrate your successes? Last Friday my daughter Ruby attended prom to mark the end of her GCSEs. It’s actually called an End of Year celebration but often either term fills parents with dread. The expense, the fuss, the after party! 🤢 There is a reason I love prom, and I’ve encouraged Ruby to do the same. Why? Too often we overlook, fail to recognise, or diminish our achievements. Maybe it’s because we don’t see them as “big” enough, don’t like being the centre of attention, or don’t want to appear that we’re “bragging” or “showing off”. Maybe that’s why three out of four partners I worked with in 2024 forgot to celebrate their promotion with family and friends? But if we don’t celebrate these moments – what do we celebrate? We are too busy focusing on the next challenge in order to take time and reflect on how far we have come. Maybe the 6 week holiday for students helps. If there was just a weekend in between GCSEs and A Levels, they too may pass up the opportunity to celebrate and focus on the next challenge instead like most adults do! Completing your GCSEs take enormous amounts of hard work, focus, determination, resolve, resilience, flexibility, adaptability, and consistency, incredible skills that will serve this generation well in the workplace in their careers and therefore deserve to be congratulated. After Uni it feels like the celebrating of achievements stops…that’s why I’m a firm Prom advocate – it’s a wonderful rite of passage that recognises how far you’ve come and looks ahead with positivity for the future. I hope that the children of today will continue to celebrate their successes throughout their lives as we all should. #Prom #RiteOfPassage #Milstone #CelebrateYourWins #Goals #Motivation #Coach #BounceForward

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Fiona Teague

Partner at Shoosmiths. Legal 500 UK Next Gen Partner 2025. Women Who Will Class of 2023. Inspirational Women In Law 2024 Champion of the Year Nominee.

4mo

Beautiful Ruby - hope she enjoyed! I do love a celebration for this reason and agree it’s easy to just move straight on to chasing the next goal. It’s also the pausing for a moment to reflect on the milestone. All the hard work, discipline, sacrifice and often invaluable support of others. I always remember our previous Chair Teams calling me to tell me I had secured partnership and his wise advice was exactly this. 🥂

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Ruby looks stunning, a chip off the old block. I’m sure she turned a few heads that night xx

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Paula McCartney

Workplace Coordinator at Wesleyan

4mo

I hope she had an amazing night celebrating what she has achieved .

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Samantha Colley

Director at Redhill Manufacturing Ltd. Passionate about providing the right Health and Safety solutions for your workplace. To find out more visit our website Redhill.co.uk #British Manufacturer #BSI Kite-mark Steps.

4mo

OMG little Ruby is a beautiful young lady now! Wow I haven’t seen her for a few years. She looks stunning and the detail on her dress is gorgeous x Hope she had a good time and you didn’t have to spend the night holding her hair 🤣🥰🤩

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Sophie Wardell

People Director at Higgs LLP

4mo

What a beautiful post - I hope Ruby enjoyed her evening and enjoyed every moment celebrating with her friends.

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Gisela Bajer-Pink, MBA

Inspirational Speaker. People & Strategy Consultant. Coach & Mentor. Non-Exec Director NED Board Member. Multi-Award winning Director. Author. 'Most Influential Women Leaders to Watch in 2024'

4mo

Here here, and congratulations.

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Julie Pettigrew

EA to CEO at Jumar and winner of The PA Forum Lifetime Achievement Award 2020

4mo

Absolutely stunning Ruby - one proud momma right there! I loved it when Millie celebrated with her prom last year - all those years of hard work and getting through the dreaded exams worthy of a celebration! ❤️

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Clare Collins MBA MCIPD

Powering Up Performance for Business Leaders and Teams | Speaker | Executive Coach

4mo

She looks so beautiful and so like you. How lovely 🥰

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June Picken

Supporting the Hospitality sector to develop new business.

4mo

Love this Rebecca Mander FInstLM - so important to celebrate milestones, achievements and success. Ruby looks absolutely stunning and I hope she had an amazing time.

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