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Are you afraid of reaching out to someone you admire? Here's how to find a mentor, nurture your relationship, and maintain it for years to come.

What's the Right Way to Find a Mentor?

What's the Right Way to Find a Mentor?

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Before seeking a mentor, define your goals, the type of guidance you need. Is it career advice, industry knowledge, or personal development? Talk to friends, family, or colleagues, who might know someone who would be a good fit. Potential mentors could be colleagues, former professors, successful industry figures you follow online. Consider their expertise and if their work aligns with your goals. Learn about their work and background. This shows genuine interest and helps craft a personalized message explaining who you are, why you admire them, and your hope to gain from the interaction. Don't just ask for their time. Briefly mention something you found valuable in their work and how they could help you grow. Suggest a brief coffee chat or virtual meeting, not a full-blown commitment. Come to meetings with specific questions, topics you'd like to discuss. Send a thank-you note after every meeting & keep them updated on your progress. Schedule regular meetings but be mindful of their time. Express your appreciation for time, guidance and regularly share your successes, challenges, keeping them invested in your journey. As your career progresses, look for opportunities to support your mentor or connect them with others.

Rommel Soto Del Rosario (MBA)

Master in Strategic Management, banking, corporate finance, team building, data analytics, expert judgement and common sense. Coaching abilities and willing to learn.

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Simply ask, go for it. If you have doubts, remember that your mentor is just as human as you. He won't be perfect. You don't need to be perfect either. Create value for both in your relationship. Read him as he reads you. It's a human library where both can explore, be curious and learn from each other. Treasure that. There are not many good ones around.

Sudipto Chanda, PMP, CSPO

Project Management | Organizational Scaling and Growth | Innovation Strategist

3mo

Most people are too busy to find time to reach out to a mentor. Most people are living their life just rushing from meeting to meeting.

Building and maintaining a strong mentorship relationship requires genuine effort. Have you tried setting clear expectations and regular check-ins with your mentor? What approaches have you found effective in nurturing these valuable connections? Let's share insights on making the most of mentorships.

Zahid Rafique

Ph.D. Advocate, Supreme Court of Bangladesh and Researcher, Persevering long in synthesizing diverse legal acumen - Working on Civil, Company, Customs, Vat and Income Tax Law together with Writ Jurisdiction

2mo

I feel to be informed of sincerity, mutual respect and mutual connected boundary of relations with the mentor so that I can approach with the reasons and expectations to develop myself and to carry the mentor's well being and fame more.

Great post! It's so important to take that first step despite the fear. Finding a mentor can truly transform your career. Any tips on how to make that initial approach less intimidating?

Hao Yang

Engineer at Shuanglong Machinery Co., Limited

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👏🏻😎🍏

Barbara Eberle

Job Coach @ Challenger, Gray & Christmas, Inc. Relationship Building I Resume Review I Training I

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I like articles with practical suggestions!

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