Brendon Lemon’s Post

How often do we find ourselves waiting for "one day"? That day when everything will fall into place, when all our hard work will finally pay off, and when we'll feel like we've truly arrived. We keep preparing, telling ourselves, "It's all leading to something better." But how do we know when that day will come? Or if it ever will? The truth I've come to realize is that life isn't about a single, defining moment. It's not about reaching a final destination where everything suddenly makes sense. Life is a continuous journey, a series of experiences, challenges, and triumphs that shape who we are—every single day. Instead of waiting for "one day" to bring the happiness, success, or fulfillment we seek, what if we embraced today as that day? The future is uncertain, but today is here, and it's full of possibilities. So, let’s stop waiting for the perfect moment. Let’s live fully in the present, recognizing that every day is valuable in its own right. After all, the journey is the destination, and today is the most important day we'll ever have. ----------------- PS: It's been incredibly awesome weather in London for the last few weeks - enjoying the summer to the fullest ⛱️🌞

Sharing a personal reflection that may resonate with you: Life is fleeting; spend time with loved ones and avoid unnecessary conflicts, for time heals all wounds. Choose an environment that fosters personal and professional growth, steering clear of dead-end jobs. Acts of kindness, even a simple smile, bring fulfillment. Nurture spiritual connections to navigate life’s challenges. Honesty and reliability should extend beyond your career to your daily life. Responsible travel broadens social horizons and enhances communication skills. Work for a fulfilling afterlife, remembering life is a tunnel with actions shaping your future joy. Cherish time with parents, as memories will replace moments. In conclusion, while working is positive, it comes with stress. Avoid bringing work home or involving your family in work-related issues. Recognize that work is endless, so savor your days off and make the most of your life.

We've all been asked the question, "Where do you see yourself in X years?", likely in a job interview or other similar situation. 🤔 Doesn't it imply that once we achieve a certain job title, drive a certain car, or attain some other form of external validation, we'll finally be happy and fulfilled? But what if we changed the question to, "How do you see yourself in X years?" and focused on the values we want to embody rather than the external accolades we want to collect? Imagine aspiring to be a person of integrity, discipline, and thoughtfulness rather than simply a person with a prestigious title and fancy car. If we align our lives with values that genuinely resonate with us and focus on becoming the ideal version of ourselves internally, the rest will most likely fall into place naturally - and we'll find ourselves where we need to be, not necessarily where we think we should be based on societal standards. In the pursuit of job titles, dream cars, and other external markers of success, we risk burning out, missing out on critical personal relationships, and losing cherished friendships. The external achievements won't bring lasting happiness if we've compromised our well-being and connections along the way. By aspiring to live a life aligned with fulfilling values, we create a foundation for a happier life. Whether we attain the job title, dream car, or fancy lifestyle becomes secondary to the fulfillment that comes from living a value-driven life.

🌟 Life Beyond the 9 to 5🌟 (But a 5AM thought...Lol) In my own journey, I’ve come to a crucial realization: life is about more than just a job. While our careers are undeniably important, two things have proven to be even more significant: 1. Personal Fulfillment 🌈 Through my experiences, I’ve learned the immense value of diving into pursuits that ignite our passion and bring joy to our hearts. Be it a beloved hobby, volunteer work, or chasing a lifelong dream, these endeavors breathe life into our souls and offer a deeper sense of purpose. 2. Work-Life Balance⚖️ Finding a harmonious balance between professional obligations and personal moments is essential. I’ve found joy in cherishing time spent with family and friends, prioritizing my physical and mental well-being, and carving out moments to relax and rejuvenate. These lessons have taught me that the essence of a rich and fulfilling life doesn’t lie solely in the hours we log at work but in the joy and balance we cultivate outside of it. So, seek out what makes your heart sing, and ensure that your life’s melody includes moments of peace and happiness. 💖

The biggest mistake we can make is…   …accepting the job we don’t like and can’t thrive in because we do not know ourselves well enough.   Often, we don’t know what we are good at or what we enjoy doing. The key to thriving at work and in life in general is to discover the truth about ourselves and work with it.   BEFORE TAKING A POSITION, ASK YOURSELF IF IT IS ALIGNED WITH YOUR TRUE NATURE.   Understanding, accepting and living in alignment with our true nature creates the opportunity to find truly fulfilling work and increase our job satisfaction and levels of happiness.   Finish these sentences to get to know yourself better: ➡ I am really good at… ➡ I am known for… ➡ I like/don’t like… ➡ I love spending my free time by… ➡ I am truly passionate about.… ➡ I feel good when… ➡ I am afraid of… ➡ I give this work a star because… ➡ I wish I had done this work differently because… ➡ Some things I have learned so far are… ➡ I need to work on… P.S.: Is the role you are currently in, in alignment with your true nature? Does it enable you to use your talents and strengths in a meaningful way?

Does life and work feel dry and regular or filled with hope and excitement? Do you have moments of elevation in life, or do you constantly feel like the elevator is hitting the ground floor and never really going higher? A survey (https://lnkd.in/exABzCQk) said that 70% of Americans say they their job provides them with some meaning, but 60% say that they are sometimes too busy to enjoy life. Nearly 2/3 of Americans are so overwhelmed with work that they don't enjoy life. In other words, they don't have defining moments that help them rise above the "everyday." Who wouldn't want to be the kind of person who could say that they have consistent moments where they rise above the mundane moments of life? Yes! You want to be that kind of person! And I want to help you become that person! Go ahead, click on my profile, and book an appointment! I want to teach you how to create moments of elevation in your life and work! Today, ask yourself two questions: - What chance can I take today to say or do something truly memorable? Maybe you're saying, "That's not me, Lyle. I can't/don't do memorable things. I'm not an extrovert or someone that wants attention." I hear you - but what if you didn't have to be any of those things to do something truly memorable? (Because introverts can be memorable...c'mon...don't do that! Lol) - If there something I can do today to break out of the norm? Normal makes us just another face in the crowd, leading us to become the kind of person that knows they are doing good work, but don't have permission or opportunity to truly enjoy life! People who work with me are living life, not to be normal, but to be who they truly are! This is the principle of Elevation to create defining moments found in the book "The Power of Moments" by Chip and Dan Heath. Go over to my profile, book an appointment, and let's start helping you create the moments will elevate you and others around you in your life and work! Let's GO!!

I’ve had an amazing life, Both personally and professionally. And while hard work and dedication have a LOT to do with it, It’s mainly the seven principles that I follow, That has made all the difference These aren't just strategies, They're transformative approaches... 𝟭. 𝗚𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗹: The devil is in the details, they say, and it's true. Whether it's understanding a project's nuances or appreciating the small moments in life, paying attention to details has helped me gain a deeper understanding and appreciation for the task at hand. 𝟮. 𝗘𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀: Learning to say 'no' is an art. Establishing clear boundaries has not only improved my focus and productivity but has also brought a sense of peace and balance to my life. 𝟯. 𝗢𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: Transparency and honesty in communication have been game-changers. It has fostered trust and respect in my professional relationships and deepened my personal connections. 𝟰. 𝗗𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗺𝘀: This is about taking the lead in your life. Rather than being a passive player, actively shaping your journey and making conscious choices, even in challenging circumstances, has been empowering. 𝟱. 𝗙𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗹: This principle has been a stress reliever. Concentrating on areas where I can make an impact, rather than worrying about uncontrollable factors, has made me more effective and resilient. 𝟲. 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝘆 𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀: Gratitude is powerful. By focusing on what I have, rather than what I lack, I've cultivated a more positive outlook and a deeper appreciation for life's gifts. 𝟳. 𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗯𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗿𝘀: Realizing that it's our mindset and belief system that guides us, I've worked on breaking down old barriers and being open to new experiences. This has led to personal growth and unexpected opportunities. These principles are not just practices but pathways to a richer, more fulfilling life. They remind us that while we may not control everything that happens to us, We can control how we respond. P.S. What principles guide you? 

Finding true satisfaction in both work and life is the ultimate goal for many. Here are three key points to achieving what matters: 1. **Passion-Driven Work**: Pursue a career aligned with your passions and values. When you love what you do, work becomes a source of fulfillment rather than a chore. ➡️ Take inventory of what you are good at and inspires you! 2. **Healthy Boundaries**: Establish clear boundaries between work and personal life to prevent burnout and maintain overall well-being. Schedule regular breaks, prioritize self-care, and dedicate time to activities outside of work that bring joy and relaxation. ➡️And learn to say NO, get rest and put yourself first, more so. 3. **Meaningful Relationships**: Cultivate meaningful connections with colleagues, friends, and family. Investing in relationships provides support, shared experiences, and a sense of belonging, enhancing both professional and personal satisfaction. ➡️Create social bites each day with a friend, or loved one to break up your day and share a life connection for support or a good laugh. There is no perfect work/life balance however, choosing more of what matters to you is what makes the difference. Interested in creating your life by design? Contact me for what that can entail in a customized success plan and inbox me: Life by Design.✨

Amid the hustle and bustle of daily life. We all understand the relentless demands on our time, with never-ending to-do lists and responsibilities tugging at us from all sides. However, it's crucial to pause and reflect on what truly matters – our loved ones, our well-being, and our aspirations. Picture this for a moment: a day entirely to yourself, dedicated to activities you're passionate about, or perhaps rediscovering a long-lost hobby. But more significantly, envision spending quality time with your family and friends, sharing laughter, stories, and creating cherished memories. These are the moments that remind us why we work so hard in the first place. Time is our most precious resource, and once it's gone, we can't retrieve it. While it's essential to secure our future through hard work, it's equally vital to invest our time wisely today, cultivating a balanced and fulfilling life.

Struggling to find joy in your job? There’s nothing worse than this feeling. Here are a few actions I’ve found personally work: 1. Focus on the positives: Identify the aspects of the job that you enjoy, whether it's the people you work with, certain tasks, or growth opportunities. For me it’s always those key people I see everyday. 2. Set boundaries: Establish a healthy work-life balance by allowing time for activities and relationships outside of work that bring you joy. Hiking, painting, martial Arts… 3. Find meaning: Connect with the impact your work has on others or find purpose in the skills you're developing. When I find this I try to share these skills because service to others is the fastest way I find to discover joy in a job. 4. Seek growth opportunities: Explore professional development options within your current role or consider pursuing new skills to expand your career options. Always Be Learning. 5. Build relationships: Cultivate positive relationships with colleagues and seek support from mentors or peers. Get active inside the business as much as you can. What you volunteer to do can bring you that joy your looking for. 6. Take breaks: Incorporate regular breaks into your day to recharge and reduce stress. I live to talk a walk around campus. 7. Communicate with your manager: Discuss any challenges you're facing with your manager to explore potential solutions or adjustments. This also helps your manger step it up for the whole team. 8. Explore other options: If you've tried everything and still find it difficult to love your job, consider exploring other career opportunities that align better with your interests and values. Sometimes this is you only option so never burn bridges. Remember, finding joy in your job is possible with the right mindset and approach.