Inspirations News’ Post

Several years ago, I wrote a feature about the concept of "Circles of Support" for Inspirations News. It was meant to be one article, but as I delved deeper into my research and interviewed families and facilitators, I became intrigued by the model. My one article turned into a feature section in the Fall 2021 - Winter 2022 edition. Most of us have informal social support networks – people we count on and confide in; people who help us out: relatives, friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. But for those who are marginalized due to disability, age or illness, making and sustaining relationships that are not considered 'economic exchange' can be challenging. A "Personal Support Network" or circle of support is a group of committed individuals who form a relationship with the person at the centre. Network members can be family, friends, therapists, teachers, and people new to the circle, etc. It doesn't really matter who they are so long as they genuinely care for the person and can offer support, advocacy, monitoring, or companionship. Network members grow together like a family, making it a rewarding experience all around. This support provides great relief and peace of mind to the immediate family. And instead of living on the edge of community, the person at the centre has the opportunity to become actively included in it, in their own way, with their own dreams. I received a nice response after the feature was published and was subsequently invited to share the concept with a parent group. I didn't feel like an authority on the topic, and when I voiced this concern, the invitation still stood. The session went so well, providing space for interesting and heart felt sharing afterwards. What I discovered was that many parents have already created some form of a network and weren't really aware of it. They seemed proud of themselves and the work they have done to support their loved ones. Wanting to learn more, this winter I completed the Plan Institute's Personal Support Network Facilitation Course. I have since spoken about personal networks to this same group and was able to offer more suggestions and guidance about the concept of networks, their creation and facilitation. I would be delighted to share this concept with parents of children with disabilities, professionals, those caring for elderly parents or marginalized individuals, or anyone that could use support (couldn't we all?!). Feel free to reach out. I'd be happy to chat with you!