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They say comparison is the thief of joy. How much time do you spend competing against other people or going after dreams that may not even be your own? You want to be an equity shareholder instead of nonequity. You want to work in BigLaw and not a boutique firm. You want to be number 1 in the class and not number 2. You want to be VP. You want more. There’s nothing wrong with any of those goals as long as they are really YOUR goals and you know WHY you want them. Is it for the prestige, to please others, or is it a burning desire in YOUR soul? If it’s about the money, I’ve always believed that when you do what you love and love what you do and do it with excellence, the money will come. Are the people you’re comparing yourself to happy, healthy, loved, and loving? Do they have financial abundance but are on four medications and are so time-poor that they can’t leave their desks? It’s not about them. It’s about you. Run your own race. Compete against yourself to do better. And give yourself grace if you backslide or fall down. You never lose if you learn. Don’t hate. Congratulate. That’s what badaases do.

“If it scares you, then you know it matters to you.”⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ The closer to your heart & soul something is, the scarier it will be. (Or the more resistance you will feel when it comes to turning your dreams into reality.)⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Why? ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Because it matters to you. Which means you’re putting your heart & soul on the line. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ This is why countless dreams die before they ever see the light of day. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Because the dreamer couldn’t walk themselves through their fear – and the fear won. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ We’ve ALL had these experiences. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Which is why it’s so important to get support. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ But not just any support. You need someone who will be your BELIEVER. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ (Who will see your true gifts & genius – and reflect that back to you.)⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ And someone who will hold you ACCOUNTABLE to your dreams. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ (Who won’t let you get away with *not* going for it.)⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Otherwise, we all fall back into the same patterns. Fear. Self-doubt. Procrastination. Shiny Object Syndrome. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ But you don’t have to keep repeating the same story again and again. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ If you’re ready to stop putting your deeper desires on hold – and go ALL IN – I would be honored to support you.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Phoenix starts Tuesday. It’s a 6-week journey to release what no longer serves so you can step into the New You (and the extraordinary life that’s waiting for you). ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ This is one of the most accessible programs we’ve EVER offered, with options starting as low as $333.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Details below. 

𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒒𝒖𝒐𝒕𝒆 𝒔𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝒊𝒕 𝒂𝒍𝒍 – 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏’𝒕 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒃𝒚 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒕. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒃𝒚 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒆𝒏𝒕- Eckhart Tolle Rather than trying to push your past away or to forget it or to forgive by writing endless forgiveness letters, find positive aspects in your past because there is a positive in every negative situation and focus on the present. All you have is Now, it is a sweet present moment. 𝑭𝒐𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆 𝒘𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒆 𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒂𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒔, 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒘𝒊𝒔𝒆, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒏𝒆𝒈𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅. You can go deep rabbit hole to find all your child's wounds in the past why your parents are the way they are, that your childhood was so hard, and so on, but I can tell you this is the hard way to go about it. One wise person told me once never go to the past and try to figure it out, let it go and move into the present. And I can tell you that this is the way if you want to move beyond “What Is” to the results you want. The more you dig into your past and why people do what they do more you activate within you everything that you don’t want and unconsciously you are bringing it to your present and your future is not changing. There is no time in vibrational reality. Thought is vibration so one thought always connects the past, present, and future. Now you can see that if you are talking about things that didn’t work for you in the past same things are happening now and your future is not changing. It is as simple as that. Exactly what the quote of Eckhart Tolle says. 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒄 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒎𝒖𝒍𝒂 𝒊𝒔, 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒕 𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒕, 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒕 𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇, 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒔, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒘, 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒎𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅 𝒕𝒐𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕. 𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒕 𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒏, 𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒄, 𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒆𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆, 𝒋𝒐𝒚𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒅𝒆𝒇𝒆𝒏𝒅, 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒇𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆. This is how simple it gets, once you get it 😊 #wellbeing #communications #success #entrepreuneur

This week's question is "How has life turned out differently than you expected?" Maybe it's just me, but this carries negative connotations when I hear it but it doesn't need to! Your life could have unexpected GOOD things happen! Good or bad, I would love to hear your thoughts. Read the full post, with my own answer, here: https://lnkd.in/gJpkcREi

"Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer." A timeless adage, made iconic by the Godfather films. But what does this really mean in the context of our personal journeys? For me, it's about understanding the challenges, recognizing the threats, and most importantly, surrounding yourself with those who uplift and support you. Like Michael Corleone, I’ve faced my share of trials, moments when the weight of the world seemed to press down with an almost unbearable force. There have been times when it felt like I was caught in a storm, every wave threatening to pull me under. But through it all, I’ve learned that resilience isn’t about never falling; it’s about getting back up, time and again. It’s about finding the inner strength to transform adversity into opportunity. Like Vito Corleone building his empire brick by brick, I’ve constructed my own foundation, one made of perseverance, determination, and a relentless pursuit of growth. It hasn’t been easy. There have been sacrifices, heartbreaks, and moments of doubt. But with each challenge overcome, I’ve emerged stronger, more focused, and more grateful. It’s essential to remember that we’re not alone in our struggles. We all face our own versions of the Corleone family saga. Whether it's a personal crisis, a professional setback, or a health challenge, we're bound to encounter adversity. But it's how we respond to these challenges that defines us. So, let’s embrace the challenges, learn from our mistakes, and surround ourselves with people who believe in us. Just as the Corleone family relied on loyalty and respect, we too can build strong support networks. Remember, every scar is a story, and every struggle is a setup for a comebac our experiences to inspire and uplift others. After all, as the wise words of Vito Corleone suggest, “It’s not personal, it’s strictly business.” But in the business of life, the most important deals are the ones we make with ourselves. #overcomingchallenges #mentalhealth #inspiration #personalgrowth #leadership #resilience #nevergiveup #godfather

In life we have two choices.  We can go where others won't go and say yes to where our hearts are being called. Or we can ignore the voice inside, that nudge and stay back, live small, feel safe. 🚘 One path leads to opportunities, impact, joy, circumstances transforming around you, dreams coming true. 🚔 The other path leads to same old same old, slow growth, discontent, circumstances transforming you, dreams withering inside you. At any time in your life you have the power to decide you're going to be a new version of yourself. ➡ The Lie: I'll wait for something to change so I can feel confident and then I'll act. ➡ The Truth: The situation improves AFTER you go, after you act. Courage and Belief are the parents of a little baby named Confidence. Act FROM assurance to change the world around you. Don't wait for an external sign in the circumstances around you to feel assured. If you want to learn how I step into my purpose and actively pursue my dreams (and make time for them), join us for 3 special calls over the month of October.   🎁 Save Your Seat with the link below.   When you say yes to your dreams (and then put structure and strategy in place) so many lives around you start to transform. You are made for a specific purpose and when you say yes, you are partnering in your work to deliver a much needed solution to the world.

I remember a point in time - my brain thinking, I'll be happier when... I am successful in my business/career, When I own my own home, When I get married, When I have a kid, Maybe two, Nek minute - Let's try three 😅 And somewhere along the way, When I make a bigger impact, When I own my own time, When I can do what I choose, When I'm doing what I love... When, when, when. More, more, more. This morning everything that could go wrong - went wrong. From a child night time accident, therefore linen changing, Washing machines not working, To kids bickering getting ready for school, Poor decisions, things not making progress as I'd like. In the chaos of this preparation season I'm in ----- I was forced to just stop 🛑 So I just sat outside. Gentle breeze. Sun warmth resting on my face. Slow deep breathes. OK Give it to me - What am I here to learn? And the answers showed up from different sources. 1) Live Simply, Give More, Expect Less 2) A king that knows the limits to his desires will rule a lifetime. 3) I'm not in control. Something greater than me is. So stop trying to control everything 😆 Our soul yearns for something that can't be found externally. Go inward - Find peace there. Go back to your source (whatever that may be for you).

There’s some thing serious about our willingness through tears and anger to fight for ourselves in reaching for our full potential. Reaching beyond what we can see with the eye, and reaching further than everybody else around us, though I do believe everybody has a purpose on this planet I don’t exactly believe that everybody is given the vision, there’s something greater and bigger that pulls all of us towards the center to pull our resources, knowledge, skills, abilities, and strengths together so that we can be stronger. Insecurities fears, and dumb people who we are listening to because somehow they’re just still in our lives, make it so that we slow down on continuing to reach what we believe we were meant for. I know that there is a life that we’re supposed to live because of the responsibilities we have like for me my children, my house, my companies. However, paying bills is not what I was born for. I wasn’t born to just pay bills and neither were you. Reaching for what other people can’t see but what I can feel, is my responsibility. We live in ourselves the second, we begin to see our potential through the eyes of other people. Truthfully, Besty, if you knew how great you were, if you knew what you were capable of, and if you acknowledged your strength, and looked at yourself through the eyes of your story, you would feel your greatness. You would understand all of your potential. Regardless of where you are right now, I wanna make sure you know that you are amazing. You are so special. You’re an absolute mother effing warrior. As you navigate what’s in front of you the things that are not working the things that are pissing you off and the people who are getting on your last nerves and the situation as you’re questioning God about because they just make no sense. I want to make sure you know that you already won, you were made for this. And if you feel weak along the journey, I want you to know that I am able and willing to stand in the gap for you until you feel strong enough to stand in the gap for yourself. We’ve got this you’ve got this and I want you to chase the MORE you hunger for, unapologetically. #shadowceo #more #tiffanylargie www.dofingmore.com

 How I created the most valuable thing anyone could own It took me 73 years of my life and 36 years of compiling the information. Everyone wants to know who they are, their life purpose, the reason for being alive, and how they can connect to their authentic self because that is how they will achieve success, abundance, and everything else they want. And I didn't know I had done that. I started automatic writing on February 19, 1989. It eventually turned into a philosophy. Then, I started testing it on others. I was shocked at the results. But then I discovered that what I had been doing all these years was connecting to the divine source, and that's why I can answer anyone's question when I'm doing a Wilhelm channeling session or a private session. We exist in different dimensions, and I've accessed a higher dimension that allowed me to heal. Now I can give to others. I've only told a portion of the story, but more will be coming out, especially when I do my book and after my TV appearances are released in a few months. But I invite you to check it out now, and I'll leave you a little gift: the message from February 19. "Accepting this message will change your life and the world." https://lnkd.in/gh9NXp7N As you read each one, you'll see how your mind changes about who you are. Everything is held in our consciousness, and the only difficulty we experience in life is being unable to move through those blockages. I created something that can help anyone achieve the next level or the highest level of success or potential that they possess. I also invite you to come to the next Wilhelm channeling session this Sunday, and you will see for yourself. Check out all my work, and be sure to listen to the testimonials because I know some of this is difficult for many people to believe. It was difficult for me to believe I had done it. But I haven't finished, as we never finished, but I will now. You can find it all here: https://lnkd.in/d9puW-N #rogerburnley #wilhelm #ascension #lifepurpose #selfacceptance #empowerment 

This message and video will resonate today. August 29, 2021 You always achieve your goal. We are giving you a bit of the information we will cover in our live talk today, but it would be best if you were to contemplate our words now. We said you to refer to your life but also that of your world. We used the word always to indicate the eternal nature of your being. And that you have always been in a continuous state of evolution. When you begin to accept that premise, you will easily believe your reason for being alive during this restructuring. What you are achieving during this time is another aspect of your evolutionary journey, and there was only one thing required of you that is being revealed to you now. We gave Roger two examples in his journey that confirmed his path now, and he knows that is to aid you in owning yours and this period is helping you all, and when we explain later, Roger will have fulfilled another part of his role as will you, and you all will be fine.  Wilhelm Here's the recording https://lnkd.in/gZmjEbCQ Register for the next session here: https://lnkd.in/g6TuyJ-5 #rogerburnley #wilhelm #ascension #lifepurpose #selfcare #selflove #selfacceptance