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The “Mars vs. Venus” myth is absurd. Despite research around sex, gender, and sexuality that puts the pink/blue binary to rest, plenty of modern families are still buying it, making it even harder for women to climb to the top of the corporate ladder. But why? Sociologist and author, Jessica Calarco, explores the answer in her new book, “Holding it Together: How Women Became America’s Safety Net.” Here’s the short version: — To be an ideal worker (aka, put in long hours and prioritize work), someone else needs to be managing all of life’s other responsibilities behind the scenes. — There are huge financial advantages for men with a stay-at-home partner compared to men whose partner works. — The gender myth reinforces the idea that men are biologically destined to be leaders, while women are designed to be caregivers. This makes it easier for men to feel less guilty about not easing the load women carry. — The gender myth creates a hierarchy that makes it easier to prioritize a man’s career when a family is choosing where to move, who should stay home when kids are sick, or who provides childcare. Despite what it costs women — career setbacks, stress, unpaid labor, and more — this myth affects everyone. Men can also suffer under the effects of overwork, namely its negative impact on their relationships and mental health. Breaking out of the binary can offer us all balance and open dialogue. Read more from “Holding it Together” at the link below.

Malini Radhakrishnan

Architect at Publicis Sapient | Digital Transformation | Thinker | Disruptive Storyteller | Mentor | Lead with Empathy

4w

While many industries are quite aware of these issues, what they are still struggling with is making tangible changes to not just retain but empower diverse talent. It is a catch-22, to make changes, you need to understand the challenge and make space for it and having diverse talent paves way for it, and to have diverse talent, the changes need to made. As someone who understands and lived through what triple duty means, it is painful to watch attrition of skillful diverse talent simply because industries are still too slow to course correct it.

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Moneshia zu Eltz

Transformative M&A | Board Advisor | Integration and Leadership Practitioner for Impact

1mo

Important conversations. How heavenly when we appreciate our full selves (both feminine and masculine aspects), otherwise it can feel like hell. As depicted, when a culture is slanted, all suffer. Its been delightful to work alongside caring competent women and men to turn the tables.

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Elizabeth Raynor, CHPC, BCHN

EcoSocial Entrepreneur | Board-Certified Health Advisor & Executive Coach for Global C-Suite Women Leaders | Advocate for new cultural paradigms rooted in well-being for all

1mo

Thank you for illuminating these outdated and intentionally architected narratives designed to disempower. As you've stated, they do not serve anyone, and we have an immense opportunity to rewrite a win-for-all reality.

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Lisa Chenofsky Singer, MA, PCC, CMP

Executive, Leadership, Team & Career Coach ICF | EMCC ♦ Mentor Coach ♦ Personal Growth ♦ Leadership Advisor ♦ Facilitator ♦ Master Connector ♦ CPO | HR ♦ Change Manager (CMP) ♦ Communications ♦ Instructor ♦ Trainer

1mo

Chief - Would love to have discussions with Jessica Calarco on book, “Holding it Together: How Women Became America’s Safety Net.” Excited to read this.

Laura Wooster

Transforming brands and reimagining communications and marketing to establish industry leaders

1mo

Where is the rage button??

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Jennifer Decker Mehta

Global Curriculum & Instruction Lead @ Generation: You Employed I Parental Leave Consultant & Coach

1mo

This applies in India as well.

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