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I’m doing the unthinkable… I’m posting about sex on a professional platform! Here goes… While there’s no room for sex in the workplace, I’m going to be bold and address a trend I see with my male clients that heteronormative, successful women get all wrong about their male partners. Often high achieving and sometimes breadwinning women don’t understand what sex means to their male partners; men who are devoted to their life partners. Sex is a life force for connection to your men. It connects them to their emotional center, replenishing their need to feel accepted, desired and invigorated to conquer the challenges in the world. Yes, I understand most women are often tired being the warriors in their family and often feel undervalued in your relationship; so womens’ needs also need to be prioritized too. But don’t discount or dismiss the value of prioritizing sexual play with your male partner. He’s not just greedy. It’s part of how he feels closest to you, and inspires him to be a better version of himself in your relationship. And high achieving women desire to connect sexually too. But how we get their often gets misunderstood. Take your sexual health seriously. Healthy relationships prioritize sexual intimacy and play. #CEOcoach #MarriageTherapist #ExecutiveCoach #Entrepreneur

Why do conversations about women's pleasure often seem like they're happening in a dark alley? Well, it's time to shine a light and kick down those doors! Season two of "Ladies Listen Up!" is back, and we're diving headfirst into the unapologetic, unfiltered world of sex and pleasure.   This Friday, June 28th at 7:30 pm EST/6:30 pm CST, join us on 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗲𝗦𝗼𝘂𝗽 𝗠𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮's YouTube channel, Twitch, Facebook, and Roku for a no-holds-barred conversation featuring pleasure activist and culturist Josie Pickens. We're tackling sexual stereotypes, dismantling shame, and redefining what it means to enjoy sex and pleasure beyond just "not getting pregnant."   It's time to unlearn the outdated ways women approach sex. Let's remove the shame and reclaim the narrative! Your pleasure is your power. Join the conversation, and let's rewrite the rules together.   Episode Highlights: ☑️𝗥𝗲𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗦𝗲𝘅𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗣𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘂𝗿𝗲: Moving beyond the basics and embracing full sexual agency. ☑️𝗕𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗼𝘁𝘆𝗽𝗲𝘀: Smashing the societal norms that dictate how women "should" experience pleasure. ☑️𝗘𝗺𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁: Learn how to communicate your needs and desires without hesitation or fear. Don't miss out! Tune in this Friday and bring your questions, stories, and open minds to the interactive YouTube chat. Let's build a community where no topic is too taboo.   #LadiesListenUp #SexualHealth #PleasureRevolution #WomenTalk #Authenticity #IndieSoupMedia #GRHJack #SelfHelp #Unlearning #IndieTV #UnapologeticConversations #RokuTV

Most Sexually Active Countries in the World: The Curious Case of Desire Cultural attitudes towards sex vary widely among countries. We'll dive into the contrasting views held by the most sexually active countries, such as Greece, Brazil, Switzerland, and Russia, and explore how these attitudes shape sexual behaviors.

Q: My child saw pornography, what are some next steps to take next? A: One of the biggest mistakes parents make with this topic is shaming and overreacting. Avoid shaming your child into thinking sex is inherently bad. If your child comes to you and lets you know they’ve seen pornography, you can comment and say, “Thank you so much for telling me. Tell me how you feel about that. What did you see?" A gentle approach, one that is calm and with zero shame attached will help. Once you have some information put your response into some context, such as, “It’s okay to be curious about sexual things.” This is an opportunity to follow up with love, not shame. ➡️ Positive attitudes about bodies begin from the beginning. When children are young, don’t be afraid to verbally celebrate and affirm the importance of their bodies. ➡️ Make it an unfolding conversation, not a one-time event. Lay the foundation early with conversations about bodies, puberty, sexual feelings, etc. When a child is young, teach them the correct anatomical terms for genitalia and talk about differences and similarities. ➡️ Many adults feel awkward talking about sexuality and body parts. But by communicating these terms and ideas with your spouse or partner and identifying and learning more about your own sexuality, you’ll be able to help children understand more about theirs. ➡️ While it’s important to be open and honest about sex, providing a context for it can help your child understand the why. Saying something like, “This is a special gift you’ll be able to experience with someone you love” can instill in them an understanding of the purpose of sex. If you need assistance with this concept or teaching this concept to your children, contact us to schedule an appointment. We have immediate openings at all 4 locations. 📍 Farmington, Lehi, Sandy⁠, Mesa ⁠📲 801.944.4555 📧 info@wasatchfamilytherapy.com⁠ #SLCTherapist #SLCTherapy #UtahTherapy #UtahCounseling #LCSW #LMFT #WasatchFamilyTherapy #Farmington #Lehi #Sandy #Mesa #ArizonaTherapist #ArizonaTherapy #ArizonaCounseling

Great news if you're over sixty... sex gets better! This link below is an article that was one of my many resources when I was researching sex for my book, Boomers Booming: How to Thrive After Sixty-Five and Have Good Sex. https://lnkd.in/e66X7ggk

Great news, if you're over sixty sex gets better. This link below is an article that was on of my many resources when I was researching sex for my book, Boomers Booming, How to Thrive After Sixty Five and Have Good Sex. READ ON!!

Let's talk about sex. My radio show this weekend will (hopefully) be a discussion--with my listeners--about a theme that I only address 3 or 4 times/year. I am inviting my connections and followers to ask questions about something that humans are built to do, but seldom get genuine fulfillment from anymore. Sexual relations are a very important part of our constitution. But there are many themes about this topic that I will be discussing. 1. Foreplay (elements) 2. Orgasm (dual orgasm for women) 3. Communication (about preferences) 4. Compatibility (of personalities) 5. Trust (through honesty) 6. Biochemistry (of sexual types) 7. Masturbation (psychological factors) 8. Wet dreams (interpreting them) To ask me a question about any of those topics, give me a call during the live broadcast! 888-627-6008. But please know that all of these themes will be discussed in the context of healthy, unselfish, love between committed partners. Not copulation for superficial gratification. The dynamics are very different, so the advice I give will be about being socially responsible. And emotionally accountable. If you're interested, it will be at 8:00 am, Pacific Time, Sunday morning. https://lnkd.in/gK-4TRsJ

“Some tests do show sex and race differences. These are well known: men score better on spatial visual tasks and women on verbal tasks; women score higher on measures of empathy and social intelligence than men who score higher on agency and self-efficacy. There are more differences on ability tests than personality tests usually – yet it is much easier to eliminate such differences during the development of the test. Indeed, the test manuals say so because they should/do have good population statistics. Because there may be some sex, race, age, or culture differences does not mean that these differences are not valid but rather that they need to be used in a very particular way checking against population norms. Any bias occurs in how they are used, not in what they measure – a crucial point to bear in mind”. - Adrian Furnham

Let's talk MS & sex 🍆 Check out this clip from our Womanhood series, where we sat 5 female MSers down and asked them to open up about having MS as a woman. Sex was a hot topic. Low libido, numbness, struggling to reach orgasm, fatigue; there was a lot to dig into. Sexual issues are a challenge for many MSers, both women and men. It can be a tricky conversation to bring up with your partner who might not understand what's going on; and even raising issues with healthcare professionals can feel awkward. If an MSer is experiencing sexual issues, where should they turn for help first? Share you thoughts in comments ⬇ Head over to the Shift.ms YouTube channel to watch our Womanhood series in full. Link in comments. #ShiftMS #MSCommunity #MSAwareness #MultipleSclerosis #MSAndSex #DisabilityAwareness

#prematureejaculation Bold Care Where is the creativity in advertisement heading? 🤔 First, we had to witness Poonam Pandey's demise to shed light on cervical cancer awareness, and now we find ourselves with Ranveer Singh and Johnny Sins discussing sexual wellness. While it's undoubtedly crucial to address such sensitive topics openly, it begs the question: when will our society progress beyond these limited narratives? Despite the advent of OTT platforms offering a reprieve from the tiresome K-Serial Saga, we still endure outdated depictions of women and persisting taboos surrounding sex, even during prime time viewing. It's a peculiar blend of humor and quirkiness, yet still unsuitable for family audiences during peak hours. In contrast, brands like MyMuse India demonstrate clarity and sensitivity in their messaging. For me, the recall value of these advertisements is certainly high, reminiscent of the impactful Poonam Pandey campaign. However, it seems we may be facing yet another instance of premature ejaculation in terms of long-term impact. It's time for advertisers to not only entertain but to genuinely contribute to societal progress. #Advertising #Creativity #SocialChange #SexualWellness #GenderEquality #OTT #Muse #Taboos #TakeBoldCareOfHer #advertisement #ad #boldcare #advertisingstrategies #brandidentity