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Remember when our parents would tell us to "be the bigger person" to maintain peace and show maturity? While this advice often aimed to teach us empathy, forgiveness and conflict resolution, it might be time to reconsider this approach for ourselves and our children. Here’s why: If someone consistently disrespects or mistreats us, it's crucial to recognise this pattern and take action to protect our peace. Forgiving and forgetting may work in some situations, but when negative behaviour becomes a constant, it's a sign to set firm boundaries. The Psychology Behind It: Boundaries and Self-Respect: Setting personal boundaries is essential for maintaining mental health. Boundaries serve as protective measures that safeguard our well-being and reinforce our self-respect. Allowing ongoing mistreatment can lead to feelings of low self-worth and increased stress. By establishing and maintaining boundaries, we’re affirming our value and ensuring our environment supports our health and happiness. Empowerment: Taking a stand against mistreatment empowers us to reclaim control over our life. Empowerment is about actively choosing what's best for our mental and emotional well-being. It means making decisions that reflect our worth and refusing to tolerate disrespect. This proactive approach helps to build confidence and reinforces our ability to protect ourselves. Impact on Other Relationships: When we allow mistreatment from others, it often manifests in other ways or relationships. This can lead to a cycle of accepting disrespect and can negatively affect our interactions with others. By addressing and cutting off toxic relationships, we set a precedent for how we deserve to be treated and create healthier dynamics in all areas of our life. Remember, self-care means prioritising our mental and emotional health, so let’s surround ourselves with people who respect and uplift us, even if that means not being ‘the bigger person.’ #SelfCareSunday

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