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Proofreader Lecturer of Music Composition Guitarist Specializing In Flamenco as an Instructor Mentor Advisor. My musical career has been filled with a range of experiences. These experiences brought me great success.

Part l For The Benefit of Our Child’s Life The ability to have a child does not make one a man or a father nor one a woman or a mother. It is the raising of one’s child that does so, for being there for them daily, nightly, hourly, minute by minute, at every second, which can be difficult, stressful, and time-consuming, is what it takes to be a father and a mother. Catering to their needs and desires is the core of a parent’s curriculum while teaching them assertiveness and independence. As it has been said, those are the fun moments. This means showing them how to work the differences between them and their siblings. That will help them learn to understand how to work together with others outside of their family. It also means how to become persistent in their endeavors. Having the resolve to cultivate and manage our children’s lives is conducive to helping them grow mature and valuable minds. In an environment we create for them, if it is a healthy one, they then thrive because of the nurturing they receive from us. Courage and strength are required when raising a child. After their conception is announced, the rules change in our lives, and they must be accepted without question. Life is no longer about us but about our children. All avocations, methods of recreation, if possible, even one’s vocation, are to be put behind us or, at the least, on hold. It is our child or children who need us full-time. Our responsibility is them, and excuses for not being there for them are and should be anathema. There is not anything that we would not do for our children. They are our lives, and we choose to have them. Even if this were not so, if any of them were ‘unplanned’ or even ‘an accident,’ an abhorrent term, we do what is necessary for them. That means going above and beyond our responsibilities to our children. In Judaism, it is said that we each have chosen our parents. Moreover, we have a choice in choosing our parents, for we wish to learn from the experience, be it a good or bad one. That is the Jewish tradition. #parenting #parentingtips #parents #parenthood #parentsupport #parentingjourney

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