Let me welcome myself to Texas
I landed in Texas yesterday and have already been out in the pasture checking on the animals. Every year we work cattle to get them branded, take some to the sale barn, treat the cows for any ailments, and look after them overall.
It’s a neat experience leaving the office to come work cattle and it always brings me back to the roots of how I was raised and the feel of hard physical work.
This is also the time when I get to be Uncle Brian. Getting to watch my nieces and nephews learn how to gain the trust of animals, experience the responsibilities of taking care of fences, and stacking hay is really neat. I know the pain the feel at the end of these days! These kids are incredibly talented and just brighten any day.
As I’m taking this all in, I have been making a point to stop and reflect on how I can absorb these moments in a lasting way for my kid’s and my own growth.
Starting with the trust of the animals. Mom and Dad bought some Shetland Ponies for the kids to get used to with less intimidation. When we first meet these horses, they don’t know us and tend to either run or cautiously step away as we approach.
We slowly demonstrate to the horses that we are of no threat and only mean them well, and they slowly respond more openly. In fact they get to where they look for us to come to them.
It doesn’t take long until these horses are fully interactive with the kids and trusting them to climb all over them.
To get the full benefit of the horse, we have to first earn its trust. I feel like this is a characteristic that isn’t isolated to horses. Often times to get the full benefit of our teams we work with, neighbors, and friends - we must first earn their trust.
My favorite part about this is that it isn’t new. It isn’t earth shattering, and it’s not even difficult. It’s something that I can do myself!
While reflecting on this, I’m enjoying that something so simple and raw to my behavior is my focus today.
Meet our ponies and donkey below.
#leadership #followership #farming #family