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I am embracing unsubscribers. Let me explain! As a newsletter writer, the worst feeing I used to have was when I learned that I had an 'unsubscriber' 😱 I made it mean something about ME. They don't like me. They don't like my writing. My newsletter is sh*t. I'm not valued. I'm not valuable. I'm not good enough to do this. (Insert lots of self-deflating thoughts here!) And I'd have a small panic that soon there would be no one left on the list except for my mum! (Yes, she was my first subscriber...and hasn't unsubscribed yet! 😉 ) But then something flipped. I realised that I've unsubscribed from SO MANY newsletters and subscribers list over the years. Should I start feeling guilty for each time I unsubscribe? Is it a 'personal dig' at the writer when I unsubscribe? Does that mean they're not valued or good enough or liked? The answer to all these is NO. I have unsubscribed from lists because it simply wasn't relevant for me anymore (and yes, the odd time because it just felt like pushy sales or borderline SPAM). I have then also resubscribed a couple of times later on in life when the time was right and I was ready for it. I'm starting to really embrace unsubscribers because, even thought that sounds a bit wrong for someone who puts their heart and soul into every weekly newsletter, the more I write, the more I realise that if you unsubscribe, that is helping keeping my list filled with those that actually want to read my content and resonate with it. No one wants to hang around with people that don't actually want to be there with you or enjoy your company or what you have to offer. The goes with a newsletter or in business. If people aren't really in to what you're putting out, that's their choice and it doesn't need to reflect how you view yourself. I don't take it personally anymore when someone drops off the list I happen to be a HUGE fan of decluttering and so when someone unsubscribes, they are taking aligned action and removing clutter from their life that isn't adding value to their life or isn't giving them what they want at that time. That's great! No one wants an inbox filled with sh*t they're not actually reading or interested in. It's as simple as that. When things happen, when people drop off, whether that's in life or in a newsletter or wherever, don't make it about you. Realise they are free to make their choices that align with that they want and that leaves more room and energy for you to spend on things that are more aligned for you too! It's a win-win! So...if you're interested in insights and strategies that prioritise YOUR wellbeing to develop your sense of confidence, inner-peace and ease in life, then my newsletter might just be the thing you want in life! https://lnkd.in/eCa6izjS And you can unsubscribe at any time. No personal offence taken! 😉

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Johanna Goodsell

Virtual Assistant for Small Business Owners | Inbox & Diary Management | Blog Writing | Mailchimp | Social Media Support

9mo

Better to have a small yet engaged audience, than a large and uninterested audience!

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Bushra Ashraf

Empowering ambitious female OSPs to attract their dream clients through authentic and non-manipulative content | Got 13 inbound leads under 2 weeks | Content Marketing Coach

9mo

Love your take on this. Unsubscribing doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with your writing. It’s just that the content isn’t relevant to them. And yes, we all want only relevant audience. So, what’s more helping than unsubscribing themselves? Martina Jay

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