Mind Unlocked NLP OPC’s Post

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You said you want today we would be talking about the Mets that, you know, NLP has been dealing with for the, you know, 5 decades now. And it's amazing to even, you know, encounter such things, which are of course. I think there are no scientific basis at times or you know, people say that it is pseudoscience or, you know, there are a lot of interesting things that people come up with. So our intention of definitely today's, you know, podcast is to just clear all those misconceptions so that people can have a clear image on what actually NLP is and how it can transform you, how it can benefit you if you are basically some of, you know, the people who are really want to. Look for transformation in their lives, right? Alright, so moving forward. Let's start, let's dive very deep into the effect and let's debunk the myths and let's uncover the truth, right? I have been in the field of, you know, psychology and comparatively you can say clinical psychology where it is more about therapy and other fields of psychology are not more of therapy like sports psychology education, They're not more of therapy, but clinical is more about therapy. It's about pathology. It's about, you know, dealing with the course, the, you know, error that's going on in a day-to-day functioning, right. So there is this particular statement that psychologists come up with that. NLP is incompatible with psychology. They cannot coexist. What would you say? What would you say about it? How do you take it? I how can it not coexist with psychology? I mean, for example, let's say you have a, you have a, you have a patient, you're in a clinical psychologist, you have a depressed patient with mental health. Number one, you can use metaphors, stories to loosen the grip of the problem. Then you can do meta models to just keep on asking the questions, going deep dive. Those are already NLP techniques, right? Report the first time that your client will sit down when you mirror and match, when you build so much support with your client, your client will open up compared to having a psychologist that doesn't have report, right? If you're the client, will you share your problems? I guess not, right? But if you have report, your client will just manage. This is my problem, my father did. Just to me, so you already know where to start. So all of those are all NLP and these are all just basics, basic, basic tools and techniques that we learned. What more when you learn about prime concern, right? What more when you learn about values? You know their values, the reason why they're doing this, and. I feel that. And look, this is just so fast when you add in timeline therapy and hypnotherapy, right? Uh, see, uh, coming from game, you know, the background is similar background. And being a psychologist student, I think something that has taken me from here to here in my career is annual P because I felt like, you know, this might vary culture to culture because academics vary city to city and country to country at times. Majorly, they vary country to country, I felt like. That there was a need of more techniques. There was some, you can say desire that I would have like a good toolkit when I'm sitting with my client and I need to have a diversity. I would want to go a little above then CBT or psychotherapy, you know, or you know, other, you know, there are humanistic approaches, existential approaches, but I would want something quicker, something at times I would want to have like, you know, I would not want to apply the same 2 to 3 techniques. To every single client that's coming, I would want more diversity. So I think NLP for me as a practitioner was a bonus. It was like, you know, if I was working at a level of 1X, it made me 10X I would say because I became more equipped with dealing with every sort of, you know, clients and then. It helped me to understand people more, I think, uh, certain loopholes. I felt that, you know, maybe there are so many contradicting theories in psychology again. So I have felt like, well, which one to follow or which one to go through. But NLP added more evidence for me, you know, to understand what was the right way or how to connect the dots, integrating psychology with NLP to understand that there is a very. In line between a normal functioning person and pathology that are real disorders. The real disorders cannot be treated without medicine and that is not your domain even as a psychologist or a clinical psychologist. That is a whole chapter to be taken over by a psychiatrist. So anyways, we are not going to dive into medicine. So differentiating they're not putting the clinical tests to every single person coming, you know, to you and you start like, OK, let's start. DIY, you know, depression, inventory splits do I would always, now this is my ways and methods improve because I would simply look at the person and if I think if they're receptive enough they can follow my instructions, they are doing great. I would simply just keep doing an LP with them and I'll be with them. And in my entire career I have just came across 2 clients that had patrolled pathology issues. Right. The disorder people I had to refer to people only, all other were receptive enough. They produced a transformation without any use of medication. And I, I recently read a research of World Health Organization which stated that only one out of eight people would have a disorder. So the seven, you know, the seven ratio is all normal functioning people. Why do label them with their disorder? Because this was very much against labeling, he said. It's like putting somebody into a box. I would go every single dimension to make sure I'm not putting a diagnosis to a person. I would make sure even people come to him and I I was city. Would you be able to treat me and I said who said you have it? So you did it. Ohh there on doctor Google and I said please don't rely on that right. So I would just quickly take them to all the things and then create the change. Why to put them under medication or a diagnosis. Yeah, two cases have been they were not receptive to my instructions. We cannot take an L. Forward them then it gives me like a red signal that I now need to take a psychiatrist on board with me and I did see so we know our ethical boundaries and when people say that, you know, there is like a difference between psychology and NLP and I said no, they both go hand in hand because if it's a normal functioning person, why would you want to give them a diagnosis? It's not like a gift package you give to everyone, right? It's it's it's really serious putting a label to someone's entire life right. So that is. So that's again something that people come up with. June is. Why some psychologists remain skeptical of NLP at the end of the day? What do you think why that happens? Well, number one, it depends on where they trained, right? For me, it's very important for the trained NLP or even if they did attempt to, to try out NLP, they must have just read NLP and then just base it on their on what they've read, not they didn't even try it out. Because if they tried it out, they realized that it's really very beneficial in their practice. Because for me, if you're in the health industry, if you help people, you need to have more tools. Just like what you shared earlier. Not everyone fits the bill, right? So you need to help can work here, CBT can work here. So you need to have all those tools. Don't rely on one tool alone. Because we are in the help industry, we are giving them a disservice if that's the kind of mindset that we have, right? I, I feel that, uh, we need to strive always to equip us with different tools. That's also what I tell my students. I tell my students, don't limit yourself. If you feel that you need to, to learn more other modalities, then go for it. Go for it exactly correctly. Learning should never stop, even we as, uh, you know, because I am currently, you know, discovering and hypnotherapy, right? And I am like diving deep into it. I'm trying to understand. And when I feel like I have, you know, got some perfection in it, I would, you know, definitely go for practicing it, training it right? So we, we, we, we do take time to understand things, to comprehend them. And then, you know, finally take a decision to become, you know, an ambassador of a particular, you can say. Intervention because we have to go forward and deal with people every single day. If we are going without an evidence of good practice and evidence of good, you can say authority that is backing us, you know, we would be completely lost in like. Second or third case, I think you can never develop a career unless you have completely you can say taken into account every aspect of it. You would be found, you know, you would be found just, you can say, uh, struggling and just even making a career of that particular thing. So you know, when you say that, you know, I don't know from where they have done it. So this has been something really interesting. So people would just go to an online website, do some NLP course and. Start practicing it. You don't have a proper trainer, a proper body, a word you are not getting, you know, back-to-back practice. No one is supervising you. You just see two to two to three techniques in like Google or maybe you go to like some workshop at 2-3 day workshop, you know, yeah, it's one of the things. So it's not about Nope. It's how you teach it because you know, if there is a child and I teach them that A is written. Inverted, they would go and say AA is inverted because that's how I taught them, you know, in the 1st place. So for you, A is how I caught you at the end of the day, the first experience of you understanding what it is, right? So when you have this particular experience from somebody who is not licensed and experienced and having a lack of knowledge on the subject, your concept of NLP becomes very ambiguous. Because the source you saw was ambiguous to learn from basically. So I feel like, you know, there is always going to be, for example, Oxford. Oxford University is one of the amazingly, you know, performing universities in the world. You just go to a local university and you study a discipline there. And in contrast, we are studying that particular discipline in Oxford. Do you think there's going to be a difference? Of course you know huge. That is the same thing with NLP. You have a 2-3 day workshop from and not even a proper certified trainer and then you come up and say NLP is ambiguous wigs who do good for you because you never discovered how actual NLP was. So I think when people come up with certain disciplines, I say how would you say the chocolate cake is really bad unless you have tasted it in in from in the true means. So unless you have gone through the real aspect of. LP you have done the interventions in IC to people. Please before calling it pseudo learn an OP and take 30 to 40 client. Come with me, you know, you know, come with me, tell me the stats. You know, I took 40 clients. I am certified from a proper trainer. I am applying this. It's not working. I then sit with you and have a good argument before that I do not consider you, you know, in that way that I am able to, you know, at least what should I discuss with you, right? So I say at least learn it, practice it, and then say I took 40 clients, it didn't work. Don't. Then don't do it. Offer something else, but before being in the field, I think any statement that you come up with would would not make justice to your sense of, you know, credibility at that point, right? Thank you so much, June. It was so good to talk to you. And I was I was completely relating to everything, every single thing that you said. And it did open new doors for me. Also, you know, being able to get more references and how to assist people to understand. The Mets are just myths and there's a whole beautiful reality to what they are missing on in life. And I think I would be able to add more value to life of people. And thank you so much. And till the next episode, see you. And inshallah we will be coming up with something more amazing in the next episode. Thank you everyone for who is watching and stay tuned for beautiful amazing insights on NLP coming very soon. Your way. Thank you.