World Mental Health Day was yesterday and I was just being reminded how easy it is to overlook how it plays out in our day to day life.
I still remember the first time I had a panic attack at work. I couldn't even say that it was panic attack because I didn't have the word for it. I just felt my heart was racing fast and my head was spinning. I was stuck in a job with toxic environment, plus nagging coworker that I had to work closely with. I failed to do a simple task, let alone doing a complex project. I forced myself to get up everyday because I had to make it work to pay the bills. Every time that feeling came, I ran to the bathroom or my car just to catch my breath.
I felt like I couldn't share it with anyone because there's this pressure of self-image. "Why would a bubbly cheery me struggles with this?" or "I'm a strong person, this is a small thing. I should be able to handle this." Those are the narratives that keep playing in my head. It wasn't until a friend noticed the change in my behavior and asked me a simple question: "Patty, how are you really doing?" I burst out crying.
Everyday, we are given a chance to connect with others, whether it is our coworkers, neighbors, relatives, or strangers. I'm guilty of just throwing a simple how are you question just because it is the society's norm of saying hello.
Friends, how can we be more thoughtful in connecting with others? Do you notice anyone around you that may need some help? Or in what ways can you be more intentional with your circle?
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