Patients get mad at me all the time. But it’s usually just a reflection of how well (or poorly) I’ve stated a boundary. To be clear, I have the best patients, and they respect my limits. But they also expect me to be clear and upfront about them. Too many physicians worry about the appropriateness of their clinical boundaries not realizing that they’re completely reasonable. The boundaries themselves are not the problem. Sometimes it’s just the delivery. We never mentioned them in initial visits or we were a little too lenient that one time and now we’re firm and rigid. Clearly articulating our boundaries can make the difference between a stressful day filled with complaints and a streamlined schedule. It means getting home on time, with no guilt, and enough energy to enjoy your time at home. And THAT’S how we show up day after day. I have availability to walk through this work with you one on one. Send me a message and we can go over this on a coaching consult. #physiciancoaching #physiciancoach #boundaries #boundariesarehealthy
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Sometimes, patients walk into our practice with concerns that go beyond a stubborn bit of popcorn stuck in their teeth. They might grumble about a specific treatment, express hesitation about a procedure, or seem withdrawn. But before jumping to conclusions, consider that the real issue might lie deeper—like peeling back the layers of an onion. The key is to gently peel back these layers, one question, one conversation at a time: 1️⃣ Ask Open-Ended Questions: Encourage patients to share more by asking questions that prompt them to elaborate. Their words can offer vital clues about underlying concerns. 2️⃣ Suspend Judgement: Listen without interrupting, and let them know their feelings are valid. Creating a safe space for open communication is essential. 3️⃣ Become a Partner: Your role isn't to dictate solutions but to guide them in understanding the root cause. By working together, you can identify the core issue. Reaching a resolution requires a shared understanding of the problem. Once you peel back the layers and uncover the true source of their concerns, you can work together toward a solution that builds trust and strengthens the patient relationship. By helping patients peel their own onions, you’ll address their immediate concerns and build stronger, more trusting relationships. And that’s the recipe for a practice filled with happy, healthy smiles. 😁✨ #BetterPracticeBetterLife #PatientCare #DentalPractice #TrustBuilding #PatientExperience #ListeningSkills #EmpathyInAction
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I coached several physicians in the last month who are drowning in shitty jobs. There were more similarities than differences. What can I do instead of medicine? I need to get out but don’t know the next best step. I want to start a business but it’s overwhelming. I’ve been dreaming of having my own DPC practice but that feels impossible. But what almost every single one of them needed was rest. They either felt unworthy of rest or it didn’t occur to them to address their exhaustion. It’s scary as hell to take time off to “just rest” but our lives depend on it. Suicidal ideation and attempt increases when an exhausted human is unable to envision a future in which there are less mental/emotional demands. That is medicine for most of us. Talking with other physicians helps. Getting permission (that you don’t really need) from a supportive peer helps too. There’s free coaching available inside the Rebel Physician community, along with dozens of other resources. Join at www.RebelPhysician.com
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People pleasing is not the same thing as providing patient-centred care. We've absolutely seen a shift in how we provide care to our patients, and I want to be clear that this is a good thing. Certainly, serving our patients must include understanding their perspectives, their wishes, their fears, and their goals. Patient-centred care focuses in on these things. It does not, however, mean that we cannot use our clinical judgement. Rather, it asks us to use this judgement but also to explain it and to maintain consistency with it. We can come up with care plans that are both safe and respectful. This requires us to assume the best of our patients, to communicate clearly and honestly, and - of course- to establish boundaries around our care. And we must do this consistently. ✅ Patient-centred care means we do our best for each individual, considering both their desires AND our boundaries. ✅ It means we show up predictably and consistently because we've interrogated our reasons for how we practice. ✅ And it means we re-examine our logic with each person we serve. Easier said than done? Happy to walk through this with you on a consult - send me a message. Curious to hear what have your patients taught you lately about providing good care? What clinical boundaries support this? ⬇ #physiciancoach #physiciancoaching #boundariescoach
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