I just thought about something that happened to me last weekend that makes a good metaphor for what happens in the job market..
I was in Las Vegas last weekend for the NRL (Australia) opening doubleheader, but first, I made a stop at the Pinball Hall of Fame, which is a warehouse that houses a lot of older working pinball machines. I first played a game that would have awarded me a free game if it had bothered to count the end-of-ball bonuses I had earned. I left that game after one play and looked for another machine.
I saw one of my all-time favorite machines, a game called Subway from 1966, but it was out of order. However, two machines over was its' free game version called Crosstown. I put a quarter in and played a game. I then put another quarter in and the game started to glitch to the point where if I breathed on the machine, it would award a free game. It was not due to my play, but rather the glitching of the machine that kept awarding free games.
So, what's the metaphor? Sometimes, a person can do everything right in a job and not be properly rewarded. Sometimes, what we want to do is unavailable because the conditions aren't right. Sometimes, if we're in the right place at the right time, we can get whatever we want.
Now, for neurodivergent people, the most common scenario seems to be the one like the machine that doesn't award the end-of-ball bonus. I went from being called a "wizard" in 2020 to bringing more goodwill to the department in 1000 words than the rest of the department had done combined in 2021 (thanks to the article) to being out the door exactly one year later. I earned a second masters degree, so what happened? Well, the end-of-ball bonus was not given to me and it was made clear that I was never going to get it. So I decided to get another job (play other machine). Now, the current situation isn't like the free game awarding every 5 seconds machine, but I'm patient and waiting to aim my shots and earn the rewards.
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