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Tennis coach of Naomi Osaka | CEO & Founder of the Mouratoglou Academy & UTS | Sports Business

Most tennis players lose more than they win. For champions, the ability to build a game, a mindset and a team is key. But the ability to fuel ambition after painful defeats is also crucial. Here's the truth: it's okay to suffer after losing a match. For great competitors, and especially great champions, the pain of a loss can be a great feeling after all. There is only one good way to deal with failure, and that is to accept them and let the pain inspire you. I've learned that a guy like Pete Sampras, who was No.1 in the ATP rankings for six years in a row, who was the all-time leader in Grand Slam titles with 14 before Roger Federer came along, could barely get out of bed for two weeks after a difficult loss. He was destroyed. With Serena Williams, losing a match was always a crisis; she was extremely hurt. And that’s a good thing. It meant that she cared so much. In a way being hurt is what gives you the strength to fight even more, to work even more, because you don't want it to happen again. A loss shows you the light and helps you to understand what you have done wrong and what you could have done to achieve the ultimate goal – victory! If your goal is to be a champion in the future, embrace the losses that come your way. Remember: the past is the past. You only can learn from it. Losing is not a big deal, it’s just a drop in the ocean that represents a long, successful career. You can – and will – lose, but you have to make the most of it when you do. Do that and you’ll be a winner for sure. #PatrickMouratoglou #coaching #tennis #sports #mental

Philippe MARIANI

INTERNATIONAL AFFAIRS / Sophia Antipolis Foundation

6mo

I can’t talk for Pete Sampras or Serena Williams but I can for my son who played tennis from 3 to 18 years old 20 hours a week and I will always remember how one day he was so devastated by his loss I could see in his eyes all the despair, the end of the world, so devastated that he was shaking uncontrollably..he thought he had won the match leading 5/2 and serve to finish the match off ..yet it didn’t happen and I am sure that he remembers that specific lost vividly , these losses built his ambition as a man today , not in tennis as he has stopped to pursue his studies but in his every day life he shows audacity and tenacity..definitely linked to his times he was playing tennis losing or winning and I am very proud of him ..

Tarun Gulati

Founder of Contemplate | Improve your clarity of thought, focus and peace of mind at work and relationships through Contemplation

6mo

Hi Patrick we can now significantly reduce this problem. The reason why Pete, Serena and others had to "deal" with it is because formal mental fitness training is missing in sports today. Serious intent from coaches exists. The guidance exists. But they don't go through a formal mental fitness and technique training program like they go through their physical fitness and technique training for hours each day. Ask an athlete: 1. How many hrs did you train your body last week? 2. How many hrs did you train your mind last week? It is like feeling bad about not being able to return a serve when you never trained for it. Can't prepare a player by just motivating words but no practice. If they don't do their mental push ups/pull ups/lunges, they can't just handle the mind magically. No one can. For an athlete, the pressure is 100x more. Contemplate (formerly Adios) has a 52 week (~ 1000 hrs) mental fitness training regime for pro athletes. We are currently training a few coaches and starting to engage with the NBA. Our system complements your existing training regime and fits into it. You can leave the mind of the athlete to us completely. If the mind gives up, all physical training can go to dust instantly. Let's have a chat?

Ali Bagach

President Primarystone

6mo

Complément d'accord. C'est dans l'échec que l'on se forge un mental d'acier. Se rappeler de la douleur pour ne plus que cela se reproduise. La victoire n'en sera que plus belle.

Yaxi 亚西 Pintado Xu

International Business | China

6mo

Champions hate to lose more than they like to win 

Ravindra Jain

Seasoned Enterprise Sales, Strategy, and Customer Success Leader (Enterprise SaaS, Gen AI, CXM, Hyperautomation, WFO, IPAAS, OSINT, Blockchain)

5mo

I think, while losing frequently can be demoralizing, champions maintain balance by using losses as opportunities for rapid growth and improvement, allowing them to bounce back quickly and avoid prolonged periods of struggle.

Torsten W. Kern

Experte für Sport und Vertrieb ☑️ Marketing Fachmann | ☑️ Digitale Strategie & Vertrieb mit acameo | CUUUB | Lebenslanges Lernen | SSWIM

6mo

Losing helps to improve your skills, physically and mentaly and it sometimes gives you more motivation and help what to do to improve. Even if it is hard, the top 1 percent will get a response from a defeat💪 and will come back stronger 🏆.

James Corry

Librarian III (Business/Entrepreneurial Outreach) at New York Public Library, Storyteller, Facilitator, Marketer, Connector, Public Relations and Researcher

6mo

Patrick Mouratoglou a great post. Taking a loss as a sign post enables one to learn from their mistakes and improve their game going forward.

Mike Baker

Helping the CFO’s office achieve better outcomes

5mo

If I recall, Sampras claimed his most influential match was his loss to Edberg in the 1992 US Open final. Edberg attacked his backhand relentlessly and broke down Pete. Pete decided he would never let that happen again and developed a crushing and powerful backhand to be ready for the next time someone trued that again.

Patrick, I always enjoy your posts and the anecdotal connectivity your insights offer to the road to becoming a “champion” in any of lives worthy endeavors. Thank you.

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