"The only way to deal with fear is to face it head-on." – John Maxwell
Nearly twenty years ago, I stood at the threshold of my career, brimming with enthusiasm and energy. I believed the toughest battles would be against the long hours and the relentless grind. Little did I know, the true challenges lay elsewhere. I discovered that the real stress came not from the work itself but from avoiding the tasks I knew needed to be tackled. It was procrastination, driven by fear of the unknown, that became my greatest adversary.
I remember early on, there was a project that I kept avoiding. It seemed complicated, and I didn't feel ready to tackle it. Every day, I would push it to the next day, and the stress kept building. Finally, I decided to face it one day. To my surprise, once I started working on it, it wasn't as difficult as I had imagined. Completing it gave me a sense of accomplishment that I hadn't anticipated.
Avoiding challenges only makes them grow in our minds, making them seem scarier than they are. But when we confront them directly, we often find that they are manageable, and dealing with them can lead to unexpected growth and opportunities.
This isn't just something that applies to me. I've seen it work for many others, including my team and staff members, no matter their field. Whether it's a tough project at work, a personal goal, or even a difficult conversation, facing it directly brings real progress and satisfaction.
Confront your fears, tackle your challenges, and you'll uncover a resilience and strength you never knew you had. The rewards are always greater than the fear itself.
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2moSometimes "Imposter Syndrome" is the very rational awareness that you're not qualified to be doing what you're doing. I know it sounds mean but if someone had told that Australian breakdancer she was bad at breakdancing instead of telling her she had imposter syndrome she might have had some self awareness and might not have humiliated herself and her country in front of the entire world on live TV. The truth is if you're constantly asking for help, you're not an expert, you're not getting high marks, you're not achieving and you're not naturally gifted -- you're not good at what you're doing. Do something else. Or you're a beginner, and that's fine, but what you need there is humility, not confidence.