๐๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐ญ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฌ (๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐) During a SPEAK event, I discuss how effective boundaries reflect the intersection of our values and priorities and are a way of letting ourselves and others know what is most important to us, what we will and wonโt do in the world. Comment below and let me know what boundaries you will put in place today.
Dr. Carrie Johansson | The Boundary Castle: How to Set Effective Boundaries | SPEAK: Disrupt
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Clare Price
5mo
Really resonated with your point that Effective boundaries reflect the intersection of our values and priorities Dr. Carrie Johansson. I think there is a misconception that boundaries are just saying now when you are fed up. A question - how do you handle it when you try to set boundaries and people will not respect them?
I love putting up boundaries, but I am definitely a work in progress. One of the toughest ones is wanting to respond to every email right away.
"Oversharing" is all too common these days. Having solid boundaries can make your relationships and your life so much easier. I particularly like your example of using boundaries as the gates to your castle.
Joel Harrison
5mo
My goodness! I can't believe that lady was hanging out in the same bar as the married man she was seeing, who was with his wife - and then proceeded to tell you about it. Great perspective on boundaries, thanks for sharing.
I am always looking for new tips around boundaries! I am always working at adjusting my own boundaries and making sure I am protecting myself.
Dr. Carrie Johansson, 20 years ago, I had a coach tell me "No is a sentence and stop explaining why you can't do something." I am so much better at boundaries today. Thank you for helping all those that are strugglign with this.
Dr. Carrie Johansson boundary setting is absolutely critical in work and life - so glad you're covering this. I often need helping SAYING NO to more on my plate
Julie Ulstrup
5mo
This is great Dr. Carrie Johansson, one of the boundaries I've been sharing with my clients is not to overshare.
Mark Fewsmith
5mo
Dr. Carrie Johansson I am working on setting boundaries in both my personal and professional life, It is an ongoing opportunity to see what develops as I try to manage these relationships with new 'improved' boundaries!
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5moBoundaries Dr. Carrie Johansson!!! I feel like they need a new word. I'm always working on them and my notice-ing gets better all the time. Here's my struggle: When my "no" will impact both me and my child's friends/parents/school community etc.