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Can you do a humblebrag or celebrate success the right way? I think you can and, more importantly, would actively encourage you to do so. Why? You've worked hard for this. Earned your right to be recognised. Won an award, got a nomination, topped the table. Then someone tells you you didn't celebrate it the right way? No. No, no, no, no, no! No! They have no idea what you did to get that result. The work you've put in. An inaugural directories nomination? Go for it. An award win? Literally tell me about it and I will be at the front of the queue to like that post. Every time. I have had a glimpse of what it takes to achieve that recognition as I have worked alongside lawyers for 25 years. Please do not allow others to take it away from you. Beyond your own hard work, representation matters. If you're cowed into not sharing/ celebrating your successes, told that it's humblebragging or that posting is boasting, then ask yourself this: who does that serve? Who benefits from you not posting about that success? How should you share a success? By telling us how the recognition made you feel. If it's heartfelt and genuine, and timely, it will *always* resonate with your audience. Always. Let's take the example below (which isn't my success but rather the success of one of the women I love most in the world: young Meg). The sheer joy on her face in this photo made me cry this morning when I got it through. I've seen the pain, heard about the early starts and witnessed the upsets that came before it. I know that she was offered a chance to appear at the British rowing champs at short notice and grapsed it with all her might and claimed gold this weekend in the mixed fours. I know - an actual Marshall actually winning something. I'm always proud to be her dad, but I'm unbelievably proud today - mainly because of that smile. Not all first years at university are easy. But maybe this one got just a little bit easier? Love you, Meg. Celebrate your successes, people. And I will always help you to do so too. #SimonSays #DadLife #Lawyers #LawFirms #LegalProfession
👏👏👏👏 gorgeous and brilliant post!!! Well done Meg and my goodness you should be shouting about her from every roof top in the land! Can’t believe the post I wrote last night was on the very topic of why the phrase humble brag has made its way into Linked In and the law. Freaked me out when I read this earlier today Simon. Thank you for sharing this celebration!
Congratulations Meg!
LOVE THIS. Well done, Meg! I hate all that sh*te about humble bragging (which I’ve been accused of this very week). Celebrate good times (come on), I say…
I had a similar conversation with a friend yesterday. She was criticised for celebrating her own successes yet it also criticised if things are going her way!
This is amazing!!! Go Meg! 💪💪💪
Success should be celebrated and celebrating other's success is part of that. There's nothing wrong with telling people about something you are proud of achieving or of what someone else has achieved. Congrats to Meg (and you!).
Amazing!! We’ll done Meg. There are always people willing to push you down. So stand up & shout!
Authentically talking about something - should be that person's right. You earn the win, you have the right to decide how to talk about it. Well said!
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3moCongratulations to Meg and you, her proud dad. I agree that people need to celebrate wins and to learn from losses. It’s all about authenticity. If you are genuinely ecstatic, share that emotion. Share what it took to achieve it. Inspire others to try as well. It’s the humble brag we all don’t like. Especially when people actually write the word “humbled”. Alarm ‼️ bells go off that they are showing off.