I Choose Optimism I Choose Optimism The voices can be overwhelming at times. "Are you crazy? Why would you try to do that?" "There's no way you can reach a goal that big!" "Here's a list of all the reasons why this won't work." Sometimes these messages come from those around us. Most times they're our own voice spewing negative self-talk at us. I choose optimism. I had a period of my life where I had fallen prey to these voices and it sucked! Instead of finding the reasons why something is possible, I focused on all the potential issues and obstacles as to why it wouldn't work. The result? I was not only miserable from a mental health point of view, but the results in my business took a hit. When you’re focused on the problems you’re less likely to do the damn work required to win‼️ I made a choice to be optimistic. Not foolish. Not careless. Just positive and confident that I could figure out how to win. Of course there will be challenges, but these didn't have to consume my head space. How about you? Where's your optimism? Are you focused more on what could be than your problems? This is an edge for your success. Optimistic people operate at a higher frequency. They have better energy. That energy is contagious and attractive to others. People want to work with optimistic people. Today, make it a point to see the possibilities. Make it a point to silence any negative self-talk that could hijack your success. Live Unafraid👊🏻
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CHARACTERISTICS OF PEOPLE WITH HIGH SELF-ESTEEM: It's important to remember that self-esteem is a journey, not a destination. Everyone experiences ups and downs in their self-esteem throughout their lives. However, by focusing on developing these characteristics, you can build and maintain healthy self-esteem. Self-acceptance: They appreciate themselves and their unique qualities, including their strengths and weaknesses. Confidence: They believe in their abilities and have a positive outlook on their potential to succeed. Resilience: They can bounce back from setbacks and challenges without feeling discouraged or defeated. Healthy boundaries: They set healthy boundaries in their relationships and are comfortable saying no when needed. Assertiveness: They can express their needs and opinions in a clear and respectful manner. Empathy: They can understand and share the feelings of others. Gratitude: They appreciate the good things in their lives and are thankful for the people who support them. Openness to growth: They are always learning and growing as individuals. Sense of humor: They can laugh at themselves and find humor in life's challenges. Living authentically: They stay true to themselves and their values, regardless of what others think.
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“The Pessimist Sees Difficulty In Every Opportunity. The Optimist Sees Opportunity In Every Difficulty.” – Winston Churchill How to transform your life with the power of positive thinking: 1. Think about what you want to achieve and why We all have hopes and dreams in life. Sometimes, however, we get so down that we think we’ll never be able to achieve what we set out to do. The best way to combat this is by reminding yourself why you chose that goal or that dream. 2. Do everything in your power to achieve your goals There’s a lot of ways you can go about achieving your goals in life. You can break down your goals into mini-goals to make it easier for you to achieve something. When you achieve a milestone, treat yourself for a job well done. 3. Talk to yourself out loud Hearing your own voice can sometimes do wonders for your thoughts. When you do talk to yourself, try not to be too loud especially when you’re in public, and you’ve got other people within earshot. People may think you’re crazy. It’s okay to talk in public, just learn to modulate your voice, so you don’t get stared at. 4. Learn to say “yes” Learning to say “yes” is important. If you’re the timid type and you always hear the word “no” in your head, then it’s time for a change. You may even be surrounded by people whose favorite word is “no”. Just ignore them especially if you know you’re doing the right thing. When you learn to say “yes,” you become more positive, and you start enjoying life a little more each day. 5. Drown your negative inner voice with positivity The best way to block out your negative inner voice is by replacing it with positivity. If your inner voice is pointing out all the negative things about something, then point out the positive things! Talk it out with yourself. Being objective is not the same as being negative. 6. Look for positive things always . You’re probably inundated with negative things the moment you wake up or the moment you step out of your comfort zone. Don’t you worry. There’s always two sides to a coin, don’t ever forget that. 7. Be genuinely happy for other people’s success One of the things that negative people dwell on is their jealousy of other people’s success. They often compare themselves to successful people. Just because their friends have made a name for themselves and are now success stories, they start feeling sorry for themselves. Don’t feel bitter if your friends can no longer hang out with you as often as you’d like. 8. Practice positive affirmations Positive affirmations work when you believe in it. If you don’t, then you’re simply uttering senseless and meaningless words. Affirmations help motivate you and encourage you to push forward against it. 10. Think happy thoughts and just be happy Happy thoughts often lead to happy feelings. This is why remembering fun times and happy moments is always a great idea when you’re feeling down.
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🚀✨ In life, you’ll encounter two types of people: those who drain your energy and those who fuel your passion. Negative people may try to pull you down, sowing seeds of doubt and discouragement. But strong, supportive individuals? They’re the ones who lift you up, inspiring you to rise above challenges and stay true to your path. Surround yourself with those who believe in your potential, and watch how your life transforms. 🌟💪 1. **Recognize the Impact**: Understand how the company you keep affects your mindset and motivation. Negative people drain your energy, while strong individuals uplift and empower you. 2. **Set Boundaries**: Protect your energy by setting clear boundaries with negative people. Don’t allow their pessimism to infiltrate your life. 3. **Seek Positive Influences**: Actively surround yourself with people who inspire you, encourage your growth, and support your journey. 4. **Be Self-Aware**: Reflect on how interactions with different people make you feel. Notice when someone consistently brings negativity into your life. 5. **Stay Focused on Your Goals**: Strong people help you stay on track with your goals, offering guidance and encouragement when you need it most. 6. **Be the Strong Person for Others**: As you seek positive influences, strive to be a source of strength for those around you. Empower others by sharing positivity and support. 7. **Cultivate Resilience**: Develop the resilience to rise above negativity. Strong people not only help you get back on track, but they also help you build the strength to stay there.
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✓ Take Full Responsibility for Your Life Why, it's essential. Because:) 1. Own Your Journey Your life is entirely in your hands. No one else will take responsibility for your choices or actions-embrace this truth and own your journey. 2. Embrace Self-Reliance Depending on others to rescue you from challenges is a losing game. Develop self-reliance and resilience to navigate through life's obstacles. 3. Master Your Mindset Your thoughts shape your reality. Cultivate a positive, growth-oriented mindset to empower yourself in every situation. 4. Take Control of Your Actions Every action you take today influences your future. Be intentional and proactive in making decisions that align with your goals. 5. Build Your Strengths Focus on honing your skills and strengths. Investing in your personal growth is essential to creating the life you desire. 6. Overcome Fear and Doubt Fear and doubt can hold you back, but they're often self-imposed. Confront these feelings head-on to break free from limitations. 7. Create Your Success Success is not a matter of chance; it's the result of deliberate effort and persistence. Take full responsibility for creating the success you seek. #Responsibility #Decision #Overcome #Creation #Strength #Actions #SelfReliance
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