Dr. Taylor Day’s Post

🤔How do I know if my child’s behavior is due to their disability or if they are doing it on purpose? For those who were not able to make it to the decoding behavior workshop live earlier this year, the REPLAY is available! Here is what we covered: 🧠What is happening in the brain and body when a child is in a stress response 💭Reframing our thinking to support during a stress response 🔎Spotting intentional behaviors and how to teach them a better way 🏃♀️Getting ahead of behaviors by preventing stressful situations 🫂Understanding our own triggers as parents so that we can show up for our kids in these moments Keep watching a free preview at the link below 👇 Become a paid subscriber $18/month or an all-access member $275/year to unlock this workshop. Head over to Substack for more on subscription options 💚 https://lnkd.in/gNDSzBew #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #raisingautism #neurodivergentfamily #parentingadhd #adhdparenting #parentingautism #parentingishard #neurodivergence #decodingbehavior #stressresponse

Calling all who are adhd curious. Maybe you feel you are never enough, always striving to be more, prioritising others emotions over your own, find it so difficult to switch off, on edge expecting to get things wrong… Welcome to my journey of self discovery and reconnection presented to you in this unique, holistic retreat meant for you. I am offering this to you with the support of a select group of amazing practitioners who have been part of my story in some way. On this weekend you will experience greater self awareness of your body, mind, emotions. You will experience self compassion, empowerment, relaxation and understanding. It will impact on your life. You will experience transformation in a way that is safe and supported. You will experience connection with others at a level you feel comfortable with… there will be no rules and regulation other than mutual and self respect and kindness. All activities will be voluntary, processing will be internal but with the option to share if it feels helpful. Accommodation is fully inclusive with single room occupancy (shared rooms available if requested). I know this is going to be amazing - not just for you - but for all the practitioners taking part. The healing and loving energy is going to be off the scale. This is the first time I have run this retreat- I have plans for more but one step at a time- the cost is a beta price and the numbers are strictly limited to 30. There’s no sales page, no automated link, no funnel - this is an organic offer intended to reach people who feel aligned and instinctively feel this is right for them. Sign up will be the personal touch - comment below ‘retreat’ or DM and I will contact you. Join us on an amazing journey 🫶 #adhdempowered #adhdselflove #adhdjourney #adhdhealing #selflove #adhdretreat #beliefcoding®️

⭐ New Resource ⭐ All About Autistic Meltdowns: A Guide For Allies https://lnkd.in/g6Ntr_U3 An Autistic meltdown, also sometimes referred to as an autonomic storm, is a reaction to feelings of intense overwhelm, distress, or dysregulation. Although some may see an Autistic meltdown as a tantrum, or worse – as someone being manipulative to get their way – that is not the case. A meltdown is not a conscious behaviour that can be changed, but rather an uncontrollable response to overwhelming feelings; a physical reaction to an overwhelmed brain. Too much information from sensory or cognitive stimuli triggers the automatic nervous system, which then signals to the brain that the person is in danger. This results in behaviours of distress, which can manifest in a variety of ways. Read more to learn: • What does an Autistic meltdown look like?; • Autistic meltdown triggers; • The warning signs that a meltdown is coming; • Autistic meltdowns in adults vs. children; • How to help an Autistic person during a meltdown; and • Is preventing a meltdown possible? Read our free resource here: https://lnkd.in/g6Ntr_U3 #AskingAutistics: What do you wish more people knew about Autistic meltdowns? What does a meltdown look and feel like for *you*?

Today I am thinking - as I often am - about autistic outcomes. I’m thinking about myself, my closest friends, my family - living and deceased, my local autism group, and the global population of autistic humans. We are an entire population affected by complex trauma and PTSD, regardless of age of diagnosis. We also have a plethora of physical health comorbidities, both genetic and as a result of long term stress. We have to navigate the research and make sense of how to make practical use of it alone, individually, gleaning what we can from social media. We form our own online groups, to share what we have found and made sense of. Whole lives. We are tired. We are the first generation to have even this, so we are also processing and navigating how our autistic parents are/were impacted by the lack of community and knowledge. Many of us - not me- are also parents to autistic children. We are desperate to break the cycle of generations of trauma, dysfunction and poor outcomes. As a community we really only have each other for psycho-social education and resources. Nothing is provided to us upon diagnosis, which for many of us occurs due to the traumatic and confusing experience of autistic burnout. Many of us don’t survive this. I am not aware of any public health programmes specifically for autistic adults, in the UK or anywhere else. Does anyone know of such a thing, anywhere in the world? Must be autism affirming, must be at least co-produced if not fully produced by the autistic community. Grateful for any leads. Thank you 🙏🏼 #autisticcommunity #autisticadults #publicmentalhealth #publichealth #mentalhealth #suicideprevention #earlymortality #healthinequalities #autismpublichealth

🎄✨ Christmas is here, and it's a wonderful time to spread love and understanding! 🤗 Let's make this season extra special for our friends with autism by creating a warm and inclusive atmosphere. 🌟 Here are a few tips: 🎁 Keep it calm: Bright lights and loud noises can be overwhelming. Consider quieter celebrations or create a quiet space for those who need a break. 🤝 Share understanding: Some might not be into hugs or crowded gatherings. Respect personal boundaries and find other ways to show you care, like a friendly smile or a shared activity they enjoy. 📅 Prepare ahead: Changes in routines can be tough. Giving a heads-up about any schedule changes can make a world of difference. 🎨 Embrace creativity: Engage in activities that allow for creativity, like making holiday crafts or playing with sensory-friendly toys. Remember, the best gift you can give is acceptance and inclusion. Let's make this holiday season merry and bright for everyone! 🎅🎉 #mentalhealthtip #mentalhealthnj #mentalhelpadvocate #childrenmentalhealth #mentalhealthsupport #behavioralhealth #childmentalhealth #iicservices #lcsws #psychotherapist #lsw #lpc #psychologist

💚WORKSHOP REPLAY: Understanding and Supporting Anxiety in Neurodivergent Kids In this workshop you will learn: 👀 How to spot anxiety related to bedtime, school, tests, & social interactions 🏃♀️What behaviors look like defiance but are actually anxiety 🌀How to figure out patters of anxiety and strategies to get ahead of it 🫂How to explain anxiety to your child so they feel more in control 🦹♀️ Strategies to support your child’s bravery and how to make decisions around situations that cause them anxiety To unlock this workshop you can… 💚Become a paid subscriber for $18/month ($180/yr) and get access to monthly parent workshops + advice threads OR 💚Become an all-access subscriber for ($275/yr) to unlock the full archive of workshop replays and auto-enroll in the next year of workshops. Watch a free preview at the link: https://lnkd.in/gWatAyvQ #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #neurodiverse #raisingautism #neurodivergentfamily #parentingadhd #adhdparenting #parentingautism #parentingishard #anxiety #supportinganxiety #anxiouschild

Very few of us grew up being allowed to be exactly who we are We had to hide our real feelings or thoughts for the sake of connection. Later, finding it natural to ignore our own needs, desires, perspectives and feelings and no longer remembering this as a pattern we learnt For many, this wasn't necessarily a problem.. until having kids Ignoring your own experience, needs and feelings, when also managing the inevitable challenges and frustrations that come with raising children doesn't work. And is the reason that many parents find it hard stay pay patient with their kids even though they don't want to be shouting at their kids so much This is one of the changes when you do the emotional regulation programme. An undoing of these past patterns. Weaving in a new way to connect with your true experience authentically. Of understanding yourself with compassion. Of feeling heard. Of being supported. So instead of the explosions, you find that when you're true and attuned to yourself, and have the tools to manage what comes up for you, you naturally cope with the challenges and frustrations your children bring with more patience, grace and understanding. These changes don't only affect you, but ripple out to your whole family Clients tell us that they're come off their antidepressant medication, they're no longer chronically anxious, it's better than any therapy they've had before, their partner and kids are more calm as a result, the family is more harmonious, they enjoy being a mum again. These are the changes you get when you break the cycle and seek to change the patterns you inherited The next cohort of the programme is starting in January. Please send me a DM or comment below if you're ready to change these patterns for you and your family and we can chat to see if it's right for you #consciousandcalm #cognitivebehaviour #cognitivebehavioraltherapy #consciousparentingtools #selfcare #boundaries #changingpatterns #breakinggenerationcurses #prioritiseyou #bethecausenottheeffect #busymum #selfcompassion #emotionalregulation

🦓 WORKSHOP FOCUS 🦓 Autistic burnout: What is it and how do we spot the signs? Join Kirsteen Wilshere to explore what burnout is, what the signs are and how to support your child if you feel they may be experiencing burnout. Autistic burnout is under-recognised but can have a devastating impact on children who will have done everything they can to keep going in a world that often isn’t meeting their needs. 🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿 The 🌟 Connective Parenting Conference 2024 🌟 presents 10 powerful workshops, all online and 2 ticket options this year: Option 1: Conference LIVE – Join live in real time, enjoy Q&A at the end of each workshop, a pop-up Facebook Group and replays available for 4 weeks – all for £65. Option 2: Conference Replays – Subscribe to replays and join a pop-up Facebook Group – all for £49. You can read the conference details here, including all 10 fabulous workshops: 👇 https://lnkd.in/dRXN8qJ5 #ConnectiveParentingNVR #AutisticBurnout #Autism #Neurodiversity

One of the most heart-breaking things a parent can hear is a child being mean to themselves. As adults, we can feel helpless in these moments and are quick to say something to negate our child’s statement like “Of course you’re not stupid” or “Don’t say that; it’s not true.” But, responding with comments opposite of a child’s thoughts can feel dismissive and leave them feeling emotionally alone. So what are we to do? In this workshop you will learn: 🦋Why your child is engaging in negative self-talk 🦋What's happening emotionally for your child in this moments 🦋Why mistakes are harder for neurodivergent kids and teens 🦋How to help your child understand their brain and needs for support 🦋When and how to help your child practice frustration tolerance This is a paid workshop replay ($37) OR included in an all-access membership to the Substack community 💙 Head to the link below to get the replay! https://lnkd.in/gTY_JWzN #parenting #parentingautism #parentingadhd #parentinganxiety #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse #raisingautism #neurodivergentfamily #teachingkids #elementaryschool

Do you feel like you fail as a mother and just can't get your kids to eat well? Learn how to raise body confident kids and stop food struggles.  https://lnkd.in/dx_aCNSm You can empower your kids to eat well and listen to their bodies. Though it's not your job to make them eat well! Emma shares real strategies that you can implement right away.  Discover how to stop making your kids feel guilty and ashamed of what they eat and how they look. Eating disorders are way too common and pose real danger to our kids, so do listen to this episode to support your kids have a healthy relationship with their bodies and food. Emma Wright, the founder of Raising Body Confident Kids is an internationally recognised expert in Eating disorder prevention, parent training and public speaking. Having worked with hundreds of parents in her coaching practice and online programs Emma has proven that conventional parenting tools used to prevent body image issues are flawed at best, and offers a powerful new approach for those who are worried and frustrated.  www.emmawright.co.nz Free mini-course: https://lnkd.in/d9JtWMMg Your host: Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race. FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life www.shedesires.live