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This Sunday, I find myself reflecting on the incredible journey I’ve had as a full-time carer to my daughter, Holly. For 18 years she had complex health needs from the moment she was born, and those years brought a unique set of challenges, but also profound opportunities to make a difference. Through Holly’s story, I was able to engage with a community of people, sharing experiences and insights that helped drive meaningful change in the lives of others. I learned firsthand about resilience, empathy, and the incredible power of advocating for what’s right. The conversations, the awareness raised, the lives impacted—those moments continue to fuel me with purpose. As I reflect on this chapter, I deeply miss that side of my life. But I also recognize the strength and growth that came from it. Through those years of care and advocacy, I discovered a power within myself I didn’t know existed. And even now, that strength continues to guide me in everything I do. To anyone who may be facing their own struggles or who is in a caregiving role please remember your journey, no matter how difficult, holds within it the seeds of change, both for yourself and for the world around you. You are stronger than you realize, and every step forward, no matter how small, is progress. Keep going, because the impact you make today may shape a better tomorrow for others. #Caregiving #StrengthInAdversity #ReflectAndGrow #PurposeDriven #GoneButNeverForgotten #BereavedMum #MyHol💗 WellChild Together for Short Lives
forever proud of you 💙
So inspiring, I hadn't realised when we met at Christmas bucket collecting for Woodlands but I remember Holly from post pals it was only when I saw this. Keep doing what you are doing.
You're a star, keeping doing what you do 💪
Always proud of you 💖
You were wonderful in the role of parent, carer, advocate and your impact continues ❤️
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welled up. This is massive stuff and having met you only once I'm buzzing that you're a merry soul with so many qualities, hardcore and warmth to name just two Hayley Smallman
You are an amazing person Hayley, it was a privilege to meet you this week. ❤️
Wow Hayley, having not known this until now, I thought you were a strong positive woman, you truly are an inspiration!! Sending luv and hugs