Toronto Life Magazine’s Post

#Redefineparenting We all have a unique spark and want to shine bright! But sometimes the world feels different than we imagined. This journey is all about learning to love ourselves through all the changes, big and small. The more we understand who we are, the cooler we become and the better we can navigate life's ups and downs! ✨ 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞, 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞: https://lnkd.in/gYRhpYAZ

Growing up is tough for any teenager, but living in #ResidentialChildcare adds a whole new layer of challenges. All I ever wanted was to fit in, to be like everyone else, but it's hard to do that when you're coming from a different place entirely. Going to school, I’d see kids talking about their families, their weekend plans, or some silly argument with their siblings. I couldn’t relate to any of that. I didn’t have the same stories, and it always made me feel like I was on the outside looking in. One of the hardest parts was feeling different and not wanting anyone to know. I didn’t want people to ask about my home life because, honestly, I didn’t want to explain that I didn’t have a “normal” home. Living in residential care, there’s always a sense of being watched, of rules and routines that other kids just don’t have to deal with. I remember lying about where I lived or making up stories just to avoid the looks of pity or curiosity. It’s exhausting trying to keep up with all that, to pretend that I was just like everyone else. And then there’s the emotional stuff. I had days where I felt completely alone, even though I was surrounded by people all the time. Caregivers, no matter how kind they are, aren’t the same as having a family. It’s hard to open up and trust when you’ve been moved from place to place or had people come in and out of your life. There’s always that fear of being let down or left behind again. To all the caregivers out there, I want you to know this: we see how hard you work, and we appreciate it. But sometimes, what we need most is for you to check in and really see us for who we are and what we’re feeling. Even when we act tough or say we don’t care, it's because we’re just trying to navigate a world that feels overwhelming and uncertain. It’s not just about providing us with a roof over our heads; it's about helping us feel like we truly belong, like we matter, and like we have a place where we’re understood. Your patience, your understanding, and even a small word of encouragement can make all the difference. They can help us believe that we’re not so different, that we do have a place, and that we can make it through. #CaregiverSupport #YouthEmpowerment #TeenChallenges #FosterCare #Belonging #MentalHealthMatters #ChildhoodTrauma #ResidentialCare #OvercomingAdversity #FittingIn #YouthAdvocacy #CaregiverAwareness #SupportSystem #EmotionalWellbeing #TeenStruggles #ChildCareAwareness #SupportYouth #BreakTheStigma #YouthVoices #FindingYourPlace

🌟 Empowering Parents, Transforming Lives: The Journey of The Parent Help Center 🌟 Dear dedicated parents, especially the moms who are feeling at their wits' end, we hear you. As a parent coach, I understand the weight of the question you carry in your heart: "How successful is The Parent Help Center?" I want to answer you with the candor and hope you deserve. Success here is not a one-size-fits-all measure. It's deeply personal and profoundly impactful. It begins with something we know you have in abundance—willingness. When a parent arrives, ready to embrace our parenting plan, the transformation is remarkable. We see it time and time again: coachable parents who walk this journey with us experience incredible success. And perhaps the most compelling testament to our effectiveness is our longevity. For 23 years, The Parent Help Center has been a beacon of support for families. While the landscape of parenting advice has shifted and businesses have come and gone, our doors remain open. This endurance speaks volumes about our commitment and the trust parents place in us.   We're here to offer more than just advice; we're here to partner with you on a path to peace and harmony in your home. That's our pledge to you. From one parent to another, let's walk this path together. 🌈 🤝 🏠

Podcast Episode 216 with Call me CEO How would your family benefit from hiring a professional nanny or household manager? Listen now and tell us your thoughts!

The 20 second rule to save you from yourself. Research has shown if you need 20 seconds to initiate a task, you’re more likely not to do it. So if you want to read instead of doom-scrolling your phone. Put your phone 20 seconds away from you. And put your book right next to you. I’ve added a 20 second delay to Youtube. It has been annoying yet gloriously effective. --- We want to make bad things less attractive. And good things easier. Family governance then needs to be easy. You need to remove barriers to access. Because if you don’t, people won’t engage. Even when it’s good for them. Consider: Family meetings → Provide or pay for childcare Family governance → Get a good facilitator that people like Family events → Pay for it (if the family can!), make it central, plan in advance There isn’t a right answer here. Because every family is different. You’ll know best what yours needs. ___ Want to learn more about how to choose a brighter future for your family? Click my name and follow for more. Tim Yeung

Finding the right child care can be harder than dating. From long lists of potential matches that don't work out, to awkward introductions, to ghosting, working moms desperately need help. Six weeks is the average amount of time it takes to find the right child care provider who fits what you need! The struggle around child care is a perfect example of how technology can reduce the time and hassle of a process, the way it transformed the effort we used to have put in to take a picture, or pay bills, or book travel. That's why MomSub gives parents one provider match who fits their criteria, and a simple step to book a virtual interview and schedule care. If you think all parents deserve a quick and easy way to find, arrange and manage child care, join us. We're looking for others who believe in our mission. #childcare #workingmoms #childcareprovider #nanny #caregiver #techstartup #foundingteam #founder #entrepreneur #angelinvestor

How to support a loved one who is a single parent - Happiful Magazine Single parents face unique challenges as they are managing all aspects of parenting alone, while also balancing work, financial responsibilities, and ... More Info. https://lnkd.in/daNGKsZc  #TheAsiaHawk #Webtribeinc #davesacademy 

In this podcast, Dr. Anyoha identifies four types of fathers: 1, those who play an active part in caring for and raising their children from day one; 2, those who are bystanders, who leave parenting to women; 3, those who would rather wait until their children are older and relatively independent before they begin to play a role; and 4, those who are unavoidably absent or excluded from caring for their children.  Dr Anyoha underscores the crucial role of early father involvement in caring for and parenting their children. This knowledge empowers fathers to take an active role in their children's lives from the very beginning, setting the stage for a strong and healthy parent-child relationship. Parenting behavior that generates the connecting tissue of love, affection, and relationship begins early and is part of parents' routines. Things like being around your baby, holding them when it might seem they might not tell the difference between you and another person, talking to them when it seems they might not hear you—-they do. Locking eyes with them when it might seem they might not recognize you—they do.  According to Dr Anyoha, though mundane, these activities are the building blocks of bonding and quality infant-parent relationships, ongoing inner well-being, and the capacity for the child to begin learning, acquire words and use language, learn words and speak, and gain knowledge.  A father's approval holds significant sway over a child's behavior. Boys, in particular, who have not bonded well with their fathers may exhibit resentment and rebellion through misbehavior and trouble-seeking. This behavior often stems from a deep-seated desire to gain their father's attention, highlighting fathers' profound influence on their children's emotional development.

Parenting coaches, it appears, are the real life supernanny’s for the average family. But they don’t come cheap. Parents are willing to fork over hundreds of dollars because they don’t have anywhere else to turn for help. Read the article here: https://loom.ly/HMJLh5A -- Subscribe to the Intellectual Takeout Newsletter: https://lnkd.in/gSXhhPCi #parenting #parentingcoach #parentingadvice #family

To all the new #workingmoms out there, here are a few reminders from someone who's been there: It’s the small things, like giggles and silly mishaps, that make everything worthwhile. Sure, I’m proud of my career and the things I’ve accomplished, but the tiny, bright memories make life well-lived. The honest truth is that there will be hard days, weeks, and even months. It's okay to drop a ball or two. Just remember these two simple words and repeat them to yourself often: "It's okay." And when the going gets tough, lean on your support system—your partner, your friends, a sympathetic ear. Reaching out is a strength, not a weakness! Here's to you, #mom: cherishing the small stuff, accepting imperfections, and seeking help when you need it! #plusonemeetings #founder #childcare #benefits #workingmom #worklifereimagined #yougotthis #advice