https://lnkd.in/dGQq7gcP If they love what they - they'll do what they love. Probably the most important video I've ever done. It still breaks my heart to see so many sporting systems around the world hanging on to the outdated, out of touch model where every child who picks up a tennis racket or jumps in a swimming pool or kicks a football - should be, must be, has to be on the "pathway" to being an elite athlete. We - and I include my former self - have got this so wrong. Create the sports experience where kids fall in love with sport. Why? Because if you love what you do - you will do what you love - i.e. they keep coming. The only kid who doesn't improve is the one who isn't there! and increasingly - again supported by research all over the world - organzied, competitive sport is dying. It has been dying for many years - covid merely accelerated the decline. So this is my plea: Coaches, parents / carers, sports administrators, sports leaders - PLEASE move on from the "every child must be an elite athlete" version of sport. Put it to rest. It's the 1970s model of sport. Let it go. Instead, focus your energy, your passion and your resources on creating wonderful, connected, engaging, safe sports experiences for every child, inspire them to believe in themselves and give them the opportunity to fall in love with sport. Then - the ones with talent and passion and commitment and resilience - will - if THEY choose - become high performing athletes. It's time we all shifted our mindsets, our attitudes and our focus from the performance pathway to the participation playground. #waynegoldsmith #wgcoaching #sport #sportsparticipation #juniorsport #sportscoaching #sportingsystems #sportsparenting #sportsadministation #sportsperformance #highperformancesport
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7moGoing with mindset, attitude and focus shifts from performance pathway to the participation playground.(Great soundbite)…. I spent half my working life in secondary school classrooms – fitting teaching and coaching swimming in and around that – and the other half in swimming development at Regional and County level, teaching and coaching at local level in England. Whether in classrooms or on sports fields and in swimming pools, solutions to wider participation and more inclusive sport and physical activity lie the ‘curriculum’ content and the outcomes valued by policy makers. They are products of dominant cultures and discourses. My question is who has ears to hear and eyes to see the perspectives covered here? With due respect they are not new – powerfully advanced here for sure - but we are where we are. Sadly with a long long way to go. The conversation at every level has to change. Sector leaders and governing bodies have a big part to play in that. Thanks for keeping part of the conversation going