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🌟When Life Gets Tough, It’s Time to Reset 🌟 Last week was rough—actually, the entire last month has been a challenge. From drawn-out processes to candidates dropping out due to holidays, no feedback, and candidates ghosting—it's been one thing after another. I found myself spiraling down a rabbit hole of negativity, but then I realized something crucial: nothing is worth losing your happiness over. So, I decided to take a break, breathe, and hit the reset button. And in doing so, I’m learning to quit a few things that only add to the stress: ✅ Complaining:We all get frustrated, and sometimes we seek validation for why things aren’t going our way. But here’s the truth—complaining only fuels negative energy, making everything seem worse. Instead, let’s shift our focus to what we can control, or simply let go of what we can’t. 🙄 ✅ Having Expectations: This one is a game-changer! Expectations can be a silent killer of happiness. When we expect too much, we set ourselves up for disappointment. Whether it’s a work outcome that didn’t go as planned, That Shien dress being better left on the app, or even the unpredictable UK weather (32 degrees with no aircon, anyone? 😅), let’s take a breath and be grateful for what we do have. No expectations = no disappointments. ✅ Holding Onto Things: Let. It. Go. It sounds simple, but it’s tough, especially when you care deeply about something or someone. I’m someone who gives 1000% to those I care about, but I’ve learned that holding on too tight can actually push things away. Loosen your grip, trust the process, and believe that what’s meant for you will come—sometimes, you just need to create a little space. 💕 💫 Believe in Your Worth: You deserve everything good that comes your way, and sometimes, letting go is the first step to receiving. Positive energy attracts positive outcomes—so let go of what’s not serving you, and get ready to welcome what’s waiting for you. 💕 From my world to yours—keep striving to be better than you were yesterday, and trust that things will work out. 😍 Terry PayneOlivia NolanChloe GuerinMichael Farmer #Resilience #MindsetReset #PositiveEnergy #SelfCare #LettingGo #PersonalGrowth #HappinessMatters#techsales#recruitmentlife